Why is my best friend directing her anger towards me? The event planned was a group thing.
Q. To keep it short, our group of friends had a secret santa event planned to get together for Christmas. Basically, she rarely hangs out with us when we ask. But she VOLUNTEERED to host the group event and have her brother do the drawings for who...
A. 20 December 2014: I appreciate all your advice, thank you! ChiGirl, honestly, thank you for your honest input. I do admit I am very childish sometimes, even a brat, and this is probably one of those times where I should've stepped up and said "hey, it's fine.... (read in full...)
Slept with my ex whilst drunk, but he's dating my friend.
Q. Hello, Around 9 months ago, I got drunk and slept with an ex boyfriend. It was a complete mistake - the relationship ended badly and it was one of the first times we'd hung out alone since we broke up. Ended up having way too much to drink, gettin...
A. 29 October 2014: I would say definitely let her know. Her boyfriend sounds like he's only trying to save face, I doubt he cares much about what happens to you, despite being your ex. If anything, what if HE ends up telling her and you end up a bad friend?
Let h... (read in full...)
What's the deal with this crazy girl and how to I get her to stop if I can't prove anything?
Q. A few months ago, I met a girl at my step-dad's church function and we hit it off really well and decided to go to dinner at another time. Her phone was shut off, so she just told me where she lived and said that she was sorry she couldn't let me ...
A. 24 December 2013: You should go to the cops. Check you bank to see if anyone is making unverified purchases. Sounds like identity theft to me.... (read in full...)
Marriage being damaged by wife's male friend who has now stayed for more than 2 months
Q. I have been married for 2 years, I am 41 and my wife is 30. We have always been amazing together, and I thought we were happy. We recently started trying for kids, which was her idea, as I was never going to push her until she was ready. She has ...
A. 19 December 2013: You have been so patient, but I agree with all the other aunts. TWO MONTHS ago, he should've been gone. But with your wife's insisting and your passiveness, he got to stay. Did he help pay for anything? I understand that although he may be your ... (read in full...)
I want to use him the way he used me
Q. I've been living out of the country (I still am) ... i met this guy a couple of years ago where i go to school. At the time i was still dating my bf, whom just broke up with me. I met this guy in my finance class and we exchanged numbers because he ...
A. 4 December 2013: I agree with WiseOwlE. Everyone is telling you that you deserve better but in fact, you CHEATED. You led this guy on, knowing full well you had another relationship. Then, he gets beat up by your ex-boyfriend.
I suggest you don't maintain contact ... (read in full...)
She didn't value our friendship enough to let this happen!
Q. hi everyone! I am a long time lurker of this website. anyway, my question is- a few months ago, my friend M started inviting me to hang out wiht a group of people who she si good friends with - they are from our school but i am not as close wit...
A. 30 May 2013: Honestly, I don't think you want a friend like that. It sounds to me like she was just being nice and courteous in front of him when she introduced the two of you, but she had no intent on having you two become friends. She might have liked him and ... (read in full...)
I asked him out over facebook messaging 3 days ago and he hasn't replied! Why?
Q. So I'm sad and confused right now. A little less than two years ago, i started to have a crush on a guy in my class, "Sam". Sam had a girlfriend, a really pretty one, but he would look at me sometimes during class, and if i would look at him, he ...
A. 12 June 2012: Have you ever watched "He's Just Not That Into You" ? In one scene, the guys tells the girl that if the guy is interested, he will definitely make the first move. Girls just misread too much, maybe he was just being friendly and you think its ... (read in full...)
Betrayed by my so-called friend, what should I do?
Q. It all started about two years ago. I had a huge crush on a boy 1 year older than me. He seemed like the perfect guy. He was nice, cute, funny, athletic, and smart. My really close friends all knew that I liked him, and thought we would make a cute ...
A. 6 January 2011: Firstly, I want to say that you're friend is very immature for having to spread rumors, but being around your age, it's not very uncommon and the best way to deal with it is to drop her as a friend. It's okay to talk to her once in a while, but ... (read in full...)
Is this what you call being in love?
Q. there was this guy in my life he asked me out but i siad no but we are still friends on facebook i think he loves me he always walked me home and was so nice to me but never made a move on me because i wouldnt be his girlfriend but he did ring me a ...
A. 16 December 2010: If you have to ask if it's love, chances are, it's not. He probably was very interested in you, though.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and gave me no reason why!
Q. Last night my boyfriend of 3 years left me. We have had a thing for each other since 4th grade (In 1 year of college now) Out of the blue, We have been going threw some rough times. I just didn't know he would do this to us. He has been planning fo...
