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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i have been with my gf for 6 years and we have a 3 year old daughter, i love her very much but lately our sex life has almost died, she tells me shes not interested in sex anymore which has left me more than frustrated. how do i get her interested in sex again?
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reader, orkney girl +, writes (5 January 2008):
maybe your partner is suffering from "mommy syndrome". many women spend so much time doing the mommy stuff they forget that they are also women!! i did and remember it well. my partner even started calling me mommy!!! idea...go back to basics the way it was before you had your little girl. plan a really nice night out, get someone to take yor daughter for the night not just baby sit so you have the house to yourself. wine dine smoochy dance (in the house) and remember the "i forgot how beautifull a WOMAN you are" etc comments. kiss and cuddle your partner infront of your daughter (not heavy stuff obviously!!!) and say to your daughter things like i love (your partners name) so much as she is so lovely and pretty etc. complement your other half about her sexyness even when she looks like a bag lady on vallium.she needs to be reminded she is a woman a lover and a mother. sex will come when she remembers who she is!!! hope this helps xxx
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