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writes: Recently I found out that this girl likes my boyfriend. I didn't know what to say when he told me, so I just laughed it off. A few days ago, I walked up to him and she was talking to him, and she gave him this note. I didn't think much of it, besides, I didn't think it was any of my business anyway so I didn't ask him. The next day, she was talking to him again, and he had a note for her, and I barely heard what he told her but it was something about a phone number. Again, I never asked what was up since I didn't think it was my business. My boyfriend and I already know that she really likes him, and we found out from other people (her friends) that she's "stalking" us, mostly him. I thought it was a little weird, but I just continued laughing it off. Now, I find myself getting angry about it, sorta insecure, and in confusion. I don't know what's going on between the two of them, but I wish I did. My boyfriend has already told me that he has no feelings for anyone except for me, and he promises me over and over again that he would NEVER think of cheating on me, and well, I trust him COMPLETELY...The only thing is, I don't trust the girl who likes him. What should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006): i think you should tell him that you just dont feel comftable with him talking to her and make sure you tell him that you trust him just not her and that sometimes boys get confused and the girl decides to suduce him which may happen so just tell him and talk and make an agreement
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reader, doomed_in_mb +, writes (27 April 2005):
If you and your boyfriend are as close as you say you are, there would be no secrets between the two of you. And how can another woman giving your boyfriend a note not be your business..I would say it definitely IS YOUR BUSINESS. Confront him and her in the same room and if he really loves you, he will set her straight.
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reader, Ruth +, writes (27 April 2005):
You may trust him, but if he's with you, why is he giving this girl notes and not letting you know what's going on. Some guys get a confidence boost when other girls (besides their girlfriends) take an interest, is he leading her on? I think you should make it clear to him that you don't like being kept in the dark although you do trust him, it's not really the way a relationship works. It may be harmless but you have a right to know!
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reader, lil-haz +, writes (27 April 2005):
 Hi confused, You are in a very difficult position here, what i suggest you do, is sit down and have a chat with him, ask him the questions that you really want to find out, look for any type of distraction, stuttering and lost speech whilst he is answering you, are you sure he might not be cheating on you? because giving this stalker pieces of paper with numbers on would make me a little curious, or maybe why don't you have a little chat with the stalker and find out who she is, maybe you will get something, but if you do catch him cheating, dont feel too hard on yourself as you will find anyone who cheats is not worth crying over.
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