I feel obcessed with this woman and making sure she gets what's coming to her!
Q. I'm not sure what to do or how i can stop myself from feeling this way. I've had a pretty shit year with relationships. My boyfriend was living with a couple who verbally abused him and treated us like shit and him like a slave. You couldn't bel...
A. 23 October 2009: In her eyes, she won. Get back with your guy, pretend she doesn't exist, don't let her rule your world. Right now she has complete control over you, you need to get that control back, immediately! When you are ready to fall asleep at night, think ... (read in full...)
He knows I like him so why is he behaving like this?
Q. Hi just wondered if you could make any sense of this as im slightly confused. A friend of mine(a guy) is a very nice guy in general. I wouldnt call him shy but hes abit quiet at times. We've had afew ups and downs in the past, lifes been made ...
A. 22 October 2009: OK, so your question was really hard to understand. So I'm going to just say it......I think he's using you. HE never initiates, YOU do. That says it all. I think you should find somebody that appreciates you and respects who you are and what ... (read in full...)
My father acts like I don't exist, how do I get him accept me?
Q. I feel like I don't have a father figure in my life as my dad ignores me, and doesn't want to spend time with me. He is my biological dad by the way, I don't have a stepdad. He's more interested in pursuing a feud with someone else than spendi...
A. 22 October 2009: I wish there was something I could say to make things better for you, I hope I can help. YOU are the child and HE is the parent. YOU have done nothing wrong. It's not your path in life to try to get your father to love you. Some people aren't ... (read in full...)
Did I make the right move by backing off?
Q. so i meet this guy six months ago, we had a lot of fun together, no fights at all. His old girlfriends parents see us out together, so she begins to call him! so im sure now he has mixed feelings. They dated on and off for years, one sided from him, ...
A. 22 October 2009: You absolutely made the right decision. We should all be more like you, brave. He's going to crawl back on his knees!!!... (read in full...)
I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?
Q. When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I ...
A. 22 October 2009: What a P*%@$!!! NOT his son? Sweetie you do WHATEVER you have to do! I feel like getting on a plane.....We're ALL here for you :)... (read in full...)
I feel awful and don't enjoy the hookers I visit..how do I rid myself of this sex addiction?
Q. Hi Im from the UK and just want someone to help me about a sex addiction before it gets out of hand. I am a 21 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and just feels lonely. I have hobbies that i do (gym a lot) but for some reason recently ...
A. 22 October 2009: Five times and you never enjoyed it? You are NOT a sex addict. I repeat NOT a sex addict. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you needing to have sex, NOTHING. I live in the U.S. and am a woman and can't for the life of me figure out why ... (read in full...)
He went cold after our first date but says he still wants to see me, is he just being polite?
Q. We met briefly at an event one evening and made a connection. He asked for my number and it went from there. We talked a lot and hit it off on the phone for about 2 weeks before had out first date. Conversations lasted for hours and if we weren't ...
A. 22 October 2009: This is common. Texting and phone conversations are completely different than face to face conversations. I really believe that if we're not face to face that we're much more open, flirty, funny, etc. It's kinda sad really. Call once, text once, ... (read in full...)
Should I risk confessing my feelings?
Q. For the past few months I have been very close friends with this boy. As you have probably guessed, I like him alot. The thing is, he is a real flirt and alot of girls also like him. We open up to eachother alot. He tells me that he flirts to give ...
A. 22 October 2009: You absolutely tell him how you feel. We are ALL insecure in some way and fear rejection. However, it is extremely important for you to know that he might reject YOU. You need to prepare yourself for whatever his response is. If he rejects you ... (read in full...)
I feel like he makes no effort anymore.
Q. i dont reall know where to start, have been with my long distance boyfriend for a few years now, we usually get to see each other at weekends if not then fortnightly. he has cheated once in the past, it was the first time i had been cheated on,...
A. 22 October 2009: There are, in my eyes, a LOT of red flags here. I don't know about his past relationships, but you might be too perfect for him. Please don't get offended when I say this, I have a point. He might not be a "long term relationship person" but you ... (read in full...)
I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?
Q. When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I ...
A. 22 October 2009: I am so sorry for your loss, and that's what this is. It's like a death. The death of your marriage, which you believed so strongly in and the death of the person you thought your husband was. However, you seem to be handling yourself ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with this stress...help!
Q. hi i am so stressed and soon i am going to live with my boyfriend without my parents knowing about us. i got lots of things in my mind such as courseworks, money, living, parents etc. im worried that i might have a breakdown soon. plz help....
A. 22 October 2009: That's a lot of stuff all at once to have to deal with. You need to stop burying your head in the sand (I also do this) and take action. You need to tell your parents what you're doing. I know this probably seems impossible for you, but you have ... (read in full...)
Is my guy cheating on me, because I found a condom wrapper!
Q. I live with my bf and we have a baby together. I am 21 and he is 53. Our relationship is going great Except that he works a lot and is always tired. I know the typical scenareo where a guy is usually cheating when He is working all the tim...
A. 22 October 2009: Not enough evidence to convict. Maybe it was stuck to the bottom of his shoe when he walked in. However, I wouldn't let him off completely. I would definitely let him know, in passing & no questions or accusations, what you found and where. This ... (read in full...)
My gf's family and friends keep coming and staying with us and I just want some privacy..help!
Q. My girlfriends' family is always living with us. All summer, we have had SOMEONE from her family to live with us, and we have had MAYBE 7 days/nights alone. It's a brother or sister, and thier girlfriend/boyfriend. they are still in thier late ...
A. 22 October 2009: You are not being selfish at all. Having constant house guests would drive me crazy. You should feel comfortable in your own home and be able to do what you want when you want to do it. Why don't you do just that? Start walking around in your ... (read in full...)
I'm at a loss for new fantasies. Any ideas?
Q. My boyfriend and I have sex 1 to 2 times a day. We both like kinky wild sex. The problem is that he often tells me to tell him my wildest fantasy, to not be afraid to tell him anything, to tell him something I haven't told him before. This really ...
A. 22 October 2009: This is for "satindesire" I HAVE asked him about his fantasies and I DO talk openly with him about this. ... (read in full...)
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