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female
age
41-50,
*etaAri
writes:Dear friends , Iam serching for advice, My relationship over a year long and in the beginning very well with lot of love and no arguing with each other now after 2 month we are just fighting with each other mostly It was supposed to be ecause he began to stop calling me, textin sms me, and even once in the month we see each other, and when I tell him please get into internet to speak and see each other ,he alwas says : i dont have electrity, or i didnt paid my cart for internet.Wht to do?Now I always write to him. And use the phone, but he said I dont have time to write because of his long hours job, and its come late from work and this is his what he said to me.My heart is hurting , I have doubt that he is hiding something from me, when he write to me writes I love you, he told me that never gona leave me ,how can I trust him, I am scared really, when I began to ask something about my doubt he always close my phone in the middle of the conversation, why I ask him,because you dont trust me, this make me crazy and mad and I start crying so much, Ireally love him ,before he was without job and I always paid him coming tome, or tel charching with money, when he start work has change a lot , what to do please to get him miss me or whaat is the answere, helpme I need that.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 I think he does care but you are trying too hard to keep him that you are actually pushing him away.
He has a job now and he is feeling good about himself. And you are feeling insecure because now you can't "control him financially".
Relax a bit, get out and do things with friends and stop trying to make this relationship "all there is in life". And let him feel like he is contributing.
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reader, JetaAri +, writes (5 August 2012):
JetaAri is verified as being by the original poster of the question Before we saw each other much more ,but now while he is working twice in the month and we live abour 80 km distance, I dont now what to say Iam not filling good ,
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reader, nonan  +, writes (5 August 2012):
There's a lot you haven't told us. Is it a long distance relationship? Are you seeing each other much? If so, your expectation for communication might be unreasonable.If you're not seeing each other physically, you should just ditch him. Sounds as if he used you for money and if he has no time to write to you, he has no time for a relationship.
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