Bizarre love triangle: the boy that my friend fancies is flirting with me, and I like him too. What should I do?
Q. okay well the thing is like this, i have a very good friend (sarah) who is obsessed with his best friend (Kyle). BUT. the other day we went out for dinner and Kyle was very VERY flirty with me. Now my problem is that i feel attracted to him...
A. 2 June 2008: my best friend stole i guy i loved of me when we were drunk one night, and i can honestly say i hate her.
even if you do like this guy every girl knows that you dont go anywhere near a guy your best friends likes/ loves was there ex or whatever... (read in full...)
She stole him from me and I don't plan on ever talking to her again. Am I over-reacting?
Q. Hey well ive been seeing this guy since august last year. and well basically my best friend has taken him of me. she liked some guy in her work he doesnt like her . She knows how much i like this guy and she pure hits on him and stuff infront of...
A. 11 May 2008: hey thanks so much all of you.!
yeah everyone says i shouldnt speak to her again i wasnt planinning to anyway,
im so angry at her. Shes done this because a guy she likes doesnt like her and because shes unhappy shes tried to ruin my life.
But a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is Jekyll and Hyde!
Q. Hello aunts, hope you are all doing well! I am sorry that this is a little long, but it's just for some background info as well. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, we have been living together for 1 and a half years, our paren...
A. 21 January 2008: Hey .!
i think that you are completely right love leave him you can do so much better than that.I wouldn't even wait untill i graduated i would leave him just now.!
And thoose things he said and done to you tell him he needs some help .
Like mist... (read in full...)
I don't want to upset my best friend.
Q. Im in love with one of my best friends i dont know what to do . Well basically we met at a party and became good friends then we kissed and stuff. We used to be really close like talking nearly everyday and stuff we would make an effort to see ea...
A. 21 January 2008: hey ! thanks everyone well we are back in contact now.thanks to him phoning me at two in the morning anyway
I forgot to mention that be both told each other we liked each other.
I ve decided that im not going to say anything if he says somthin... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my 'friend with benefits' and its killing me
Q. a year ago while i had a boyfriend i hooked up with this guy he happened to be my friends ex boyfriend and one of my other friends had a crush on him and all of the parents in our area knew about it so for these reasons the affair ended. but by this ...
A. 19 January 2008: Im going threw the same feelings as you. But he's like in my group of friends.
Getting drunk and being out our faces isnt going to help us . I dont feel any better when im drunk do you ?.
I think you should really speak to him love. its the only... (read in full...)
When Does The Hurting Stop
Q. I have known this guy for about eleven years and we seen each other for the first five. He was my first love and I have never been able to get over him a hundred percent. I have moved on and found someone else and I love him very much, we are ...
A. 17 January 2008: to be honest. it sounds like you two are meant to be together. i know you probobally love your fiance but would you reallly be happy with him . if it was me i wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life thinking what if ?. Cutting him out your life ... (read in full...)
Would a girl know that I like her with this kind of xmas gift?
Q. Were co-workers and we've known each other for about 5 months now. Hung out couple of times and seem to start a good friendship. I'm so into this girl but i just cannot read her. She seems to appreciate little things i give her once in a while, ...
A. 17 January 2008: i would think i guy liked me if he went threw all that time and effort to get me somthing for christmas.
i think that maybe you should tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same. mayeb you's could go to the cinema or dinner or out f... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is moving in with a guy (and 5 others) that she has kissed, in the past. I am concerned! Advice?
Q. hi, my girlfriend of a year has recently moved to uni after a few months she kissed a guy who lives next to her in her halls, i let this go and forgave her but it happened again however she said she pulled away that time but i broke of our rel...
A. 17 January 2008: awwwh man.!
i think that you should speak to her and tel her how you feel about her moving in with this guy.
i mean the kiss probobally meant nothing wether she was drunk or sober.
i would talk to her but be reasonable about it at the same time... (read in full...)
What did his gesture mean?
Q. I don't know if i am being paranoid, that's why i need you guys to help me out please!! I was chilling out with my boyfriend at his friend's place. At one point i was playing with the dog when i heard my guy tell his friend, 'I had a----- that's why ...
A. 10 January 2008: He had a joint (drugs wee hash ) mann.!
thats what made him sleep so well ... (read in full...)
Do you think he likes me?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm still in public school. Some of my friends think this guy likes me. I'm not gonna say his name. On the first day of school he winked at me. One time in gym class I was just standing in the middle of the gym and he ...
A. 10 January 2008: i agree with some others he's a player hunni .
your farr too good for a guy like that
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Do you think it's ok for me to let my wife have another guy as her best friend??
Q. I'm 32 and my wife is 28. My wife and a good friend of mine (male friend) are good friends. I think it would be safe to say that they are best friends (which is totally okay by me). My friends say I'm crazy to "be okay" with this. I disagree, ...
A. 10 January 2008: i dont think theres anything wrong with that. my best friend is a guy.
you wouldnt worry if she went to the movies or dinner or dancing with a girl why worry if its a guy . there just friends even if he did like her at the end of the day shes comi... (read in full...)
I always hurt him and lie, but he's still here...I want us to be fixed.
Q. I have been with a wonderful guy for over a year now and have been living with him for about three months now. We have a wonderful realtionship. Well we did. There were a few times I lied to him. We broke up once for a day and then got back ...
A. 10 January 2008: i have this exact same problem.!
a guy could love me with all his heart and i wouldnt care. maybe its because you've been hurt before i know that why i am like this.
I came to the conclusion that i dont do relationships anymore because i do... (read in full...)
I slept with him and now he's avoiding me, what's gone wrong?
Q. hi, i'm a 20 yr old girl and i've recently met this guy who works at my gym. we went on 1 date on boxing day, which was great fun and a couple of days later i met his mum and stayed the night. we talk for hours and had a great time and I ended up ...
A. 10 January 2008: ughh typical man.
you can do better i would forget about him.
x... (read in full...)
I am so scared to ask boys out because I feel they will reject me.
Q. I am scared to ask boys out as i am afraid they will say no. because i am fat and ugly. I don't know what to do. I always have this same dream about going out with this boy i really fancy and we end up kissing in the end. but to make matters worse. ...
A. 30 December 2007: Hey .
Everyones scared to ask boy's out no matter what age.
Im sure your not fat and ugly. you have to work on your self confidence.
If you really like this boy i
you should ask him out.Or if you dont want to do it straight away invite him to t... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid thinking he had another girl over??
Q. I don't know if i am being paranoid or not. My b/f of three years bought a new toliet seat cover and it was laying there for awhile. Meanwhile--in the three years that i have been with him--he has never really straighted up anything(like placing ...
A. 30 December 2007: I dont think he would have had a girl over. it sounds like he's telling the truth. And that he just haBut if youd alot to do that day. Maybe he had just had enoough of the mess and wanted to put the toilet seat on .
But if i was you i would spea... (read in full...)
Who thinks I am being played for a fool??
Q. Hello all. Here goes: I'm a 37 year-old woman who's been dating a "separated" man (he's 41) for 8 months now. He has 2 minor children (ages 5 and 7) and has been married for 8 years. He lives alone. She lives w/another man. I know it sounds i...
A. 30 December 2007: Heyy .
i dont think your being played either.!
i think he's a little bit confused about his feelings about his ex . Im sure he does love you alot. But maybe he still has some feelings for her. Or maybe there just verry close fiends .
I thin... (read in full...)
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