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anonymous
writes:My ex was very selfish and basically used me for sex. I lost my virginity to him and he took advantage of that. He was, however, very giving during sex, which I find really weird. He would always go down on me and I only did it a couple times for him and he never asked or forced it. Why was he so giving during sex and not any other aspect?
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reader, Seven_Deadlies  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Because he was using you hun. I've been there and it does suck. My ex actually told me that it was a way to keep me coming back for more, for a while it was true, then I saw clearly, but no one should ever use you like that. Be glad he is your ex and you didnt make the same mistake I did :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Speaking from a purely personal viewpoint, I get just as much pleasure, if not more, from making sure that my partner is being pleasured and seeing her orgasm than having one myself. It does the male ego a world of good when that happens. It's a turn-on to see that what I'm doing is having the desired effect. I get more pleasure from giving than from receiving when it comes to oral sex. I'd guess you ex is of a similar mind to myself.
But he's your ex now and hopefully you won't be taken advantage of in future encounters.
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