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I'm cheating on my husband and don't know how to stop!!
Q. i am cheating on my husband with one of our friends... it has been going on for the past three years. but we never had slept. we only kiss. but i dont know how to stop. it's like i am addicted to him...
A. 13 March 2010: hi guys just wanted to updated on this situation...me and lover stopped talking since september but i still miss him every single day and not a day goes by without me calling to his mobile to hear his voice...the reason we dont talk is that he ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only??
Q. Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only?? I'm getting paranoid lol help me thanks! =)...
A. 29 August 2007: you dont have to worry...you will not get pregnant by doing this...dont get worked up but next time try to be careful... (read in full...)
Life can be so unfair... the man I fell in love with ditched me and got hitched to younger lady!
Q. I met a man last year and we spent a lot of time together. I fell in love with him but he suddenly changed and wouldn't speak to me.I was also very hurt because he met someone soon after me and married her after just 5 months. She is 14 years ...
A. 23 August 2007: well my dear you just have to move on. you're simply missing him and that is why you think of him . try to occupy your mind and dont wait for their marriage to fall apart to pick up the pieces. get on with your life and show him what he is missing ... (read in full...)
I always feel that other people are better than me. Why?!
Q. hey. What i have always felt throughout my life is other people are so much better than me. Why? I have been told i am pretty lots of times yet i still feel like everyone else has something that i don't. Why am i so insecure about what i look like...
A. 23 August 2007: its quite normal to feel like this at this age. you have to realise that many people arent like you. you ave your own uniqueness and other people have their own.dont put you down like this. give yourself some credit and it will get better. you are ... (read in full...)
I have been in a relationship for 7 years now with a married man with wife and three kids.
Q. Hello, hope all of you are doing well with god's blessings upon us every day. My question is I have been in a relationship for 7 years now with a married man with wife and three kids. I am a moslem am not growing younger, he is a roman catholic p...
A. 22 August 2007: hi...7 years is a long time to be a mistress.. dont u think so?
i know its hard cos i am quite in the same situation as you. the difference is that i am the one married and i have been in relationship with my lover for the past 4 years now. thin... (read in full...)
I want to leave my husband, but dont have a clue how to get started
Q. hi there.. i am in deep trouble again...i want to leave my husband but i do not know where to start or where to get help. i also have a child to consider as i am not willing to leave her with my husband. i want to start a new life possible far away...
A. 22 August 2007: i have decided that i do want to do it. we have been married for the past 8 years and the relationship has been going downhill for the past 5 years. it has come to the point where do not want to be in the same room as him. i do not have any ... (read in full...)
I want to leave my husband, but dont have a clue how to get started
Q. hi there.. i am in deep trouble again...i want to leave my husband but i do not know where to start or where to get help. i also have a child to consider as i am not willing to leave her with my husband. i want to start a new life possible far away...
A. 22 August 2007: ya sorry flower girl..i live in uk...and i am from a srilankan background..my child is gonna be 3 in october and i am 25.... (read in full...)
I am now married but my feelings for him havent changed
Q. i have met with my ex boyfriend after not seing him for the past 8 years. even though now that i am married and have a child, my feelings for him havent changed. he's going through a divorce and we just met as old friends. i dont know what to do....
A. 11 February 2007: thx to everyone for answered me. but me and him have been talking non stop and the feelings is mutual. i love him and he loves me. we parted because we were too young and our families didnt agree. but now i am 25 and he's 28. my marriage has been ... (read in full...)
The only way his sister can come here is if he divorced me and married her. I don't know what to do. Help!!
Q. my husband sister lives in india. she is bedridden for the past 10 years due to an accident. her family have tried to bring her to london but no luck. now there are saying that there is only one way possible. my husband surname is different to her ...
A. 9 December 2006: they havent made an application for her with the immigration. my husband changed his name 15 years ago. all his papers states that he has a totally different family. there is no way that the authority could link him with his sister.... (read in full...)
The only way his sister can come here is if he divorced me and married her. I don't know what to do. Help!!
