He cheated, we got engaged. Then I cheated but he doesn't know!
Q. I need help, i am 22 years old and i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend/fiance since highschool (6 yrs) he was my first everything. I was so in love with him, I thought we'd be together forever, but the last few months have been rocky for ...
A. 3 June 2009: This messed you up, realy bad, although you accepted his proposal you never really have forgive him or forgotten, so thats y you did
ask yourself will you ever forgive or forget?
if you cant then end it, no point being in a relationship won... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is addicted to porn. How can I help him?
Q. Help my boyfriend is obsessed with porn? am with my boyfriend 2 half years, and i had alot problems. woman has been big threat in our relationship cas of cheating and him having them as friends. my boyfriend also loves porn never stop looki...
A. 3 June 2009: My sister has been through the same thing, she was with her ex for 6 years and it just got worse, to the point where he didnt wanna have sex with her, didnt want to go near her, but preferred to wank over porn, he was mentally obsessed with porn.
h... (read in full...)
Worried about color, shape of "down there"
Q. hi, im 17 and this is quite embarrasing but im worried about down there, it seems to be quite big and the lips hang quite low,and im ideal weight, so its not fat or anything but im really embarrassed by it and i have a boyfriend and wont let him go ...
A. 2 June 2009: I have the exact same thing, large laberus, which is the lips that hangout, mine is abit chuby but im average weight too. Nothing to worry about atall, some girls get them cut off because they find it emabarsing.
But dont worry about it.
Some ... (read in full...)
He treats me poorly but I can't stop talking to him
Q. So my and this guy have been on and off for about three years. Just recently we started hanging out again. He has recently been calling me and inviting me to these parties and when I get there, he has hickies on his neck and ignores me. I know I ...
A. 2 June 2009: Accept the fact that your not together, hang with him and his friends but only as friends, or find someone new and get person to hang with all of you lot then he will no to, itl make things better
x... (read in full...)
Fiance doesn't want to hang out because we always have sex
Q. My fiance doesn't want to hang out because we alwyas have sex and he doesnt want to risk it so he refuses to hang out with me. why are men so confusing...
A. 2 June 2009: I dont get it, risking what?
x... (read in full...)
Is it love? Or head over heels in love?
Q. My boyfriend and I have an amazing friendship, and there is so much passion between us, we enjoy each other emotionally and physically so much. I live somewhere else and spend most of my time with him at his house. Im even finding myself sleeping ...
A. 2 June 2009: Every thing you just said he does, read over and ask yourself you sily billy!
his head over heels inlove with you, when men get to the point where they dont care about anyone else but you and want you with them all the time, you have stole his hear... (read in full...)
Can I lose my virginity without really having sex?
Q. Okay im 19 years old and up until yesterday I was sure I was a virgin. Me and my boyfriend were in bed together and things got a bit too heated as he layed on top of me. I know for a fact he didnt go inside of me but I felt some pressure coming from ...
A. 2 June 2009: losing the virginity means breaking the skin inside you, wich you said alredy happens, so when he goes in it wont hurt, so thats one part of losing it.
and sex is the penis going mostly in and rubbing in and out, if he barely went in and didnt ru... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband?
Q. hi im 26 and have 3 children, i have been with my husband for 10 years and married for 2. For the last year we argue non stop about everything. We have not had sex in 6 mnths we dont sleep in the same bed, and i dont feel as though i love him, i ...
A. 2 June 2009: Leave him!
Marriage is love, this dont sound like love, if you havent had sex, or sleep in the same room thats not right, find someone that you can be happy and love instead of just care.
x... (read in full...)
What could be the reason my girlfriend does not like oral sex?
Q. My GF won't let me go down on her. We are 23, been dating for almost 2 years, and live together. I'm just trying to figure this out. I really want to go down on her, it is such a turn on, but she won't let me. Sometimes, rarely, she'll let me...
A. 2 June 2009: Girl or some girls are very conscious of this, insecurities, they may think they are too fat down there, ugly, they may have moles or spots or they smell which is a very common one.
a little thing like that can cause this to happen in a relation... (read in full...)
I'm suspicious about my husband working with female coworkers, help!
Q. I recently saw some emails from my husband's receptionist and he was calling her by her nickname. She had been sending him jokey photographs and she was bribing him to get work signed by giving him cake. I asked him why he flirted with her but ...
A. 2 June 2009: i understand completly, anyone would too.
He is flirting, but maybe he doesnt know he is because theres nothing there, maybe he dont like her in that way so that makes him flirt but e dont know his doing it.
go on your emails, or facebook, or... (read in full...)
B/f uses really bad words when we argue, he even pushes me or grabs me!
Q. My boyfriend and I had been together for more than a year. He is a really nice person except for his ego. He thinks he is all better and knows more than me because he is a year older. He also thinks that he has the rights for everything because he ...
