Been thinking about breaking up with my b/f... or cheating!
Q. Hi. I've been dating my guy for almost four years and in the beginning, I loved him a lot. I mean he was the only guy I ever wanted to be with. We broke up a few times and I got to mingle around with some of my guy friends. Now, for about the past ...
A. 2 May 2005: It's really common: "I don't want him, but don't want anyone else to have him". I think if you're having these feelings then the best thing to do for both your sakes is to end the relationship. With my ex, someone once said can you see yourself... (read in full...)
Five months since we had sex and my g/f says our relationship is "so strong we don't need it"...
Q. Hi all, I'm at a bit of a loss, So here's my story and I hope you can help. I met MJ 2 years ago and who things were so perfect. We used to have sex all the time, and it was great. I work a lot of shifts and whenever we saw each other we'd jump ...
A. 2 May 2005: Every relationship has its ups and downs when it comes to sex. From a woman's point of view, it's not the be all and end all. We like to have a cuddle and feel safe. You'll probably find in time that she'll be back to her frisky self. You just ... (read in full...)
When is it too soon to move in together?
Q. My boyfriend and I only dated for 2 months, and he wants me to move in with him when we will be together for 5 months. Should I or should I not?...
A. 2 May 2005: You never really know someone properly until you move in with them. You may get on brilliantly and then when you make the move you find out little things that annoy you, like the "lid off the toothpaste"!!! I don't think that there is ever rea... (read in full...)
Even though I love my b/f, I'm just not sexually attracted to him...
Q. Dear Cupid... What does one do when they really, really love someone but they are not in love with that person? I love my boyfriend to death, but he doesn't turn me on. I once heard that after your sex life is gone, your relationship is doomed...Is ...
A. 28 April 2005: Lots of people have relationships where the sex no longer plays the biggest part although it can sometimes return, it's just a phase couples can go through. I think you have to work out the pro's and con's of the relationship and decide whether you ... (read in full...)
I have to stay in touch with my ex for my son's sake. Did we do the right thing splitting?
Q. My son's father has a mental health problem and we have been having a lot of ups and downs. We decided to split after a three-year relationship, I want to know if we have made the right choice, as we have a child together and need to stay in conta...
A. 28 April 2005: I think Bev has answered your question perfectly. I have a very similar situation, my ex has also very mild mental health problems that stem back to days of drug using. I think it would be wrong to cut him out of you and your son's life as your ... (read in full...)
My sexy mom...
Q. hi, I am 18 years old boy. I have a sexy mom. I want sex with her. Tell me what should I do....
A. 27 April 2005: I think these are very strange feelings to have and certainly are not natural! I think that if you continue to feel this way you should maybe get some help because it could be very damaging to the relationship you have with your Mum. I hope these ... (read in full...)
I trust my boyfriend... I just don't trust the girl who's stalking him!
Q. Recently I found out that this girl likes my boyfriend. I didn't know what to say when he told me, so I just laughed it off. A few days ago, I walked up to him and she was talking to him, and she gave him this note. I didn't think much of it, besi...
A. 27 April 2005: You may trust him, but if he's with you, why is he giving this girl notes and not letting you know what's going on. Some guys get a confidence boost when other girls (besides their girlfriends) take an interest, is he leading her on? I think you ... (read in full...)
Tracking down my old love...
Q. Hi, I got some addresses from the internet because I'm trying to locate my mum's old best friends daughter, who I used to be in love with. But I am not sure whether I should visit these addresses and ask face to face if they know this person or w...
A. 27 April 2005: The things you have to think about is, if they have moved on and are in a relationship, can you handle that. If you feel you can and just need to know for closeure, then I think you should go for it because you'll always wonder otherwise. Just ... (read in full...)
I feel differently - not as strongly - as he does. How do I respond to him?
Q. I'm not sure how to word this question. The man I'm seeing has recently told me that he loves me, I, however do not have the same feelings for him at this time. My feelings for him run deep, but I don't feel that I love him and also feel that love ...
A. 27 April 2005: I went through a very similar thing a while back. The guy that I was with and have been with up until very recently, seemed to be totally besotted by me, unfortunately i couldn't return those feelings and because I didn't let him know for a while, ... (read in full...)
My online guy says he wants to meet... but he seems to have another "friend", too...
Q. I've been communicating with a guy on the net who had also been communicating with another lady before me but he said they are friends like he and I. We have never met but he has met her (2 months before we started communicating). I recentl...
A. 27 April 2005: Sorry to say this, but it sounds like a bit of a sleaze!!! I think you should be really careful here, maybe he's trying to make you feel secure by making up a story that he's got someone else that's interested. It does seem like he's leaving his ... (read in full...)
Want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do or say!
Q. Think I'm falling in love with a girl who I have known for 13 years. She's always been there for me and I really want to ask her out but I don't know what to do or say. Please help me...
A. 26 April 2005: You only get one chance at life and I think you should go for it otherwise you'll drive yourself crazy wondering. If your friendship is strong and for any reason a relationship is not meant to be, then your friendship will still carry on. I don't ... (read in full...)
I want my one-night-stand guy back... but my current bf and I have a baby!
Q. Dear Cupid... Two years ago, my boyfriend of one year broke up with me. I moved on and had a one night stand while I was on vacation.(4 hours away) The one night stand turned into a relationship that ended without a word. A month later, my ex and I...
A. 26 April 2005: I think if you have feelings for someone else and your sex life is suffering then you have to question whether this relationship is meant to be anyway. Do you know if the guy you had a one night stand with is in another relationship or not? You ... (read in full...)
Most of the time my fiance is wonderful... but it's those other times I worry about.
Q. My fiance and I have been together for about three years and recently got engaged. I love him and I believe he loves me, however, since we decided the relationship was extremely serious I feel that the relationship has alienated me from my friends ...
A. 24 April 2005: I think that to get married you must be 100% sure that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you can answer without a doubt that you do, then go for it. If you have a niggling in your mind then you really need to think ... (read in full...)
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