My boyfriend may be into transexuals, based on a few clues, what should I do??
Q. THiS iS VERY iMPORTANT!!!!!!! i NEED SOMEONES HElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -My boyfriend is very much straight,i believe.Hes such a manly man.but over these passed 5 months ive experienced things that make me think hes somewhat bisexual or maybe has a certain ...
A. 5 March 2011: Hello he may have never done anything sexual but it deffinetly sounds like he really wants to. The things he is doing is cheating my bf did the same thing so I ended it.You need someone who is open and honest you are the only one he should be ... (read in full...)
I'm falling head over heels for him, but he wants friendship and who's supposed to text first?
Q. Ok, so I asked an advice before regarding to this, but anyways, i met a guy two weeks ago. I posted an ad on a gay dating site stating that i was looking for a Bf but obviously friends and then we would see where would it take us. Anyways, we went ...
A. 25 February 2011: Hello I think you should take things slower yes its very hard to do sometimes people confuse not wanting to be alone to love but it takes time to fall in love. I dont know why its so easy for us gay guys to fall in love so quickly maybe we think we ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is very controlling to the point I'm scared to talk to other people!
Q. A little background. i have been with my girlfriend for around 2 1/2 years, it was very good and still is when there is no trouble. She ended up cheating on me over a year ago, slept in a hotel with her ex (but never did anything) though they wer...
A. 20 February 2011: Hello ok. from my experience I have learned that my ex was too controlling because he did do something wrong and wanted to punish someone since i was the closest thing it seemed ok. I had to leave it wasnt making me happy and if you are not happy ... (read in full...)
3rd cousins who are in love with each other
Q. i am in love with my third cousin..our dads mothers(grannys) share a common grandfather..which means we share a commom great great grandfather..we never met each other until may 2010..this is when we saw each other for the first time.. as hindu...
A. 20 February 2011: Hello so sweetie when your young life seems so difficult so many people to please and you get left out. These times they are a changing but some people will be stuck not wanting to move forward. You need to take it slow with your cousin love comes ... (read in full...)
After spending the weekend together she says she doesn't like me as much as she used to
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with a girlfriend. i am 15 she is 14. we just spent the weekend together and hugged and kissed alot. But now i have left she said she is confused and that she dosnt think she likes me as much as she used to. she ...
A. 20 February 2011: Hello your just young you are gonna have so many girlfriends like 30 or 40. These feelings are normal since she has not broken up with you then take it slow let her say its over at your age shell probably text you or tell one of her friends to do it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ejaculates too fast during sex!
Q. Well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and it was kinda odd because he came so fast :| ..i felt this way because before we actually did have sex like a few weeks before he was saying that he felt sorry for me (because he probably ...
A. 20 February 2011: Hello there so there are so many answers but perhaps he doesnt masterbate when your not around tell him to masterbate 2 hours or 3 hours before then see if hes different. Guys who masterbate more will last longer plus try doing some for play tell ... (read in full...)
What's he doing on the weekends? Am I paranoid or what?
Q. I met a man a month ago. We get along great. He is currently on disability because of an injury to his leg so except for doctor's appointments he is available to get together any time of the day. We live a few hours apart and make frequent drives to ...
A. 20 February 2011: It sounds like your getting a little pushy since your not in a relationship. To some it would be nice but to others not so much one email is ok or a text if he says he will contact you on a certain day let it go at that if after a month goes by and ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's past relationships with much older men?
Q. i cant stop thinking about my girlfriend's past. She used to date way older men before me. I get sick when she try to act interesting I don't know if she's with me because of money.. I mean what type of connection can you have with someone 20 ...
A. 20 February 2011: Well its time to move on if you start to feel sickened its not a good sighn dont know how long youve been together so you could try talking to her anout it say it bothers you. You will know how to make your decision by her response if she tells you ... (read in full...)
Lonely and sad here...please help!
Q. I am feeling very lonely and sad. I have no friends. I cannot keep conversations going. please help!...
A. 20 February 2011: It is unfortunate on a planet with so many people that someone can be lonely but its more common that you think. Weather its a low self esteem or you feel weird or that you are different the internet has so many dating and chat sights out there that ... (read in full...)
We've been doing things that friends shouldn't do
Q. i ive known a guy for five months already. we became friends and we spend a lot of time together. but what happened is that, i think we have been doing things that freinds should not do. we kiss each other very often and e hug a lot.( by the way, ...
A. 20 February 2011: Hello I've been in the same situation if you dont want to damage things you sholdnt push it. just take it slow let it happen. Are you looking for reasurance that its ok, Love can come anytime but if you rush things you could get hurt as for doing ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to speed up this love process? Or how to cope with not having anyone?
