My ex dumped me because of my body hair and now I am so insecure over this!
Q. so I have a bit of an insecurity and a recent boyfriend who dumped me over it has made me feel so much worse about it. I am asian and I do have some excess body hair. my back and stomach are quite hairy. I pretty much have some hair all over my...
A. 12 December 2011: That was such a horrible thing to do. There isnt really an excuse for that, and you will be better off with someone who can appriciate you for who you are. Eveyone has hair over most of their body, some are fortunante and its blonde and they ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity and could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi...I'm a 21year old and I'm still a virgin so I'm really clueless about sex. My boyfriend and I were making out so things got heated, we both ended with just our underwear on. I don't know if this is regarded dry sex or not but I was laying flat ...
A. 12 December 2011: To lose your virginity the penis has to enter the vagina.
And I wouldn't worry, it doesn't sound at all like you're pregant. You've had your period since and taken multiple negative pregancy tests. You'll be fine.
However i would consider t... (read in full...)
Is going to a strip club like cheating? Is it worth losing someone you love to go?
Q. My friends and I were having this debate over the fact my girl and I agreed with each other that neither one of us would be okay if the other went to strip clubs. They happen to believe I am submissive to my gf, when in fact it was a MUTUAL dec...
A. 12 December 2011: If you and your girlfriend have agreed not to go to strip clubs, then there isn't any need to worry about what your friends think. They are probably just justifying your own behavour. Putting agreed boundries in a relationship isnt being submissive. ... (read in full...)
Is this just mild, controlling behavior or something else?
Q. My bf of 2 years is really a sweet guy but he has this very mild, controlling behavior...For instance, if I ask him if we can get something to eat he will say "no, we just ate" or "no, have patience." At a restaurant, he controls what I eat and ...
A. 28 November 2011: Yes, you have every right to order whatever you like! Espeically if you are paying your half of the bill.
Next time if you want something and he complains, just say 'I respect your opinion, but I would like to do ____'
If you stand up to him ... (read in full...)
Spotting before my period is due and definitely not pregnant....is this normal?
Q. I have been on the pill for 10 months, never missed a pill, take it at the same time to the minute, but every month before my period is due, i have brown spotting and then my period follows as normal. i have been to the doctors and they advised to ...
A. 28 November 2011: You shouldn't start your placebo pills early as this may affect the protection your pill gives you.
I've had random spotting before my period is due before, but it is rare and doesn't happen every month.
I would consider asking your doct... (read in full...)
How soon is too soon for the "L" word?
Q. I met a really great girl about 6 weeks ago. We get along great and we have been spending a lot of time together. She lives about 30 miles away from me and yet we still spend about 4 days per week together - Friday one of us goes to visit the othe...
A. 27 November 2011: In my opinion there isn't really any a certain time after which too say 'I love you'. Every relationship and person is different. But i do agree after the first date it would be too soon!
Are you offically together yet?
If you feel it - you sh... (read in full...)
Is this just mild, controlling behavior or something else?
Q. My bf of 2 years is really a sweet guy but he has this very mild, controlling behavior...For instance, if I ask him if we can get something to eat he will say "no, we just ate" or "no, have patience." At a restaurant, he controls what I eat and ...
A. 27 November 2011: Yes he is being controlling. The part where you said 'he doesnt allow me'. He shouldnt have to 'let' you do things. He can give his opinion, but the end result is your choice.
I think you need to take control now. Its up to you what you order wh... (read in full...)
Should I give the guy from my past another chance?
Q. it's been three months since i split with my ex bf of 1yr 3months ( he was cheating on me). since then i've been asked out by 4 guys who really want long term relationship with me but i said no.. however recenetly a guy from my past came back.....
A. 27 November 2011: Personally I don't think its a good idea. What he said to you was horrible - even if he was drunk!
Also the fact he is saying that he loves you, even though you've only started speaking again recently is a bit odd.
If you would like to gi... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so bad about leaving him??
Q. hi it's my first time posting here! i just wanted to ask is why am i feeling so bad for leaving my boyfriend? we were going out for almost 2 years and i endured his lies secret conversation with girls, secret outings with his immature friends...
A. 27 November 2011: A simular situation happened to me. You did the right thing - you don't need a relationship where you have to spy on them because you can't trust them and they constantly go behind your back.
You feel bad because you spent a lot time with him, so ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that she might be pregnant?
Q. I am 18, in first year university. My girlfriend is almost 17, in her last year of highschool. We've been dating since August and had sex twice. The first time, which was the FIRST time for both of us, we used a condom, and it seemed like it was ...
A. 27 November 2011: I think its very unlikely that she is pregnant.
I haven't used a condom with my boyfriend for a year and a half because I am on the pill and neither of us have STIs. I have not become pregnant during this time as the pill is a reliable form of birh... (read in full...)
Good place for a first date?? Ideas?
Q. Just a quick question: Where would be a good place to take a girl on a first date? I'm from the UK, so would prefer to hear from British girls, but any suggestions from overseas would be very helpful too :) I know it seems like a stupid thing to ...
A. 24 November 2011: A nice meal out is always a good idea or going to a pub for a chat and a few drinks - like stated in earlier answers. Bowling is also fun, even if neither of you are any good!
It depends how well you know the girl - if you know something she like... (read in full...)
Getting in touch with the guy I like from school?
Q. I saw this cute guy at school. I found out we were already friends on facebook and yesterday he posted a song on his wall. I liked it and commented "old school!" he said "yes" and then said he hates some rappers, among others was an artist I liked, ...
A. 24 November 2011: Hi!
Firsty do you speak to this guy at school? If not you could start with saying hi when you see him or talking to him if he's in any of your classes.
I wouldnt worry about him not replying to your last comment, maybe you could speak to h... (read in full...)
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