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writes:my girlfriend is a divorced mother of three children. her youngest child is a 2 year old girl she had with an ex-fiancee. we have been dating for 3 months and now her ex is trying to weasel his way back into her life saying he wants to be a family with her. he has a lot of money and is trying to use that money to persaude her.she says she loves me and at times seems to be tempted to get back with ex since she is having financial trouble.it makes me feel insecure when she spends time with ex so he can see their daughter.what do i do?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 This doesnt sound too good.
For one the ex has a legal right to be involved with his children so you will never be able to keep him out of the picture.
Secondly, money can be a powerful motivator, if she is struggling and has 3 children it doesnt look good. Though as their father he should be helping out financially anyway, so what's the deal there?
In any event, this seems very stressful, if you love each other enough then it is always worth it, but if the ex's money and influence are still playing a big part you might be fighting a losing battle.
Good luck.
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reader, nflguy +, writes (8 October 2007):
She has three kids with two different men? You will be lucky if you get out of that relationship without owing child support. RUN, NOW!
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