Do women prefer a hairy chest or shaved chest?
Q. what do women prefer, a hairy chest or a shaved chest?...
A. 4 August 2006: Let's put it this way: *boys'* chests are hairless... and only perves ogle boys.
To me, getting rid of chest hair would be like taking hormones so your muscles would fade away. I like looking at the things that make men different from women.
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Should my friend's history with relationships be considered when I only want her as my child's godparent?
Q. I have a very annoying problem and wondered if you could give me some advice anyone? My partner and I are trying to sort our baby daughters christening and are arguing over choice of godparents. I want my best friend who I have known for 26 years...
A. 4 August 2006: Hey, female anon (below)! Only one person said not to choose her because of her sexuality. The rest of us said we thought she was a good choice, regardless!... (read in full...)
Does it Matter that My 15-Year-Old Friend Won't Have Sex with Me?
Q. I'm really good friends with this girl in my neighborhood. She's 15 and I'm 19. we both want to get more into an intimate relationship and bring our friendship to the next level, sort of like friends with benefits. The thought of sex has come up, ...
A. 4 August 2006: Wow. Some "good friend" you are.
Has respecting her feelings ever entered your mind? How about obeying the law? Have you thought at all about the implications of even consensual sex with her?
In case you haven't thought about it, you don't ha... (read in full...)
I accepted a marriage proposal but I'd rather play the field some more
Q. right here it goes. i am currently dating man A but i am starting to have feelings for another lets call him man B, i am 16 years old. Man A has proposed to me and i accepted but i really like this other guy. PLEASE HELP ME!!!...
A. 3 August 2006: Just because someone asked you to marry him doesn't mean you have to say Yes. Since you're already having doubts about Man A, who's to say you won't develop similar doubts about Man B?
Why the big rush to get married anyway?
I was married at 1... (read in full...)
I'm getting in the way of my 13-year old friend and his mom
Q. I am a female who is 20 years old and there is this really sweet 13 year-old boy that I have a lot in common with and like very much. I have sent letters to him and called him on the phone, and now his mom thinks that I am trying to rape him, have ...
A. 3 August 2006: You describe yourself as "young at heart", but I'm sorry, you come across as a little bit creepy to me. What 20-yo woman wants to have a 13-yo boy as a playfriend? What on earth do you have in common? You call him on the phone? You send him ... (read in full...)
It's either my fiance's way, or the highway, and I'm tired of being manipulated!
Q. Hi! I have been engaged for 3 years. We have been going through some time with long distance because of job situations. We have had ups and downs in the relationship but managed to work it out for the time being. I feel that if my fiance doesn't ...
A. 31 July 2006: Why do you want to marry someone like this?
You've had three years to work out that he isn't going to change. There's nothing you can do to "stop this behaviour" because it isn't yours to change. Only he can do that, and he chooses not to.
S... (read in full...)
Is there a difference between cheating with sex and cheating without it?
Q. I see on this forum that an affair is defined as a relationship in which the following two things occur: 1) The relationship exists unbeknownst to a partner; 2) There is sex involved. In addition I see this term "emotional affair", which impl...
A. 25 July 2006: I can't help wondering where you got the notion that someone here "defined" an affair. No one that I know of, in any of the questions I read, moderate or answer, has given that definition. If anything, an "emotional" affair is often the one that ... (read in full...)
I accidentally caught my boyfriend drinking with another woman
Q. My Boyfriend has a face phone and sometimes his phone accidentally calls people. Last night his phone called me, my voice mail captured up him talking and laughing with some girl. When i asked him what he did that night he said he was with his ...
A. 20 July 2006: You feel as if he's lying because he ~was~ lying.
This is your wake-up call. Your BF wouldn't have 'fessed up except that you caught him in the act, and it got recorded.
Are you sure that you want to continue a relationship with someone who... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and in love with a 36 year old with a girlfriend... What should I do next?
Q. Dear Cupid... I've been having a major problem for the past two years. It's a long story, so I hope readers will be patient enough to read everything. I'd really appreciate it. I'm a 16 years old girl, and I've had feelings for this guy since ...
A. 20 July 2006: The "next step" you seem to be looking for is the one that makes him cheat on his girlfriend with you. Is that right?
I doubt if any ethical person would give you suggestions for that!
You say yourself that you can see he's happy with his g... (read in full...)
Ladies..if a guy approaches you, what's the first thing you would like them to say?
Q. ok this is a question for the women. if a guy was to randomly approach you, what would be the first thing you would expect/like them to say?...
A. 19 July 2006: Since I'm automatically on guard whenever a person I don't know wants to talk to me, the first thing I'd want is his name, a genuine smile, and the reason he wants to talk.
Call me a cynical old squasher-of-romance, but anything less puts my stran... (read in full...)
I'm 33, my GF left me, I went to a gay bar and let another man kiss and touch me! Am I gay?
Q. Hi I am a man of 33 since my girlfriend left me I have been drawn to gay men. I have also dreamed about them as well. I went to my first gay bar last week and got chatted up The guy touched me down there and I touched him back. He also kissed me ...
A. 18 July 2006: How did you feel about it? Was it exciting? Did it make you happy to be the centre of this guy's attention? Or did you feel uncomfortable and repelled? That's really the litmus test.
Most straight guys wouldn't enter a gay bar by themselv... (read in full...)
What does ENFJ mean, with regards to careers or jobs?
Q. hi i am wondering if any one can tell me what ENFJ means career wise???...
A. 27 June 2006: It means that the organisation is looking for a particular personality type to fill the role. "ENFJ" is shorthand for "Extroverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging", and it's one of a number of personality types categorised as Myers-Briggs types.
You c... (read in full...)
Why can't my boyfriend spend his New Year's Eve with me, instead of back in Kansas?
Q. I am very disappointed with my boyfriend of one and a half years, because I told him I wanted to spend New Year's Eve with him. He said he did too, but 2 weeks later, when I asked what he wanted to do for New Year's, he said he had decided to go to ...
A. 22 November 2005: You've been with him a long time, as dating goes. Have you considered "Option Three"? Why not ask him if you can go with him to visit his family in Kansas? Then you can have everything: a happy boyfriend, a happy boyfriend's family, and a NYE ... (read in full...)
What do I do on a date?
Q. When I go on dates with boys it's like I get really shy and I don't know what to do. Like I don't know what they expect from me. Can someone please give me some advice in which a 16 year old should do when she goes on a date to the movies?...
A. 6 October 2005: The purpose of a date is to get to know the other person, and to make a decision if that person is someone you want to spend more time with.
That's all.
There's nothing that you have to "do", except be pleasant company. There's no requi... (read in full...)
I've told my boyfriend the truth now, but he still thinks I'm hiding things and lying to him!
Q. I just met my boyfriend about three months ago. We met on-line on a singles dating service. We started dating seriously after two weeks but before we started dating I told him that I had lied to him about the number of sexual partners I had in my ...
A. 6 October 2005: Danger! This guy is demonstrating classic controller/abuser characteristics!
Moving in fast, isolating you from friends and family, declaring undying love, claiming "you're all I need", manipulating your actions, and getting unnecessarily angry ov... (read in full...)
Wanted: some help writing a love letter to the girl I fancy...
Q. Please help me. I fancy this girl at my school and I have only just started talking to her. I was thinking of putting a love letter in her locker and perhaps leave my number at the bottom of it but not my name. Is this a good idea? And has anyone ...
A. 24 September 2005: Anonymously putting a love letter in her locker might sound like a romantic idea at first glance, but put yourself in the girl's role for a minute. When she opens her locker and finds the letter, the first thing she's going to wonder is "who w... (read in full...)
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