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anonymous
writes:okay so their is this girl i really like, our first date went well and it was amazing, i don't think that i have ever had a date go so well before. There is a problem though she always seems to flirt with other guys in her facebook account for example, a guy will send her music or a youtube video and she will like it and comment on it with the guy, but when ever i send her anything she seems to not care and she evens goes out of her way to post other stuff to get rid of my post. I asked her about this, and she said that she liked my videos and music, and i was like then why did you not comment or like any of them? But she always seems to go to other guy's walls and comment or like their pics, but never mine. I also have been noticing that she she logs on and logs of when certain guys are online, and i asked her about this and she said that they were just her friends and that she doesnt like them like that, and that she is a flirt and it's normal for her, but she hardly ever flirts with me that way. I mean she flirts with me and stuff and she doesnt even mind it when i send her messages that tell her much i care about her and she even seems to try to talk to me more when i flirt like that. WEll anyways she even gave me her new cell phone number, without me asking for it, which i thought was great but why does she do this, flirt with other guys. The strange thing is that i checked her history and she never seemed to be like this before, her facebook wall was pretty much empty, actually you could see that other guys sent her music and other things, but she never commented or liked them, for example one guy has been trying for like a year to talk to her but she never replied to him untill we started dating, Actually ever since we Started dating, she's been more active on her facebook acount with other guys, which is strange because she told me she was a flirt but when i check her history, it's like what are you talking about, your wall is like empty......so why does she ignore me and never talk to me for example when i send her a message when she is online she sometimes doesnt reply and she waits for me to log off and then she answers my messages, dont get me wrong we sometimes talk for hours online, but recently, since our first date it seems to die off a little, but then she does something crazy....She sends me a message of how are you doing? i was like what, you never send me messages hahahaha...so what do you guys think is she playing games or hard to get i dont know what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2012): i think you should do 2 things:
1) talk to her openly about it. communication is the key. share your feelings.
2) wait and watch.
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reader, nonan  +, writes (5 August 2012):
I think she is indeed playing games/hard to get.
Or maybe she wants to remind herself that she's attractive to more than one guy.
As long as it's just flirting with other guys and you're the only one dating her, let it go for now. Don't text her or post on her wall too much. Just enjoy your time together and your time alone. Both are precious moments to be savoured.
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