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writes: I'm 18 and in High School, and the girl I like is a Sophmore. She's only 15. I've never been sexually active and don't plan to start with a girl this young, so in a non-sexual relationship, would it be wrong to date her? Reply to this Question
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reader, cleanwithit +, writes (6 December 2006):
Hey, I am in the same kind of situation myself, except i am in college, I skipped a grade. im 18 my gf will be 16 in feb, and we have been dating for a few months it has gone well, we like each other alot, and we are very religous people so we have talked about the sex thing and i am ok with it... just if you love her and you decide that you want to have a sex with her....WAIT FOR HER!!! DO NOT PRESSURE HER, BECAUSE IT IS ILLEGAL, and plus you are older and should be the responsible one, and to answer your question, YES, it is ok to date her.
-Josh
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): No (unless her father has a shotgun).
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reader, sophielegs +, writes (2 December 2006):
 Im not totally sure on this one. I know this girl is only 3 years younger but at the age you are its a big maturity difference. But if you get on well and you think it would work then theres no harm in giving it a go.
Best of luck.
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (2 December 2006):
 go for it, aslong as its not sexual, 3 years difference is a small gap, just be careful until shes of age, good luck with it
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reader, lonleyheart +, writes (2 December 2006):
 well i don't think it is wrong to date her if u don't have sex which is perfectly fine if u love her then go for it hun in a wya this relationship can be good for her as well as for you it will leave an impresssion on her gd luck
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reader, secret +, writes (2 December 2006):
 if there is no sex involved then it's fine...there is nothing wrong in seeing her. so go for it!!!!!
hope everything goes well
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (2 December 2006):
 I thik it's a ggod idea to date her, u sound a very reponsible and nice boy and I would like all mates your age to be like you
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): I would say no its not wrong at all! I think your intentions of dating her for a non sexual relationship at the moment are very good and in the future you will both be more prepared to take things further if you wanted to because you would have formed a better bond with each other
good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): In my perspective, no it's not wrong to date her. The only principle judgment in terms of it being possibly negative is the mental refinement of the both of you. Plus, like I said in my other threads of a similar nature, who's to say if that's right or wrong? If ten people here say it's wrong, how then would you base their ideas of it being wrong with how others may feel? There are only so many members who frequent here versus the 6.5 billion somewhat other there.
Ultimately, this is how you feel, and how you go on about achieving your goals with her.
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