How do I get her interested in sex again?
Q. i have been with my gf for 6 years and we have a 3 year old daughter, i love her very much but lately our sex life has almost died, she tells me shes not interested in sex anymore which has left me more than frustrated. how do i get her interested ...
A. 5 January 2008: maybe your partner is suffering from "mommy syndrome". many women spend so much time doing the mommy stuff they forget that they are also women!! i did and remember it well. my partner even started calling me mommy!!! idea...go back to basics the ... (read in full...)
How can I save this relationship?
Q. I have a problem with my gf she is starving me sexually, she is currently pregnancy but the problem started before that. we live together I have spoken to her several times but she is not improving at all. After several argument we decided to have ...
A. 5 January 2008: many women find having sex while pregnant a total turn off as they are wanting to 'protect' the baby. try wanking and let nature take its course!! if you feel that sex is so important to you rather than her and you want to go off and find someone ... (read in full...)
What can I do to comfort him?
Q. I have a problem with something that's going on with my relationship. My fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years now and things could not be better. He has always had this friend that I didn't like because he's loud, obnoxious, and j...
A. 5 January 2008: just keep telling him you love him. you could try adjusting the balance of blame so to speak by saying it was your fault as you were the one that had drunk a wee bit too much and fell asleep on the sofa leaving yourself open to the 'attack'?? it is ... (read in full...)
We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?
Q. This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...
A. 5 January 2008: go to the doctors together and let a proffesional quell her fears is one idea. the 'first time' fears of pain and suffering are very much over rated and the fear is set by gossip and miss information. the knowledge that in some instances heavy ... (read in full...)
Should I be the one who breaks off from him?
Q. I am having a problem figuring out the status of my current relationship with my "bf". We have been together for what would be 7 months and 2 days after xmas we both decided that the previous few wks have been very weird. Whether it be more stress ...
A. 5 January 2008: Snap!! You sound just like me!! I'll tell you what i'm doing and see if that helps you any. I'm doing my own thing, i'm going out, meeting people working etc as if I'm single. I'm NOT looking for another man just been single. I am still entertaining ... (read in full...)
Help me spot a rebound relationship...
Q. I need some insight on a situation. I recently split from my partner of 3 years, and I just want to know about a "rebound". How do you know when someone is the rebound? How do you get over someone that you really loved and planned on being with, th...
A. 6 June 2006: yes we will get over a love like that- because we're worth it, like the advert says. Let me tell you a short story-'my' fella did the it's not you thing then changed his mind, I was overjoyed, he'd finally offered me everything I wanted, marriage, ... (read in full...)
I'm falling asleep on the phone and she thinks that I don't listen!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going strong for 9 months now. It's long distance since I'm at school, so we are on the phone late at night a lot. On several occasions during these late at night conversations, she'll be talking for a while and I'm ...
A. 28 April 2006: You need to explain to your girlfriend that you are tired and because it's late and you're comfy that on occasions you will nod off to the sound of her sweet voice...if she cant accept that she will need to phone you earlier! Try asking her to keep ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't really love her, why is he with her?
Q. I'm involved with a man that has 2 of us on the go! He is 36 I am 40 the other woman is 58, yes 58! He met me 4 months ago 5 weeks after his 9 year relationship with her ended,she ended it. Everything between him and I was totally fine untill she ...
A. 28 April 2006: After reading other questions on this site I realised what a weakly little wanker he is, it culminated in a telephone call he made to me yesterday telling me he'd done all the hoovering and dusting and changed the bed linnen at this older womans ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend spends more time with motorbike than with me, Advice needed!
Q. I am 21, my boyfriend is 24 and has recently become obsessed with his motorbike. He spends all day maintaining it when he's not at work; if he's not doing that he's out on the road with it, refusing to let me come. Our relationship was good...
A. 27 April 2006: Hi Becky as an old crow the answer is simple- either get rid of your boyfriend or the motorbike! you could get yourself a hobby that involves meeting alot of other people, like men and see what happens if youre not around so much? either that or ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to REALLY listen?
Q. I feel like when I try to talk to my boyfriend, when I am upset, he doesn't know how to listen empathetically, even though I know he is just confused and not sure what to do. He asks me "what do you want me to say?", but of course I don't want him ...
A. 27 April 2006: try writting it down instead! ... (read in full...)
She miscarried and we broke up and now shes sleeping with my friend!!
Q. A year ago, we lost a child. She lied to me about the date that she lost the child and rarely discusses the "miscarriage". She insisted I leave the house and not be arround her during the time she lost the child in fact we broke up. A month later ...
A. 27 April 2006: I think you already know the answer but I'll say my peace anyway- you dont normally get confused about when you lost a child, everyone has their own way of dealing with the loss of a baby but it's unusual to jump into bed with someone 'new' a month ... (read in full...)
Is it posssible to subconsciously try to get pregnant?
Q. Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months,we'r both in our mid-late 20's so age not an issue, and we often end up having unprotected sex. The first time it happened I was quiet drunk but told him the next morning that we had to use condoms from now on, ...
A. 27 April 2006: whats this 'we' thing. you're incontrol of your birth control not both of you! Chances are you are aware of how much he likes and wants kids and maybe you're aware this would be a way to 'keep' him or make him happy? You need to address why you're ... (read in full...)
We miss each other but are worried about each other being unfaithful!
Q. I have recently broke up with my girl friend we both miss each other but we need to see more of are friends what is the best plan of action coz we are both scared of each other being unfaihful....
A. 27 April 2006: I take it you are both in you early teens! Trust is probably one of the most important things in a relationship, if you can't trust eachother then you aren't supposed to be together. if you were 'commited' to this relationship then other people ... (read in full...)
I keep thinking of ex, Should I break up with my current gf?
Q. I use to date this girl and she cared for me more than the world, but I thought I needed to get out so I broke up with her along with breaking her heart. After a couple of months I realized I really loved her but she had moved on and didnt want to ...
A. 27 April 2006: hi there let me answer your question with a simalar story- I met this fella he had an 'x' we started dating, 'x' wanted him back, 'x' got him back but now I'm the bit on the side and 'X' doesn't know I'm still seeing him. He doesn't love 'X' says ... (read in full...)
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