I want sex, just not with my boyfriend!
Q. im a 24 year old female, who LOVES sex, but recently i have lost my sex drive with my boyfriend of 3 years, i dont understand it. I still want sex and have fantasies but when it comes down to it, i can take it or leave it (sometimes i think its ...
A. 16 August 2008: presently my gf of 6months is not interested in sex with me anymore..
i dont know if she wants it from anyone else but she told me a couple times that she doesnt want anyone else and that its a problem with her but i dunno...
Anyway, if you figu... (read in full...)
How do you approach your girlfriend with concerns that she's interested in someone else?
Q. If you think that your gf is possibly interested in someone else how can she be approached without getting her angry? I tried talking to her nicely about it but she just gets angry and tells me that she doesnt wanna talk to me right now and she'll c...
A. 12 August 2008: Thanks Superrrshawna,
well she has always been short temperred, i caught her lying to me a couple times about minor stuff nothing major.
She always tells me where shes going and whatnot but she doesnt tell me about who she chats with online o... (read in full...)
What are the signs of cheating?
Q. How do you know your boyfriend is cheating on me? and Why does my boyfriend text other girls when he is around me?...
A. 11 August 2008: you should be worries about things he may be doing behind your back, not infront of you.
If he is texting them infront of you then more than likely its nothing.
As Kayluh Martini said ask him what he's texting but dont be too hard on him, if he hi... (read in full...)
Should I stay in this realtionship?
Q. ok well im confused, ive got a girlfriend who i have been with 8 months and i really do love her, but me and her constantly argue and even tho i do love her things between us never seem to be going well. but on the other hand ive met a girl about...
A. 11 August 2008: I dont think you should just leave her.
Every relationship has its ups and downs.
My gf and i used to argue constantly for about 2-3months.
We were close to breaking up many many many times but we somehow always decided that we wanted to be with e... (read in full...)
I took the advice of someone and made a move on a woman I like very much, she said she only wants to be friends, how do I change this?
Q. Over the past 2 weeks I have really fallen for someone who works down my local. I spent a couple of hours talking to her and drinking with her Saturday night after her shift, and I really thought she felt the same about me. The owner of the pub told ...
A. 11 August 2008: you havent runined anything..
Love begins with friendship.
Just the fact that she wants to be your friends says that she enjoys talking to you and she doesnt think you are a jerk or anything like that.
I think you should continue talking to h... (read in full...)
I really love this girl, but we have trust issues and we argue all the time, should I break up with her, and if so, how do I do it without breaking her heart?
Q. ive been with a girl 8 months and i really love the girl but we have no trust in our relationship and argue all the time ..... i dont think i can make this relationship work .... do you think i should give up and leave her ? and if so how do i let ...
A. 11 August 2008: i think you should firstly figure out why you dont trust her and see if you have reason to not trust her.
If you have reason to doubt or not trust her then talk to her about it, let her know exactly how you feel and why you feel that way and if she ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my girlfriend, because she cheated on me, after a year or so, we got back together, because she said she has changed, I can't trust her completely, how do I protect myself for getting hurt again?
Q. I recently got back with my long term girlfriend who I broke up with over a year ago. After breaking up with her boyfriend that she had for a year, she admitted having feelings for me once again, which led to us seeing each other and me breaking up ...
A. 11 August 2008: hey,
While people do realise mistakes that they made in the past and they do change, not all of them do.
I think you need to see for yourself if she has really changed or not. If i were in your situation i would have let her know exactly how ... (read in full...)
She made me get rid of my photos, but is holding on to hers
Q. My wife made me destroy all the pictures I had of all former women, just friends also. Recently I just found pictures of some of her old boyfriends also (one of whom she has his name and hers tattooed on her leg)when we were going through some old ...
A. 11 August 2008: i think if she thinks that you should move on from the past and destroy certain things (whether its right or wrong to do so) and you respected that and did it then she should respect you and do the same..it is totally unfair for her to ask you to do ... (read in full...)
Why do my boyfriends always stop calling and leave me?
Q. I am a very hardworking and independent lady. I always go out of my way for my boyfriends. The main thing is every thing seems fine and then all of a sudden ,they just stop calling. I'm not sure why because they never say why. I really need to get ...
A. 11 August 2008: Well Deema everyone has his own likes and dislikes but my personal opinion is that when you are serious about someone you merge your life and theirs together and become one..yes i have my job and you have yours but my friends become yours, my family ... (read in full...)
Why do my boyfriends always stop calling and leave me?
Q. I am a very hardworking and independent lady. I always go out of my way for my boyfriends. The main thing is every thing seems fine and then all of a sudden ,they just stop calling. I'm not sure why because they never say why. I really need to get ...
