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30-35,
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writes:i am in love with my third cousin..our dads mothers(grannys) share a common grandfather..which means we share a commom great great grandfather..we never met each other until may 2010..this is when we saw each other for the first time..as hindus our parents will be against our relationship..and the hindu marraige act is also an issue which doesnot allow upto 3rd cousin marraiges on the paternal side..i know that we belong together..but he also suppresses he feelings due to worries on how the family will react...and not wanting to hurt the family... i want to know if theres any way around this..what steps should i take?
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reader, phoenix69  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 Hello so sweetie when your young life seems so difficult so many people to please and you get left out. These times they are a changing but some people will be stuck not wanting to move forward. You need to take it slow with your cousin love comes in mysterious ways its the love bug bad bug. Why tell anyone why not keep it a secret and if it lasts until you are older then tell them. Religion has screwed society up we are so worried about how god or some diety will react and stop being happy. The greatest gift is love it should be embraced not feared so take things slow and see where it leads.....
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