My best friend has feelings for me but says he's not in the right place emotionally. Do I wait for him?
Q. Agony Aunts... I am in love with my best friend, he said he loves me too. But he has said he doesn't want a relationship now because he's not right emotionally. I am now seeing someone. He says it makes him feel sick to see me close with him. ...
A. 5 August 2012: It sounds as if he's treating you unfairly. If he really knows that you hate him kissing/grinding with other girls and still does it, then he doesn't deserve you.
You definitely shouldn't ditch another guy for him.
However, re-evaluate your... (read in full...)
Do you think that I hurt him and he doesn't want to have anything to do with me, or would be willing to give me another chance?
Q. About four months ago I met a really nice guy at a bar in San Fran (not a sleazy one)- we had a few mutual friends. We talked for a bit and ended up making out for quite a while. He waited two days to call me, and I didn't answer as I was taken ...
A. 5 August 2012: I'm not saying you should definitely pour your heart out but at least give him some signs you're interested.
Maybe even saying something directly without being overwhelming him.
"You know, when we first met, I wasn't looking to meet someone but... (read in full...)
Is she trying to play hard to get?
Q. okay so their is this girl i really like, our first date went well and it was amazing, i don't think that i have ever had a date go so well before. There is a problem though she always seems to flirt with other guys in her facebook account for ...
A. 5 August 2012: I think she is indeed playing games/hard to get.
Or maybe she wants to remind herself that she's attractive to more than one guy.
As long as it's just flirting with other guys and you're the only one dating her, let it go for now. Don't text ... (read in full...)
Does the father of my kids have a right to know my situation I'm going through
Q. I got myself in a complicated situation. I just found out that i am pregnant with my third. The problem is i am not too sure if i want to tell the father of my children if i am because i have been with him during this month and some other guy i ...
A. 5 August 2012: It's almost impossible to say, without knowing the relationship between you and the father. If I was the dad, I think I'd like to know but folk all vary.
One thing - if you do not tell him now, NEVER tell him and MAKE SURE he never finds out.... (read in full...)
I can't stand being around him!
Q. I have been dreading posting this question because I know all the negative responses I will get. I know I am by no means a perfect person but I don't think I am awful either. I have a problem with with my husband's friends. Or any previous boy...
A. 5 August 2012: It sounds to me as if you got married too fast. He temporarily thought he could handle something that time has taught him he can't.
Apart from splitting up (which may be inevitable), maybe you could try working things out in your own mind. Is... (read in full...)
His sister is trying to muscle in my planned new house.
Q. Background: My fiance and I have been together for about three years now, and currently live together in a one bedroom apartment. Our relationship is healthy and stable, we are each other's best friends. We are planning on getting married and buying ...
A. 5 August 2012: Don't be so docile!
When she brings up the topic, say to her that you're having concerns, you want to know for sure it's all talk and explain to her that you want to have your OWN home and have boundaries.
Better do it sooner rather than late... (read in full...)
How do I deal with these distance issues? And stop feeling so unsettled when we area apart?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. He and I have had an amazing relationship and we were friends for 9 months before and we have never had any sort of problems together. But recently, I left for a 10 day trip out of state (I do this ...
A. 5 August 2012: Do you feel better when you're on your own? Or is it hurting so much that you'd rather not have him at all than just be without him for those 10 days?
Does he give you enough space generally?
When you're apart do you feel too much of an oblig... (read in full...)
Does he really love me truly? Or is he just stringing me along?
Q. Dear friends , Iam serching for advice, My relationship over a year long and in the beginning very well with lot of love and no arguing with each other now after 2 month we are just fighting with each other mostly It was supposed to be ecause h...
A. 5 August 2012: There's a lot you haven't told us. Is it a long distance relationship? Are you seeing each other much? If so, your expectation for communication might be unreasonable. If you're not seeing each other physically, you should just ditch him. Sound... (read in full...)
Is it normal for lips to be red around the edges of mouth and puffy after a makeout session with Bf?
Q. Its been a while since I broke up with my ex several months ago, so I gave my love a second chance to this nice guy I met in my Senior year at high school. Funny how I danced with him at Prom (but never told my parents about it), and I soon happen ...
A. 5 August 2012: It sounds as if he was too rough. Any STI transmitted by saliva would take time to produce symptoms.
Regardless, you should probably see a doctor, specially if it persisted for more than an hour or so.... (read in full...)
What are we? Exclusive or not? Is he serious or not? Jokingly I called myself his lady of the night.
Q. So here is my story. I have been seeing this guy for approx 2 months. We had a brief romantic thing about 6 months ago but I was still living in another state at the time and only visiting home for a bit an he was leaving to live elsewhere for a ...
A. 5 August 2012: It sounds as if you had fun together in the past but now you want something more and are worried that he is still just expecting the same meaningless fun. Don't fret! You wouldn't be spending so much non-sexual time together, communicating so ... (read in full...)
Risk losing a great guy, or risk having sex with a random guy?
Q. I know this question must have been asked a thousand times before, and I also know that this is a VERY long post. However, I'm facing a very difficult choice right now, and I could use the point of view of an outsider. So, I'm a late virgin at 2...
A. 5 August 2012: I agree that neither guy sounds right. 'Lack of experience both in life and sex'? You're 'not ready'? He sounds arrogant and any man worth your time would take their time to share their own experience with you. Sex is certainly something tha... (read in full...)
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