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He watches porn, should I be worried.

Q.   My boyfriend and I are 30 years old.I am not sure if I should be worried about this or not.I have been with my him for 13 months now. I have known from the day one of the relationship that he watches porn on the computer and he a has several porn ...

A.   7 December 2007: I will let you in on a secret that most guys won't admit to. We all watch porno. We could be married for 10 yrs and we still like porn. Guys masturbate at least once a day (if they are really busy) and more often then that if they have free time. ... (read in full...)

I'm dying for him tokiss me..but we are stuck in a rut.

Q.   Okay. Help. My guy-friend and I have become really close. In fact, lately we're practically like a couple - except we're not - and that's the problem. I'm dying for him to kiss me and I can tell he feels the same, the tension is unbearable - we rea...

A.   7 December 2007: Here is what you should do. I learned this as a teenager and while corny it works! Make plans to watch a movie at his or your place. Grab the remote and keep flipping past the channels. He will obviously playfully try to get the remote from you. ... (read in full...)

Should I believe him when he says he can date??

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've been asked out by a man who shares alot of my interests. We have become friends and he initially said he was seperated but now the date is drawing nearer he's told me he still lives with his wife under the same roof but both hav...

A.   7 December 2007: I don't think you will like my answer. The man is either lying or living in a classic jerry springer trailer park weirdo situation. Listen, NOBODY gets separated and stays living in the same house. NOBODY does that and if they did there is noway ... (read in full...)

Gave up everything for boyfriend and now he doesn't want to be in a relationship.

Q.   I, ve been with my partner 2 years, I gave up everything to move away with him. He is a lorry driver and works long hours he said he still loves me but not enough to be in the relationship right now. He said he doesnt want to be in a relationship ...

A.   6 December 2007: Honestly he sounds like a real jerk. You are probably too hurt right now to see him that way. RUN, from this relationship.... (read in full...)

How do I pop the question to my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 years, and it is as brilliant as the first day we met. I'm so in love with him and him with me. I've decided I'd like to propose to him: he'd never expect it and it'd be so unconventional. Thing ...

A.   8 October 2007: I will also say that 16-17 is too young to get married. Why? Because the person you AND he will be at 27-30 yrs old is often WAY WAY WAY different then the person you are now. Once people reach their mid to late twenties they pretty much develop ... (read in full...)

How do I pop the question to my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 years, and it is as brilliant as the first day we met. I'm so in love with him and him with me. I've decided I'd like to propose to him: he'd never expect it and it'd be so unconventional. Thing ...

A.   8 October 2007: Don't propose to him. Despite what you might see in movies and on TV, guys don't like it. You are assuming the role of the man and that's not likely to go over well. Wearing a potato sack and calling yourself Professor Fruit-bowl would be ... (read in full...)

My husband masturbates to porn sites - should I feel betrayed?

Q.   I have been married for 30 years and I have caught my husband viewing porn sites and selecting a person that he obviously likes the look of. Once selected he starts to masturbate. I do not agree with this and I have also caught him doing this to ...

A.   8 October 2007: Your husband is only doing what guys do. If he jumped on you every time he was in the mood you wouldn't be able to walk. It has nothing to do with you not being enough for him. Even celebrities with hot model wives watch porn from time to time. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend seems tempted to get back with her ex-husband. How can I spot my insecurity?

Q.   my girlfriend is a divorced mother of three children. her youngest child is a 2 year old girl she had with an ex-fiancee. we have been dating for 3 months and now her ex is trying to weasel his way back into her life saying he wants to be a family ...

A.   8 October 2007: She has three kids with two different men? You will be lucky if you get out of that relationship without owing child support. RUN, NOW!... (read in full...)

Do I tell her how I feel?

Q.   hey everyone, i have started to like a friend of mines for almost 6 months now, and i think i might be falling in love with her as well. she was the first friend i ever had on my campus, and we used to stick together all the time, until she met some ...

A.   8 October 2007: I have been where you are. 16 yrs ago I was friends with a girl who I suddenly developed feelings for. I was 16 and she was 14. I knew right away that she was really pretty but she also had lots of pretty older friends. It was nice having a friend ... (read in full...)

What do you think about body hair?

Q.   I have a rather odd question. Do women generally find body hair unattractive? If so, where? I have wondered this for a long time, but I am too embarrassed to ask my friends or my family, lol. I mostly just want to know what women think about hair...

A.   8 October 2007: Here is my advice: If your back is hairy then shave it or go the painful route and have it waxed. Almost all woman hate hairy backs and expect you to shave it as they shave their legs for us.. A hairy chest is no big deal and many girls actually... (read in full...)

I fear her reaction. Should I ask her out?

Q.   i want to ask a girl out. But i fear on her reaction. I want to do it face to face nothing else. But i just don't know how a kind, shy girl will react if they were told i like her? How would you girls/ladies react to a guy who was your friend a...

A.   8 October 2007: You need to provide more details. How old are you both? How long have you known her? Is she currently involved with someone? The best thing would be to take her to dinner and during dessert tell her that you have feelings for her and would like to ... (read in full...)

I am still not really over my ex. It was the best sex ever!

Q.   i was in a relationship for a little over a year and we split up. i moved about four hours away but we still talk. she is seeing other people but she says she still is in love with me and it is hard to be with somone when you love somone else. i kno ...

A.   8 October 2007: Time will heal your pain bro. You need to stop talking to your ex and give yourself at least 6 months of not dating anyone. Otherwise you will always compare others to her.... (read in full...)

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