A. 3 October 2010: First you should get yourself healthy again. Even if you have no appetite, eat. Go out with your friends, don't sit at home and try and over-think it. Be a woman that every man wants and make him realize how wrong he was for walking out on you with ... (read in full...)
When a guy calls you at three in the morning...?
Q. I like this guy and he's called me at three in the morning, twice. I tell him everything, and he knows that I like him, and he tells me everything too, but we're not best friends. When he calls, he doesn't talk about anything sexual, and we just ...
A. 23 June 2010: Ah, well I told him straight up it felt like a booty call, and he said no it wasn't. Now he's not calling that late anymore[;... (read in full...)
When a guy calls you at three in the morning...?
Q. I like this guy and he's called me at three in the morning, twice. I tell him everything, and he knows that I like him, and he tells me everything too, but we're not best friends. When he calls, he doesn't talk about anything sexual, and we just ...
A. 22 June 2010: Uhh, just for everything thinking I'm 13. I'm not. I'm turning 16 this October.... (read in full...)
Should I believe him, or is he just using me?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for 4yrs now, we met when i was 16 and he was 36. He told me he was going through a divorce period with his wife and i decided to wait it out. he moved out his family home after two years for a quicker divorce process and ...
A. 16 June 2010: No, you should not believe him. If he really loved you, he would tell someone about you instead of keeping it a secret. Then there comes this other woman and suddenly she gets to meet his parents, but you "don't exist" ? Does that sound like love to ... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...
A. 21 May 2010: You've heard that relationships are based on communicated so many times i've bet. But it's really true. What good is a long distance relationship if you can't even TALK to your girlfriend? Ask yourself what kind of relationship this is, and if it's ... (read in full...)
I feel sick that she might be cheating on me.
Q. Well this is what I got. My girlfriend and me are getting married next year hopefully. She will every once in a while go out with a girl friend and go to parties and what not. I know she loves sex this trust me i know, we both do we are very healthy ...
A. 17 April 2010: Trust your instinct. You're feeling sick probably because your body knows that something's up. Even though she may not be full out cheating, she may be doing something you're uncomfortable with. Either go to a party and see what she does, or talk to ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, is he interested or is he confused?
Q. Right where to start met a minute on the internet 6 months ago haven't met him yet as he live quite far away from me. I must admit I have trust issue because of previous relationship one being my son's dad. Anyway thought this man wanted space so ...
A. 15 February 2010: To me, it sounds like he's found someone else, or he's lost interest. Guys tend to do those things as subtle or very huge hints that they just don't want the relationship to go on. Trust me, this is from experience. It's good he's still talking to ... (read in full...)
He just wants to be friends and free to flirt
Q. Well.. I firstly want to thank anyone who replys to this it means a lot to me. I am in love with a boy (lets call him T) I have been since August last year. Me and T dated a lot like not as boyfriend and girlfriend but it was dates as we kissed a...
A. 23 January 2010: Right now, I think he's too into flirting and other girls. It's obvious. If he says he doesn't want to be anything more than friends, I think he means it. Otherwise, when you had the chance to go out with you, and if he really liked you, he would ... (read in full...)
I rejected him twice but now he has a g/f I think I want him
Q. Okay I know it sounds weird, but I have no other option. I like a guy that I have rejected about 2 times because I was scared to be in a relationship. I wanted to be, but i couldn't face it. He's told me he loves me, but I was to scared to adimt...
A. 23 January 2010: Well you've rejected him twice. It's normal for him to go get another girlfriend because he thinks you don't like him at all. Human nature is to always want what you can't have. He has a girlfriend, of course that means he's off limits no matter ... (read in full...)
He got me to agree to threesomes but it's so hurtful, now he's having sex with other men
Q. I am a gay man and have been in a relationship now with my partner for 10 months. We have so many things in common and he is both very caring and loving. We came to a point where he wanted to have threesomes and at first I was okay with this and ...
A. 25 December 2009: He obviously cares about sex more than he cares about you. Even after you've explained your feelings to him and he doesn't want to listen, then drop him. Chances are, wether you like it or not, he's going to go do it behind your back if he has to, ... (read in full...)
Convincing my parents for a date.
Q. The guy I like has finally asked me out on a date. Now the only complication of things is with my parents. They're asian, so most who have asian parents are VERY strict. I'd basically have to beg for them to let me go to the mall, let alone with a ...
A. 22 December 2009: Haha well thanks.
But I found out that honesty is the best policy.
I told them the whole truth and surprisingly, I was able to go :D... (read in full...)
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