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I'm a wise head on young shoulders... a rarity, I think. I'm a student, vocal coach and Opera singer: the latter two I "dabble" in whilst getting proper qualifications... after university, I'd like to go into both full-time.
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We want to have sex but we know nothing about it and are both 13!
Q. my bf and i have been dating for a year and we both wanna have sex but we can't because a: my hymen hasn't broken and b: we are both 13. what do we do?...
A. 31 August 2008: An unbroken hymen does not prevent sex. In fact, it's often broken during the first time you have sex.
I say you should wait until you are both 16 ... your boyfriend can still get arrested even if you're both minors.
The age limit is there for a ... (read in full...)
Why do women say they want to remain friends after they've dumped you?
Q. Hi Can any women help? What is the real reason you want to 'stay friends' with a guy you have dumped? My g/f dumped me 3 months ago after a few arguments but wants to stay friends. I have asked her to get back but she said no, so she doesn't ...
A. 4 June 2008: I didn't want to remain friends with my ex. He hurt me deeply. Don't tar women with the same brush - we are not all the same. ;)
But I suppose in your case ... you live in different countries, and you said yourself - far away. Maybe she thinks i... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and dating a 20, why do people call me nasty names? I am not all that old am I?
Q. Hi, I am a 28 year old male (soon to be 29) from the UK. I know that it sounds shocking, but I am still a sexual virgin and have never had any sexual experience or girlfriends. Up until now, that is. Well, we haven't had sex yet...I have met this...
A. 24 May 2008: I am 18 and my boyfriend is 27. Age makes no difference if the two of you get along, and love each other very much, as you two seem to. Good luck! :)... (read in full...)
My Dad is setting me up with his friends!-Is he winding me up?
Q. im soo confused and just dont understand why my dad would want me to do this. well on monday we was watching thig programme on tv. me, dad, my friend who stayed over at mine and my dads friend. me and rachel went upstairs ont he computer just ...
A. 15 April 2008: Me too. It sounds very far fetched, but if it's true, please take the advice of the other posters and tell someone.... (read in full...)
Love Over The Internet: Possible Or Not?
Q. Here I have two problems. I'm in love with a guy. Trouble is, we've never met. We met over the internet. We can talk about anything and everything and see each other on webcam a lot. We aren't going to meet until I'm legally an adult, which is a ...
A. 1 April 2008: Yes, love over the Internet IS possible. It's good that you have seen each other on webcam and it's even better that you're waiting til you're 18. Should you still be together, you will know each other well and meeting up for the first time shoul... (read in full...)
How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else.
Q. How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie on guys or sit on their knee. I am very shy so this can help a guy know I like them, cause I am too shy 2 say it. How else can I flirt?...
A. 31 March 2008: Here is the best tip I can give: be yourself.... (read in full...)
Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to marry me?
Q. I really love my boyfriend so much, we've been together for 4 months and i want to marry him, i dont know what to do about it, shall i ask him to marry me or shall i wait for him to ask me, or has it not been long enough for me to ask him yet?...
A. 31 March 2008: After 4 months, you're still in the "honeymoon" period. It is FAR too soon, no matter how serious your relationship is. Please wait a couple of years minimum, or wait until he asks you.... (read in full...)
When you get your "cherry popped" is there a lot of blood?
Q. i am 13 and i didnt get my first period yet, but i want to have sex so when my cherry pops will alot of blood come out because i didnt have my first period yet?...
A. 27 March 2008: I think your questions have been moreorless answered, but if you think having your hymen broken and your period are related, then you're not ready for sex.
Plus, you live in the UK, so the age of consent is SIXTEEN.
Your sexual partner could ge... (read in full...)
I'm ready to have sex but he wants to wait until he's older! What should I do?
Q. Hey, me and my BF have nown each other for about 1 year and 1 month we have been going out for about 6 months and we love each other sooo much... now just to get to the ponit i've felt ready with him for about 2 months and he's only just f...
A. 27 March 2008: (heidijo69, that's ridiculous. God help your relationships if you do what you said here!)
Can I just say that your guy could actually get arrested, even if he's 16? If you're younger than 16, then it counts as statuatory rape.
I think you s... (read in full...)
I met him online... how do I break the news to my Mum?
Q. Hi, I have recently met a very lovely guy on a dating site- we have seen each other via web camera, and have met a couple of times. I'm not sure how to break it to my mum, however. She is convinced that everyone on the internet is harmful, and whil...
A. 23 March 2008: ShouldKnowBetter... the age gap is not the problem here, and I'd rather people didn't bring it up when it wasn't what I asked in the first place. What if I was 25 and he was 34, for example? Read the question again, then then you will see that not... (read in full...)
What ideas do you have for us to talk to her parents constructively about our age gap?
Q. Hi, I am 32 and she is 17. We are having issues with her parents agreeing for us to see each other. I realize everyone has their opinion on my intent and her being young, but that isn't the question. My intent is for us to be together. ...
A. 15 March 2008: I am ashamed of the replies here. I'm 18, and am about to give a much more mature reply than any of you could manage: Have you met her parents yet? I think it's worth sitting them down and being completely honest with them and telling them yo... (read in full...)
I met him on line, do you think he is a pervert?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need some opinions from people. I have msn and lately some one added me on their msn list. I clicked him/she and asked them and it was a boy. He said he gave me his email. He said he was 17 and I saw his display pic so ...
A. 6 February 2008: You've not seen him on webcam, I presume you've not spoken on the phone... try asking him and see if he makes up excuses not to do either. I think he's a pervert personally. I agree with everything said so far. If only recently being in contact with ... (read in full...)
I am developed for my age, I get teased, how should I react?
Q. umm.. Might need help from agony moms. Well I'm still 12 but my breast are huge and everyone's teasing me about them, and I can't take it anymore what should I do?...
A. 5 February 2008: The other girls who tease you are so, so jealous. I was huge at your age too, now even huger. Enjoy your assets!
x... (read in full...)
Redhair and pale skin, Why do we get picked on?
Q. Me and brother (twin) both get picked on because of our red hair and pale skin. It's been like this for a couple years. But no matter what we do, people still ask us dumb questions about why we are so pale all the time. Why is that?...
A. 5 February 2008: Because you're different. Humans dislike difference... they feel threatened by it. People only pick on you because they're small and close minded. Most I imagine are jealous because at your age, most are trying to work out what sets them apart from ... (read in full...)
Valentine gift, what should I get?
Q. What should i get my boyfriend for valentines day because we have almost been going out 6 months?...
A. 5 February 2008: I have some suggestions...
A home cooked, 3 course meal of his favourite foods?
An album of photo memories?
If you're creative or musical, a poem or song?
Maybe name a star for him at the international star registry? (google it)
Where's... (read in full...)
How can I help my boyfriend with his Mood Swings?
Q. I need help. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year now and he says he loves me; this is not the problem. The problem is his mood swings, one minute he'll be absolutly fine and the next he goes incredably quiet and refuses to talk abo...
A. 5 February 2008: I have this trouble with my own boyfriend. He won't open up but it's obvious something's wrong, and I have to squeeze it out of him like blood out of a stone. All you can do is ask him to be honest with you, as all good relationships have honesty.
S... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...
Q. Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...
A. 16 January 2008: Even if he did, it would be foolish for him to act on it at this point in time because not only are you a minor still, you are also his student. It could lose him his JOB, and get him arrested.
Enjoy the flirting, but it must stay like that. At leas... (read in full...)
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