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... Send *unksavage a private message | | | *unksavage's profile:What qualifies me? Hell i dont know i might be young but im wise and i love helping people even if i dont seem the type.
Where do i live? A small city called Sarnia in the province of Ontario.
What makes me tick? I love when a woman is down to earth. I also love a woman who has a good sense of humour, and is not high maitnence. I cant stand when woman are vain or full of themself its one thing to be confident its another to be full of yourself that is a serious dealbreaker. and my girlfriend is all of the above exept for being vain ect,
My relationship status? i am in a great relationship we havent been dateing that long only about a year but weve been besties for years it might have been risky but i can see this relationship is heading somewhere and so does she, i have never been more happy. We manage to settle arguements before they even turn into arguements, the trick? we listen to eachothers side of veiw and try to come up with a solution so both partys are happy.
I have been in plenty of relationships before one that consumed 3 years of my life just argueing. my advice to all is do what makes you happy dont hang on to someone just because youve dated for a long time or think they might change its not worth it your wasting good time that you could be using to find someone that makes you happy. |
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I want to be FWB but he's pulling away!
Q. Me and this guy have been friends for a few months and after I left my most recent bf he wanted to hang out. I was hurt and upset and we had sex. After the first time he was super sweet and text me constantly. We went out for his brithday and had ...
A. 25 April 2012: Theres nothing you can do. This is why im against fwb somebody always gets hurt because they start to develop feelings not all the time but most of the time the only thing you can do is move on if hes not making an effort to contact you then its not ... (read in full...)
I can get past her cheating, but the cause for it is killing me...
Q. I understand this is a lot to read, but please do not answer if you do not read it. It took me quite a while to write down exactly how I feel and I would really like thoughtful answers. I do not believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" ...
A. 25 April 2012: First there is no such thing as a drunk accedent or accedental sex in general. It is possible for you two to date again but should you really. Its a good sign that she told you right away it proves that shes really is sorry. But it would be risky to ... (read in full...)
I made a drunken mistake with my best friend. do I tell my new b/f before he hears it somewhere else?
Q. Last night I made a silly drunken mistake with a best friend meaning things could be over before they begun with the guy I've been seeing who has now made it official. Do I tell my new boyfriend about this? Or hope he won't find out? Okay, so...
A. 13 April 2012: Yes you should. Trust is the key ingriedient to a relationship but trust is earned not given. So how to earn it is by being honest. Honesty comes first in any relationship therefore if you tell him what happened he will be angry and he may trust you ... (read in full...)
A question for men: How do you feel about pregnancy?
Q. I need some honest opinions for men out there...what goes through your mind when your woman tells you she's pregnant? And how do you feel about her as pregnancy progresses? Do you still find her physically attractive? Do you start to become ...
A. 6 April 2012: Well ive never gotten a woman pregnant but i can still speak as a man. Personally i cant wait to have kids just as long as their mother is the right woman for me. If my girlfriend was pregnant i would still find her sexaully attrative but the sex ... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits, what do you think?
Q. Me and a friend of mine have been speaking for a little while and we got onto the question of how fun it would be to have a friends with benefits and before we knew it we were discussing actually going through with it, but i have never done ...
A. 6 April 2012: Honey friends with benifits never ends well. 100% of the time somebody gets hurt. Jelousy is bout to turn its ugly head to one of you. What ever the case is it never ends well even if you make rule like no feelings involved sooner or later somebody ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous because my husband's sister in law is pregnant, please help!
Q. I'm not usually a jealous person, but this situation has made me see green. I've been married to by wonderful husband for three years, and we started trying for a baby on our honeymoon. No such luck. I've had one miscarriage that I've known ab...
A. 6 April 2012: Well you should go to a doctor and see if there is a problem with you and your husband. If the doctor says you both are ok just keep trying the more you try the more likely you are to get pregnant
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Not making a "quota" system. How much sex per week?
Q. I'm tired of asking the wife and keep getting turned down for sex. We have sex 1-2 per month, I get a BJ approx. 2 times per month. Again, i am not keeping score. I know EVERYONE is different. But, is that something to complain about?...
A. 3 April 2012: Well i think a female would be more willing to have sex maby if you did something romantic or passionate. A girl no matter how old isnt going to get turned on just by asking for it. ... (read in full...)