Q. my husband sister lives in india. she is bedridden for the past 10 years due to an accident. her family have tried to bring her to london but no luck. now there are saying that there is only one way possible. my husband surname is different to her ...
A. 7 December 2006: thank you for all your answer. to answer to everyone's question, when my husband came to london he had to come under his aunt's name. all his certificate states that he is the aunt's son. so i dont think that his papers will be a problem. i said ... (read in full...)
I thought I could let her go after she got married but I can't! What should I do?
Q. She just got married with this guy, but we still having strong feelings and we can not stop caring and feeling for each other. I'm 34 and she is 23, we met one year ago and we dated for 8 months we felt in love, our work made things difficult...
A. 3 December 2006: i think you really need to decide what will happen if her husband find out. i am in the same situation as you. like her i am married but am in love with another guy for the past 3 years. but we never had sex. we love and respect each other too much ... (read in full...)
I want to date her but she's only 15. Would it be wrong to start a non-sexual relationship with her?
Q. I'm 18 and in High School, and the girl I like is a Sophmore. She's only 15. I've never been sexually active and don't plan to start with a girl this young, so in a non-sexual relationship, would it be wrong to date her?...
A. 2 December 2006: if there is no sex involved then it's fine...there is nothing wrong in seeing her. so go for it!!!!!
hope everything goes well... (read in full...)
When I was drunk I threatened my friends with violence - how can I make it up to them?
Q. my best friend betrayed me over a girl he's known for 2 months and ive known him for 7 years.He is 22 she is 30 and she has 2 kids he is now living with her only after a month of knowing her.her best friend is my ex girlfriend,she finnished me ...
A. 28 November 2006: you need to apologize and really mean it and maybe cut down on acholol?... (read in full...)
He broke up with me then shut out everyone in his life. It hurts me to see him like this!
Q. What are reasons for guys to broke a perfect relationship up if there was no cheating involed? If he was so happy with me then why would he broke it off? We always got along there was no fighting or anything. I was the perfect girlfriend.........
A. 28 November 2006: how you thought that there is maybe something stopping him being with you? maybe he thinks you are too good for him? there might loads of reason and unless you sit in down and ask him you wont know for sure...good luck... (read in full...)
Robert is hot and intelligent..so how do I begin a relationship with him?
Q. I like a boy named robert. he is hot and intelligent how do i jump into a relationship?...
A. 28 November 2006: i think you should get him on your own and tell him how you feel and if he says yes then good luck and if he refuses then you got nothing to loose!!!... (read in full...)
My ex keeps the rose gave me for our first month anniversary on his dresser - why?
Q. My ex bf brought me a rose dipped in real gold in our first month of our relationship. Well we broke up like a month ago and and i gave him back the rose that he brought me the night we broke up. (man it was so hard giving that up it was so pretty...
A. 27 November 2006: i think that he still remembers the good times you had together. even though you broke up the rose is a reminder of what you mean to him. my ex still kept all the things i gave him. he says that he doesnt have the heart to give them back to me or to ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my husband and don't know how to stop!!
Q. i am cheating on my husband with one of our friends... it has been going on for the past three years. but we never had slept. we only kiss. but i dont know how to stop. it's like i am addicted to him...
A. 27 November 2006: thank you for people who have send me your advices. i tried telling the other person to be stronger and not answers my calls or anything but he does it for few days and contact me again saying the he cant be away from me and i feel the same!!!!
i... (read in full...)
We're both in bad marriages and cheating on our spouses, but I'm not sure of his true feelings...
Q. I am married and also in a relationship with a married man. Our spouses are very much alike, so we can relate to each other. We are both in bad marriages, but do not want to punish our children by divorce. This has been going on over 2 years. I am ...
A. 25 November 2006: i think you need to decide where this affair is going to go. you are both being unfair to your spouses and your children. i am in the same situation but unlike u i am having an affair with a single. it has been going on for the past 3 years. he ... (read in full...)
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