I'm not pretty, will anyone ever love me?
Q. ok i am going to be 100% honest and realistic about my situation however sad it sounds! Recently i fell in love with a guy. The first time i have ever fell in love. I don't think he felt the same way but he gave me a taste of how amazing it is to...
A. 4 May 2009: Hey Beautiful, you're not ugly. There are billions of people in this world all with different tastes and appreciations. I'm an ugly guy, but i couldn't be happier because i'm with the girl of my dreams, the one i've always noticed and always w... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time with this relationship?
Q. Right now I'm in a very unhappy relationship. I have no idea what my boyfriend is feeling or thinking! Here is some basic information: - He is the same age as me - We were great friends for years before becoming a couple - We've been dating fo...
A. 4 May 2009: I don't know what to advise you, its scary how similar it sounds to my situation. I met a girl i really liked at she had trouble showing her emotions we could talk about shallow unimportant things but anything more serious and she'd shut down. fo... (read in full...)
Everyone else is in love with my boyfreind,why cant I be?
Q. Hi i need help ,I'm in a relationship that I see going nowhere, He loves me to bits my family adore him,I think they like him even more than they like me,he is perfect. I cant talk to him ,I don't find his jokes funny ,we cant laugh together ,I ...
A. 4 May 2009: where as the previous two posts are completely valid. That may well be what you need to do. You do seem to hold him in quite high regard. Is it possible you are just scared of what the future holds the commitment to him. If you're family love him... (read in full...)
I feel like the most boring, ugliest, most bitter person ever! What do I do about it?
Q. I don't know whether I'm depressed or what. But I don't feel ok. I don't feel very happy. Ok, so let's see. This has been happening for a while, but usually I feel bad because of boredom and because I feel I lack something. I have some hobbies but...
A. 4 May 2009: hey, i find you fascinating and i don't know you so you're not boring or stupid because you have written how you feel and your problem in such a way that i enjoyed reading it and felt how deep a person you are. And hey, i am boring ugly and stupid b... (read in full...)
Current relationship is depressing me
Q. Hi there, I have been in this relationship with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. But lately I am depressed, when i asked myself ; 'why?' I came to the conclusion that this current relationship is depressing me. She is very indifferent a...
A. 4 May 2009: Like the previous guy said it is a chat that is needed. however with your emotions getting out of control and her inability to take in how you feel it won't be an easy conversation. she might know that she isn't very good at understanding and disc... (read in full...)
Evidence of cheating on his cellphone, how do I confront him?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm in a long distance relationship for a little over two years now. Last weekend while visting my boyfriend, I snooped in his cell phone. I had a gut feeling for a few months that something might be up , but everything he said seeme...
A. 4 May 2009: I have a couple of opinions, One being you don't know for certain that this meeting was for a date and not a casual catch up between friends or work colleagues, of course it may have been obvious from the wording on the text message (kisses etc) mo... (read in full...)
I know he likes me as much as her!
Q. i need help. This guy has a girlfriend. he talks to me more than he talks to his girlfriend. and we have great conversations(usually on the phone or through text), lots of fun together (only by ourselves though). Nobody has any idea that we even ...
A. 4 May 2009: I'm so sorry for your situation, it must be horrible for you. But you've got to look at the situation for what it is, and its not pretty. If this guy can't stop seeing the girl he is currently with to be with you then he isn't worth the time. I ... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits or couldthere be more?
Q. My long time best friend is a male, we have been friends since we were both 4 years old, and never once have we ever felt anything between us other then just friends. We both have have ended our last relationships about 8 months ago and started ...
A. 4 May 2009: I don't like all this friends with benefits business. I'd be tempted to say he likes you because the way you descibe it there makes it sound as if you shared something special. You've been friends for along time so you must have alot in common a... (read in full...)
Girl likes boy, boy likes girl!
Q. ok, so theres this boy i've known about for 9 months now. i told him i liked him in january, and he was cool with it. i really like him. he told me last month that he liked me too! he sent me a text message this one night asking "what would yo...
A. 4 May 2009: haha cute, its a joint effort. lets face it you're both terrified. my first conversation of this type was on MSN a few years back. it went "i used to fancy you in school" "why didn't you tell me?" "i don't know, didn't think you'd be interested i ... (read in full...)
My FWB knows I am a virgin - will he still want to have sex? I don't know what to do.
Q. me and my friend with benefits we havent slept together and i am still a virgin i lied to him and said i have been with loads of guys and then yesterday i told him the truth and now he is feeling guilty that he has ruined my first time doing cert...
A. 4 May 2009: Only lose your virginity with him if he is special to you. Then your first time can only be special. It isn't important how, when or where you do it, that isn't what makes it special, its being with someone you love. If this friend just wants to... (read in full...)
I'm still a virgin and afraid I won't know what to do
Q. I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 21. We both want to have sex but im still a virgin and im scared he wont like it or i wont know what to do or it will really hurt and i am completely in love with him and we are engaged what do i do...
A. 4 May 2009: Really the last thing you should be worrying about is inexperience. Sharing the first time with someone is something special and beautiful. I myself am still a virgin and so is my girlfriend. I'm not worried at all about not having a clue (and bel... (read in full...)
Wait for sex?
Q. What does it mean if a guy (whose a close friend) says he will "wait" as long as I want for sex? Do you think that he cares more about "just sex" and he actually has feelings/and cares about me?... or does he just want sex only? :S I'm still...
A. 4 May 2009: Hi there, just want to say, there is a small chance this guy is a creep. Only small mind you as i don't know him or the full story. Just quickly want to clarify. I'm a virgin, at 24 it can be a bit frustrating. My girlfriend of 5 years is also a v... (read in full...)
What do YOU guys do???
Q. Exams are coming up soon and i study at uni from mornin til late night. currently i dont have a girlfriend and i see quite a few really nice girls in the library. i get nervous jus to go up to talk to a girl. once when i was walkin up a flig...
A. 4 May 2009: Hi mate, i think maybe you're worrying too much. You don't want to seem desperate, i had a hell of a time when i was in school/college and the like. But sometimes things just work out. In my experience i'd say let things happen, getting talking to ... (read in full...)
I'm a young female adult who has become wary about my pubic mound!
Q. I'm a young female adult who has become wary about my pubic mound. I never thought about it too much but became paranoid once my mum pointed out that it sticks out, after that I've noticed that it's different to others and is noticable. Is it normal ...
A. 4 May 2009: Hi young female Adult. I just happened across this madeness and had to jump in. To be honest, the pubic mound is a beautiful part of the female body. If i do notice my girlfriends area at all i find it very sexy. You've got to recall that men aren't ... (read in full...)
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