My best friend: to date or not to date?
Q. So I posted this question but got no answers. So here it is again. Hey y'all. Sorry I haven't been giving advice too much lately, I just haven't been online too much this summer. Anyways, I'm having a little emotional dilemma. My best fr...
A. 26 July 2010: I am in the same position. So for what it's worth. Yes I do think you should try to date her. I have had exactly the same thoughts about standing at her wedding to someone else! My conclusion to my own situation is that me and this girl have been ... (read in full...)
My friend is suicidal, how can I help her?
Q. I have a friend that is depressed and lately she has mentioned even suicide. I am trying my best to help her since I am the only person that she talks to about everything. She is 30yrs old and has gone throught so much in her life, was divorced...
A. 25 July 2010: First of all I would say the most important thing to do is just be there to listen to her. She may have a lot of stuff bottled up inside and just by being there and listening to her you are doing a good job. You say you don't live local but would ... (read in full...)
Is there a manual for dating a librarian?
Q. Hello, I am on summer research at a school far away from mine. I regularly use the library here, and have noticed one of the librarians who checks out books is very nice and also attractive. I would like to approach her and ask her out or just ...
A. 21 June 2010: I work in a library and we are not dragons! Infact people have asked our staff out and we don't bite..we are normal people outside of work!! Don't treat it as being any different from asking out a shop worker!... (read in full...)
She's emotionally unavailable and it's killing me...
Q. Can anyone tell me how to handle a woman who is emotionally unavailable? I love her but she now just wants to be friends......
A. 2 June 2010: What you have to find out is does she not want a relationship with anyone at the moment or does she not ant a relationship with YOU. If it's the first then hang on in there, be her friend so if and when the time comes she feels she is able to date ... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I can't have??
Q. I desperately need advice because I am feel I am about to just completely fall apart or do something stupid. I have a female best friend, we do everything together, we have the same interests, and we both mean the world to each other. I have been ...
A. 28 May 2010: The bit that concerns me is that she says you are like a brother to her, but when a lot of people say you have no chance once you are in the 'friends' zone, I think it's possible with enough effort to get out of the friends zone.
Yet she has ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend but see no future with him
Q. i am in a very hard siruation.. ive been in a relationship for nearly a year (know him for 20. i love him soooo much and he ses he lovs me two.wer always on the fone he is like by best frend.. however there is no future as there amre many ...
A. 26 May 2010: ok well I'm not the best person to seek advice from to be honest because I haven't any experience with different culture relationships, but what I would say is that it is YOUR life and you have to be happy so don't throw away something you have with ... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I can't have??
Q. I desperately need advice because I am feel I am about to just completely fall apart or do something stupid. I have a female best friend, we do everything together, we have the same interests, and we both mean the world to each other. I have been ...
A. 26 May 2010: I agree with Cerberus. As I was / am in the same position with my female best friend. We are both 26, do everything together and have known each other since school. I told her how I felt and it did not change our friendship at all. If the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend but see no future with him
Q. i am in a very hard siruation.. ive been in a relationship for nearly a year (know him for 20. i love him soooo much and he ses he lovs me two.wer always on the fone he is like by best frend.. however there is no future as there amre many ...
A. 24 May 2010: Why is there no future with your current boyfriend? And how can you be believeing there is definetely a future with this new guy? You have not even been on one date with him and you are considering ending a relationship with someone who you claim ... (read in full...)
What makes a guy fall in love with his best girl friend?
Q. what makes a guy fall in love with his best girl friend? what are signs to look for? thanks!!!...
A. 2 May 2010: I can answer this as I fell in love with my best girl friend. Something either happens to make you realise what your life would be like if they were not around (i.e. they move away / date someone else so do not see you as much) or secondly I dated ... (read in full...)
Torn between my boyfriend and my perfect best friend!
Q. Hi everyone! I'm stuck in a dilemma! You see i have been with this guy for 11 months now, i know its not really that long, but i do love him, or well at least i thought i did. We get on really well, but recently we've been having a few little arg...
A. 2 May 2010: Choose your best friend...because ultimately if you have feelings for each other it may get to the stage where your current boyfriend will become jealous of the closeness that you share with your best friend and likewise your best friend may find it ... (read in full...)
Feelings for my best friend
Q. have you ever had a problem that you have drivin yourself crazy over but just couldnt figure it out? well thats pretty much what i have here. i have a best friend that ive had feelings for over the past two years. she is one of the greatest girls ...
A. 28 April 2010: I am 26 but am in the same position as I have been best friends with a girl since we were 15. I told her and my opinion is that telling her shouldn't mess up your friendship IF it is as strong as you think it is. Maybe just make a passing comment ... (read in full...)
Mates will make fun of me if I ask this girl out
Q. theres this girl who likes me. i think she is nice but if i go out with her i will get stick off my mates. what should i do?...
A. 13 April 2010: They aren't true friends if they would make fun of you. If you like her then go for it.... (read in full...)
How do I handle this situation with this seller on ebay?
Q. Hi. I was wondering if you could offer some advice about this ?. I won a bid on ebay for some concert tickets, and paid for them straight away. It has now been three weeks since i paid for them, and i still haven't received them. I sent the seller a ...
A. 28 March 2010: If you paid with paypal you can open a dispute. The seller must be able to prove the item was delivered. Providing a receipt to show the item was posted is not enough. If the seller did not send recorded delivery and cannot provide online tracking ... (read in full...)
Do I choose the boyfriend who loves me, or the guy I really like?
Q. ok here it goes...my name is eliza and me and my boyfriend have been toghether for a month he is a good guy but he is reallly immature and really obsessive and grabs my ass and my boobs like every 5 mins. He loves me but sometimes i dont know if i ...
A. 21 February 2010: I have been in this position...and my simple answer is choose your friend. Looking back at my experience I would not have to give it a moments thought to know I would be doing the right thing.... (read in full...)
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