Q. I have encountered a few questions similar to mine, but there's something about being responded to directly that beats just taking the advice given to someone else with a similar question. At any rate I am in complete distress, and I really would ...
A. 12 February 2011: They say everything takes time but for some reason us gay guys dont wanna wait.My problem is that I fall in love to quickly and will stay with a guy even if im not happy its the fear of being alone. We try so hard to be acceptable in other peoples ... (read in full...)
I wish he hadn't told me! Boyfriend's best friend gave him oral sex!
Q. My boyfriend once told me a couple months ago that several years ago his best guy friend kissed him, and he said that he wasn't gay or curious at all and knew it was wrong but he let him. And I didn't really care, whatever, shit like that happens. ...
A. 12 February 2011: Your bf told you he isnt gay. You have to trust your bf trust is very important in a relationship. your bf didnt have to tell you he could have kept it a secret from you.How are you and his gay friend have you hung out with him is he a cool guy ... (read in full...)
Why is she avoiding having me meet her parents?
Q. I have been going out with this girl for 5-6 months now. I like her a lot and she likes me too. My friends and family know about her and she has met them all. But she has not told her family and friends about me and they do not know that we are ...
A. 12 February 2011: My ex did the same thing we are gay but that dont matter there could be somethings shes not telling you about herself or her or she maybe a little worried on how they would react maybe you are not what they would like. Does she have another ... (read in full...)
I'm unsure about my sexuality...am I gay or straight?
Q. i am in my twenties. i find myself wondering about my sexuality. Since high school i have jumped back and forth between the sexual identities of straight, bi, and gay. when i look at porn, i tend to drift towards gay, or group (multiple guys, on...
A. 12 February 2011: Being gay-straight-pink and purple I was alot like you when i was in my 20s well maybe alot younger. It is best to experiment have fun. There are alot of guys out there like you many just keep it to themselves,its easy to stay with the norm but ... (read in full...)
Erection Help
Q. Hey, I'm 16 and a gay lad, i have a problem which i dont know what to do about, i know i am gay so i know that is not the reason why, i cant get a proper erection, by this i mean i get it up for about 1 min then it starts to go soft, this only ...
A. 10 February 2011: This used to happen to me when i was your age also being gay it was usually around the time i was getting more experience with guys nervous or tired or just not into the guy your still young yet it will pass then you will never be able to get it ... (read in full...)
Why does this girl compare other guys to me?
Q. Why does this girl compare other guys to me? Like she will be talking to me about a guy and say, "He is like you in this way and that". These are guys who I have not met, I know she is trying to describe them to me. She also tells me secrets about ...
A. 9 February 2011: If she is saying nice things about those guys then great but if they are very bad wow we all need friends some can be best and some not perhaps you should say like hey whats up with that. She is also a girl and they love to talk about guys does she ... (read in full...)
He says "I think the world of you but I can't get my heart broken?
Q. hey, me and my boyfriend just split up and i cnt do nothing else n think of him. iv tryed keepin busy by going out with my friends but at seems to be making me worse, every night since iv just cryed and cant get to sleep as i keep thinking were did ...
A. 9 February 2011: Stop listening to the radio they always play sad songs when you dont wanna cry what I did when my ex left was record all happy songs and only listen to them then butified myself I went SHOPPING. I turned many heads even my own when i looked in the ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I may be just a rebound for him
Q. I started dating a guy that I met online a month ago, and I'm worried that I might just be a rebound for him. He was in a on-again-off-again relationship with a horrible guy for 3 years, and finally ended it only a few days before he messaged me and ...
A. 9 February 2011: If he wants to move slowly then thats what you have to do or you will push him so far away that you will definately loose him. if you and him were truley meant to be together then it will happen but if you and him were meant for something other than ... (read in full...)
How can I start trusting him again?
Q. Well, how to start this, i have a bf and we are together for about 2 years. And for these past few month, i somehow know that he is cheating on me with his ex gf. He was dump badly with this girl and thrown him away from her life. That girl cheated ...
A. 9 February 2011: Ok no in my opinion you cant trust him if you are asking if you should trust him you already know the answer you just need confirmation from other people. We wanna believe deep in our hearts that cheaters can change and even if they can whats to ... (read in full...)
How do I tell people I am gay??.... No one knows!!
Q. Im gay and iv always known that but no 1 else does how do i come out????? plz help...
A. 9 February 2011: So like i was told that when you come out you get a free microwave boy was I ever disapointed. My mother was like I love you but cant except it my father was like hes posessed get him its a sin. If i could do it all over I would not have told them ... (read in full...)
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