Worried to date him because our mums are best friends!!
Q. well, i kinda like this guy but his mum and my mum have been best friends for 30 years. I'm worried that if i ask him out our parents wont approve and if we were ever to split up our parents would fall out.. i really like him and we have been...
A. 16 September 2006: You could try dropping it into a conversation with your mum by saying `hey mum imagine if me and so and so got together that would be funny`,just to see your mums reaction.If she is ok with that then you and your boyfriend could sit your mum and his ... (read in full...)
How can I earn my mums trust, im 14 and not allowed out past 8pm!
Q. I'm 14 and my parents won't let me stay out past 8 o'clock, all my friends are allowed out until 10 and i feel really stupid having to go home so early like a baby and they are all meeting new people and i feel like i have no friends out of school ...
A. 16 September 2006: Have you done something that has given them reasons not to trust you?If you have then as your mum says you need to earn it.But if you have not then you need to talk to your parents and let them know you respect them but you would like to stay out a ... (read in full...)
Pete told me he loved me! I froze wasnt expecting it, I love him but didnt say so, is it now too late?
Q. So ive been dating a guy, pete for quite a while and ive posted many posts on here. But ive come across a big problem. Yesterday evening we went out together and as he dropped me home we kissed, hugged and while we were cuddling he said "i love...
A. 16 September 2006: If somebody told me they loved me i would not necessary say it back straight away as it could be seen as just saying it.You need to try and find away of saying it at the right and perfect time for you.When you next speak to him tell him that your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex that I still love him after a year ?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a little over a year and i still love him. I never stopped loving him. We broke up for many different reasons. Some tings were my fault and some things were his fault. I do not talk to him anymore but I ...
A. 16 September 2006: It all depends really on whether he has moved on and found himself another girlfriend.If this is the case then it`s probably not a good idea to say anything but to try and move on and find yourself somebody else.Maybe ask somebody from his ... (read in full...)
It's his baby, I told him and he won't respond to me! What should I do?
Q. My ex-boyfriend wont respond to me regarding our new baby! First Im married and I had an affair for two years Things were not going good with my husband and I. I just wasnt in love with him anymore but I was to afraid to leave him. I met this ...
A. 16 September 2006: Ok firstly,are you still living with your husband?If so you need to move out and move on.Secondly your affair with this younger man has resulted in a pregnancy,this younger man obviously is not mature enough to become a father.Men generally find it ... (read in full...)
We split but we are taking the kids on a holiday. Is there a chance we can reconnect while we are away?
Q. me and my husband split up 2 weeks ago but are still going on holiday in 2 weeks time for the sake of the children, do you think there is any chance for us to get back together while we are away....
A. 16 September 2006: That all depends on why you split up in the first place.You will probably re-connect whilst you are away but your problems as a married couple will return once your off this holiday.Perhaps one night when your children are in bed you could sit down ... (read in full...)
How can I get over being sexually assaulted by my ex?
Q. I can't get over being sexually assaulted by my ex. He told me he was asleep and I stupidly believed him at first and stayed with him. Then I broke up with him eventually for other reasons, but reported the incident, knowing nothing would happen to ...
A. 15 September 2006: By taking it a day at a time.It`s obviously a hard time for you and it will take time for the mental scars to heal.Ideally you should consult your gp and explain that therapy has not helped as he/she may have other suggestions and avenues you could ... (read in full...)
How do we know if we are really compatible after living apart for so long ?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for many years and we are considering getting married. We have never lived in the same city and will not be able to do so until maybe a couple of years after tying the knot. We would like to get married ...
A. 15 September 2006: You know the saying you don`t know a person until you live with them.Conducting a long distance relationship is hard so well done for lasting this long.You must have been together at some point in the past so try and remember those times.Possibly if ... (read in full...)
Shes just started a new college course and has started to treat me badly!!
Q. Me and my girlfriend are madly in love and have been for around 6 months now but we were friends for almost a year before that. Now we live together and she has just started a new college course, the only thing is that she has started to treat me ...
A. 15 September 2006: It sounds like you have the options but don`t know which one to take,on one hand things could stay as they are but you`ll both become more unhappy,or maybe your girlfriend should drop out of her college course and that does not sound like a good ... (read in full...)
Why don't I have a boyfriend???
Q. hi ive had boyfriends before but bot very serious and i havent had one in nearly a year most of my friends have got boyfriends. im not an ugly girl i might not be the prettiest out of evry 1 but even my mates who most lads think arent nice have ...
A. 14 September 2006: Hey don`t be in a rush your only young and you never know what is around the corner.You sound confident and there is obviously nothing wrong with you as you have had boyfriends so no need to worry.When i was your age somebody once said to me that ... (read in full...)
Is he just making excuses???
Q. I want my boyfriend of 5 years to live with me and my 2 children but he is reluctant to move in with me because he said it would be unfair on the kids.Trouble is,he knew when he met me that i had children and i would of thought after 5 years he ...
A. 14 September 2006: You need to sit down with your boyfriend without your children present and ask him why he feels this way.Maybe suggest he stays over at the weekends to see how he interacts with your children and how your children feel with your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
He has letters that say "wife" and "ex-wife" but he says he has never been married...
Q. i found two letters belongin to my boyfriend of one year sayin ex wife and wife he says hes never been married what is going on here should i confront him or leave it alone?...
A. 14 September 2006: I think you should sit your boyfriend down and calmly tell him what you have found.It sounds as if he is not being honest with you or has something to hide.If he is still married then it would be best to walk away....Good luck.... (read in full...)
Does he really like me???
Q. Hi need some people's views on this one. Ok where to start off, I'm 17 and went to a concert last week. I instantly hit it off with one of the guys in the band , I shall call him A. A and I got talking all night and had some really good converst...
A. 14 September 2006: Rather than listening to B or C why not ask A straight out if he has any feelings towards.It sounds like he does like you but as you say maybe playing it cool.Tell him how you feel and that you`ll understand if just wants to take it slowly or is ... (read in full...)
She is in Paris being smug while I decided to finish up at school
Q. Hi everyone, So my girlfriend and I have been together for four and a half years now. We met at the end of high school and maintained the relationship throughout college (we did the long distance thing for a year as we went to different colleg...
A. 13 September 2006: It sounds as if the distance between you is putting a hugh strain on your relationship.Your girlfriend has started to feel settled and at home in paris and meeting new people.Maybe you need to tell her how you feel and decide whether you can both ... (read in full...)
I found on my Dad's mobile phone some texts from another woman
Q. Hello. I'm a teenage girl (don't want to reveal my age) and live at home with both my parents. We have always been a really close family and they have been married for nearly 20years. However, I recently found on my Dad's mobile phone some texts ...
A. 13 September 2006: This has obviously come as a great shock as you are a close family.Maybe you need to sit down with your dad and have a calm chat about your findings and ask him to explain.Ask him whether this indescretion is worth destroying your family.Remind him ... (read in full...)
My bf joined the army, I Cheated, but how do I get my friend back ???
Q. ive been with my bf for 2 1/2 years and i do love him dearly. the problem is he decided to join the army last year. im only 18 and found this hard to deal with. i resented him for joining the army but at the same time i still loved him. we split up ...
A. 13 September 2006: If i was in your friends position then i would find keeping all that a secret too.At least you are ready to admit how bad you have acted lately.Maybe you need to ask your friend on what she intends to do with this secret and tell her how ashamed you ... (read in full...)
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