A. 10 August 2008: as a guy i can tell you that the guys who want you to have your life and leave them with theirs are not serious about you, they are 'living' their lives and that is why they dont want you to be a constant and major part of theirs and that is why ... (read in full...)
The guy I was dating went AWOL. I'm hurt, angry, and annoyed with MYSELF.
Q. Hi there, Please help...I feel really bad. This guy I was dating went awol. This left me feelings hurt and upset. But the worse was after I tried to call him several times to no avail without a response. I sent him an insulting text. The point ...
A. 10 August 2008: Firstly i am new to this site and have absolutely no idea what AWOL means.
Secondly, my gf had a really rough past. after men repeatedly treated her like crap she started partying every weekend and stopped caring about people. She then began slee... (read in full...)
Why did he pretend that he didn't call me?
Q. The guy that i like called me 3 times last night but i couldnt answer because i didnt have my phone with me that night. He left a message, but when i emailed him asking if he called he says "no why baby?" why did he pretend as if he didnt call me? a ...
A. 10 August 2008: it sounds to me like he is having a bad relationship and is looking for someone else to move on with..
I think that he didnt reply because he and his girl probably made back up but it doesnt mean that he doesnt wanna move on..
men, if we love som... (read in full...)
How can I get to know him when we don't spend time together?
Q. Please advise me as to what I should do.I met this man a few months ago, that I just cannot get out of my mind...we spent a few nights together and went on a few dates, that was the most amazing feeling I have ever felt and really wants this to ...
A. 10 August 2008: i think you need to tell him exactly how you feel and tell him straight up that you want a relationship and if he wants time to sort things out first thats ok.
If he says that he wants time you need to stop giving him what he wants because it seem... (read in full...)
He is constantly thinking I am cheating or lying! When I'm not!
Q. I would really like some answers on why my boyfriend of over a year, constantly thinks that I am seeing someone behind his back or talking to someone, when I have never given him any reason to think those things....
A. 10 August 2008: hi,
I must admit that i used to be kinda like that.
an age would be helpful in why he may be acting this way as many young guys do have insecurities and its not a completely bad thing.
the fact that he is concerned means that he like you very muc... (read in full...)
I can't compare with this 'famous pin-up star' that she slept with in the past.
Q. hello. i have been with my girlfriend now for almost a yr, we have slept with the same amount of people in the past before we met and have both been relatively unlucky in past relationships. i love her to bits and she loves me the same. we have amaz...
A. 10 August 2008: I hope this helps..
I was a virgin before my gf but she slept with 18 men before me.
It bothered me sooo much that it was all i could think about.
I talked to her and let her know exactly how i felt and i asked her to disconnect herself comp... (read in full...)
My girlfriend suddenly doesn't wanna have sex with me...
Q. Hey My gf is 25 and i'm 18. i was a virgin before her but she has slept with men before. We have been together about 6months now and we have been having sex about 5months now. We had our days of constant arguing and at that time she never wante...
A. 10 August 2008: thanks for the replies..
Last night in the car before we had dinner i spoke to her and told her about how i feel and that i am willing to be understanding and patient with her and she opened up and she said that she feels alot better and more comf... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but he does not want to work, or go to school, he plays xbox 360 all day long, I am 18, he is 20, what can I say to motivate him to do something with his life?
Q. well im 18 and i have a bf thats 20.I love him alot but the thing is that he doesnt work and doesnt wanna go to school or like basically do anything..All he does is play on xbox 360 the whole day.. 1.How should I tell him to do something with h...
A. 8 August 2008: Firstly, ask him if he wanna spend the rest of his life with you.. If the answer is no dump him and find a real MAN If the answer is yes then tell him that things need to change. He needs to be able to take care of you and later on start a family.... (read in full...)
I am not attracted to my husband anymore, we fight all the time, and I keep thinking about this other man.
Q. I need some help with my marriage.. Here's the deal we have 3 kids been married for 7 years and together for 13 years. Things have gradually been getting bad. We barely can open our mouths with out fighting, we are at each others throats all the ...
A. 8 August 2008: Dont throw away your marriage and half of your kids' lives because you feel attracted to someone new.. Remember the days when you first met your husband? werent things great? werent he the only thing you could think about? Trust me when i ... (read in full...)
How can I prevent myself ejaculating early?!
Q. I'm a male virgin, but I want to loose my virginity to someone. I've read numerous books on dating and charisma and conversational skills. I've even read books on sexual techniques. My only concern is lasting a "respectable" time with someone I ...
A. 8 August 2008: I have found that taking deep breaths to help slow your heart rate helps me stay in there for a few extra minutes..not much but it helps...
If you have a fun and understanding partner she wouldn't mind you washing off and getting back in if you can.... (read in full...)
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