Why are people so mean to those who are disabled and to those with special needs?
Q. This isn't a relationship question but me and my 16 years old sister donated A LOT of money to this special needs/disable day care that stay over night etc. Today we was taking the kids to Dairy Queen and people was talking ish about them saying ...
A. 2 April 2012: My heart goes out to the special needs. For highschool i got my hours done volenteering and a special needs home. I think alot of people are rude to them because there an easy target, its easy to make fun of someone beacause there "different". Also ... (read in full...)
Tips for new and exciting sex?
Q. Hi everyone! I'm going out of town for a vacation with my boyfriend next week. He's been out of the country for 3 months for work, and what I'm looking for are some tips for some new and exciting sex. Mostly to the men out there, what is somethin...
A. 5 January 2012: lol i just love being with my girlfriend im sure anything you do will be fine to him. and if you really want to know that bad why dont you try asking him something that he would like to do maby in a sexy voice. i unno just a suggestion. ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my ex is in denial that he still loves me
Q. Dear Cupids, I am friends with my ex boyfriend. We broke in the summer of last year. We talk regularly. Hasn't been easy at times but we're both getting on with things. We've both being seeing other people etc etc I recently spoke to him on...
A. 5 January 2012: i cant really answer this in confidence cause i dont really know him. but i do know that quite a few men bounce back faster then females. my advice is to let go and move on. hes seeing other girls you should be seeing other guys.
you owe it to your... (read in full...)
He loves being with me but isn't in love with me. What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I got pregnant within the first month of being with him. During the pregnancy things were going good between me and him. After the baby was born we started getting distant from each ...
A. 23 December 2011: I totally agree with S.V.C. if you love someone it should be unconditional not totally lost over some gained weight. i wouldnt care if my girlfriend gained a 100 lbs i would be woriied about her health but i would still love her as much as i do ... (read in full...)
In a relationship but found out my girl best mate fancies me, what should I do?
Q. My best friends a girl and i fancied her for month, then another girl asked me out and I am going out with her now but my girl best mate told me she fancied me for months and still does, what do i do? Me and my girlfriend has had a lot of argument ...
A. 23 December 2011: in that case it sounds like you to shouldnt be together (you and your best mate that is) she clearly has alot to learn. and if shes still in love your just setting yourself up for more hurt. i say just stay friends... (read in full...)
Advice needed on my on/off relationship to try and resolve our problems
Q. I am Having trouble in my relationship with my Boyfriend,We have been together (on and off) for about 3 years, things get bad then we break up for a while and then we end up back together, its like we cant live without each other and we cant live ...
A. 23 December 2011: Honey you have to do what is right for you. you have to ask yourself am i happy with him, genuinely happy. i was in a relationship much like yours we fought then we would break up then get back together, things would be fine for a little bit then ... (read in full...)
Am I a sex addict?
Q. Hi! I´m a 16 year old girl (and Im going to make 17 years next month, january) and lately I have been wondering why do i think at every second about sex. At the beginning, when i started to noticed it I thought that thinking about sex all the time...
A. 23 December 2011: it normal to think about sex alot at your age, your hormones are all out of wack at this stage. theres nothing wrong with it its just you have to be carefull. you dont want to get the stigma of being called a slut or a whore. just make sure when you ... (read in full...)
I don’t know if the issue is me being insecure or jealous, or his past, how he is, his stubborness, meaness and defensiveness or a combination of it all
Q. So I have known this guy for about 4 years but we barely spoken until this year. He had a girlfriend when I met him and SHE just broke up with him last year. I ran into him again about May of this year and we started talking and became very close ...
A. 22 December 2011: honey if your not happy dont stay with him, life is to short to waste time on people who you arent happy with.... (read in full...)
In a relationship but found out my girl best mate fancies me, what should I do?
Q. My best friends a girl and i fancied her for month, then another girl asked me out and I am going out with her now but my girl best mate told me she fancied me for months and still does, what do i do? Me and my girlfriend has had a lot of argument ...
A. 22 December 2011: the answer is really up to you. i was in a situation much like yourself. i was in a relationship for 3 years we argued constantly. like you one of my best friends was a female who liked me and the feelings were mutual. i eventually decided to break ... (read in full...)
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