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*abygirl92
writes:I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 21.We both want to have sex but im still a virgin and im scared he wont like it or i wont know what to do or it will really hurt and i am completely in love with him and we are engaged what do i do
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reader, Polite Fellow  +, writes (4 May 2009):
Really the last thing you should be worrying about is inexperience. Sharing the first time with someone is something special and beautiful.I myself am still a virgin and so is my girlfriend. I'm not worried at all about not having a clue (and believe me i haven't) I'm just looking forward to the day i can share the intimacy and the pure love with my one and only. I'd much rather her be a virgin than experienced because it means i am her only one, as she is mine.Trust me i'm certain that no guy finds inexperience a turn off, unless they are mental.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (13 March 2009):
 In that case just one person is nice for you because he knows what to do, but hasn't slept around so to speak. I really don't think you have anything to worry about. Fiona.
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reader, babygirl92 +, writes (12 March 2009):
babygirl92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe does have some experience he has only been with one person
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (12 March 2009):
I assume he's older and more experienced, so that will help if one of you knows what to do so to speak. As for being embarrassed about being a virgin, believe me I was 18 when I first had sex. I am sure he knows that you are a virgin, he will tell from how you react to his advanced (this is what I was told in the situation). You can always have a quick chat about it so he knows you are a bit apprehensive.
Fiona.
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