A. 2 June 2009: So many girls are in the situation you are in at the mo, even me myself.
He has to much power over you, he controls you and this shouldnt be happening.
explain that when you argue you wanna go home to cool down becasue you dont want to argu... (read in full...)
I'm naturally quiet and he can't stand it, what do I do?
Q. My boyfriend thinks I'm too quiet when we're talking on the phone. We tend to text message a lot throughout the day and we talk on the phone at least once a day too, so my feelings are that by the time that we talk before bed it's normal to have ...
A. 2 June 2009: thats fine, iv had the same problem.
Just explain that your not a "on the phone person",
you enjoy and have more to say through text than on the phone, just say you get quite nervous and him saying wt he says dont help and makes it worse.
see hi... (read in full...)
Is it worth trying to analyse a break-up?
Q. Is it worth trying to analyze a break-up? I literally just broke up with my boyfriend 2 hours ago and I know he and I won't be talking, seeing or emailing each other ever again. I don't understand what went wrong and why it all ended when we both ...
A. 2 June 2009: if you just broke up 2 hours ago, and today he was saying what you said he said, and if he was being honest, i promise you he will come running, if he is angry at you for not feeling the same, imagine how he is feeling now, alot worse than you.
i... (read in full...)
Is there any way of finding a random stranger to do it with?
Q. my boyfriend has asked me to have a threesome and im fine with it cos ill try anything once but he wants me to ask one of my friends and im not really confortable with the idea of it being a friend so i was wondering is there any way of finding a ...
A. 2 June 2009: i completly understand that and it would be alot better todo it with a stranger cos you dont know them and its more of a turn on knowing you dont know them.
go on websites for this, theres some ones where you meet people ecspeciali for this.
or... (read in full...)
Pregnant at 15 and madly in love, help please
Q. ok, i dont know how to go about this. but i am 15 years old and possibly pregnant, all the signs add up and tests were positive. and im terrified. not that my parents might isolate me more than they already do. but knowing the man of life, may have ...
A. 2 June 2009: If your absolutly sure about ur bf, then there is a way of him not going to jail. Are you absolutly sure about not having an abortion, youre only a kid yourself, its very hard, and a lot of pain and money goes into it. abortions arent necessaril... (read in full...)
How do you have sex with a pillow?
Q. hi i'm a girl and i'm 13 years old i also have really sexual thoughts and get a warm feeling in my vagina, why is this? also i would really like to have ssex badly but i'm under aged so how can i achieve this sensation? how do you masturbate with a ...
A. 2 June 2009: Your at the age to be feeling this way, its puberty early puberty shall i say.
most people masturbate with their hands and fingers, pillows would be quite difficult, touch yourself with your hand and see what you like, you'll no what to do once... (read in full...)
4 years of what ifs?
Q. I'm a teenager and i have dated around, but i can't get my mind off this one ex-boyfriend. its almost 4 years since the relationship and still think about him sometimes during the day but mostly at night. We were on and off for a year and the ...
A. 2 June 2009: Not at all, everyone feels this way over their first love, and i mean everyone.
ever heard that saying, "you'll never forget your 1st love", you feel this way cos he was ur 1st love, you've never loved til him, u wer happy with him and cnt seem... (read in full...)
Why would I be so dry during sex?
Q. I have a problem with getting wet. I am very attracted to my boyfriend and we have been dating for quite some time, but nevertheless Im always dry as the sahara desert. I know using lube is an option, but I was wondering if anyone knows why this is ...
A. 1 June 2009: Maybe its co he dont know what you like, or how to do wt you like, you maybe attracted to him but that doesnt mean he nos what you like.
sit down tlk about the things u like, get some toys, lube, dress up, some people even like watching porn toge... (read in full...)
Now that I'm over my ex, guy that was interested doesn't want a relationship, what now?
Q. Okay so back in September 2008 this guy wanted to date me but i was in love with my ex still and could not date him. Now months later i'm over my ex and starting to like the guy that use to like me. I talk to him everyday and a couple nights i told ...
A. 1 June 2009: If you have just come out of a relationship, then maybe you shloud do wt he is suggesting, go slow, nothing needs to be rushed. he liked you then, he likes you now, he just doesnt wanna be commited to anyone just yet.
Maybe you shouldnt either cos ... (read in full...)
If it hadn't been for the alcohol, it never would have happened!
Q. I am completely and utterly in love with my boyfriend of 1 and a half years who is also my best friend. Three nights ago however, I got very, very drunk on a night out with a friend, so drunk that I can't remember the majority (apart from little f...
A. 1 June 2009: Iv been in thi situation many times... but you have to ask yourself are you happy with ur boyfriend? If your arent then thats why, your looking for a way out but you dont know it yet. If you are, then it was just a drunken thing, your boyf... (read in full...)
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