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writes:I, ve been with my partner 2 years, I gave up everything to move away with him. He is a lorry driver and works long hours he said he still loves me but not enough to be in the relationship right now. He said he doesnt want to be in a relationship right now with me or anybody, but said in a few months we might get back together. I just dont know what to do. Shall i wait to see how he feels in a few months or just call it a day?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (6 December 2007):
You have two options here.Either you wait for him till he's ready but there's always the risk of him changing his mind.Or you can cut your losses and look to future "profits".This guy isn't decided because he has no confidence and will make you suffer if you stick around waiting for him.Bear the pain and move on is my advise.
All the best.
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reader, nflguy  +, writes (6 December 2007):
Honestly he sounds like a real jerk. You are probably too hurt right now to see him that way. RUN, from this relationship.
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reader, Joanne Jane  +, writes (6 December 2007):
Hi ya!! girl...you should do the same thing, move on, you cannot just hold on to what you been doing right now. Your life is so precious...you can't give up right now because your still breathing and I know there's someone out there who's going to accept you for who you are and loves you so much more
than you thought...
I wish you luck
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 I agree with Richard.
If a guy says no, then don't throw yourself at him. Hold your head high and move on.
It hurts like hell, but in the long run its best.
The time you spend putting your life on hold for this guy, you are wasting being open for Mr Right.
Good Luck.
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Hi - he has made a clear decision. You should do the same. They keep your head straight. Don't wait, it never pays. Get on with your life. If your paths cross in the future you might get back together or you might not.
He's doing the decent thing. He's told you it's over. Move forward as a better and wiser person.
Take care
Richard
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