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Can I tell my teacher I love her like a mother?
Q. My Spanish teacher this year is like a mother to me. I love her like a second mom. Would it be weird if I told her that when I graduate next year? Do you think it would "creep her out"? Because I really want her to know how much of a positive impact ...
A. 1 November 2010: Hi, I know this is really late compared to everyone else's responce but I thought I'd still tell you my 2 cents... I was in the same boat as you. An English teacher of mine was about the best friend I had, almost exactly 15 years my senior, but she ... (read in full...)
Is being in your 30s young or old in society
Q. is 30 ,31,32,33 yaer old is old or young. to some one in there 26+ old to some one who is there early 30s...
A. 31 March 2009: is 30+ old? well yes, because after 30 come 70 (40 years down the line). But is 30-40 years of age old in society? Not at all!! Go out and do whatever you want! Party! Dance around! Enjoy your life! You only get it once!!! Now go out and have ... (read in full...)
We met in an online game - he's 8 years older but I think we are in love!
Q. Ok so my life is messed up... completely. last year in my spare time i played this on-line game, never spoke to anyone it was really just something to pass the time. One day some random person came up to me and asked if i would help him fight...
A. 29 March 2009: wow! I say go for it. I normally don't say things like that with the internet, but we all deserve the chance to be in love and it seems you've found yours!
If I were you I'd tell him to buy a plane ticket and come over, or vice versa.
Oh good luc... (read in full...)
She's become cold and distant and I don't understand why
Q. Last 4th of July i met a girl and asked her out. She said yes! Everything was great! She was sweet, I felt Loved, and i made sure she felt loved. It was kinda a long distance relationship, but about Thanksgiving, by some miracle, I moved closer to ...
A. 29 March 2009: I'm sorry, you must be so sad right now.
If I were you, I'd give her some space. Dont contact her, make her contact you. And if this continues, you might want to ask your self if this relationship will work or not. From what I've seen it does... (read in full...)
I'm not too keen on him, but I like the attention
Q. Hey guys. I have a question thats similar to one that was recently posted on here, despite a few differences. That one didn't have many answers so I thought I'd give it a shot :) I've been getting to know this guy for some time, through msn. He ...
A. 29 March 2009: Well then you should have stated that in the orginal message. It seems to me that you've already made up your mind, you want the attention and so you will most likely go through with this, and then whe you get tired of him you'll move on.... (read in full...)
17 and no girlfriend!
Q. I am just 17 years old and i have not gotten a girlfriend before, i am not desperate. I do have female friends and i have fallen in love with one of them but the problem is that she is older than me(20 years). I dont know if she loves me, she tells ...
A. 29 March 2009: Good luck!! Keep me informed! I'm crossing my fingers for you!... (read in full...)
I'm not too keen on him, but I like the attention
Q. Hey guys. I have a question thats similar to one that was recently posted on here, despite a few differences. That one didn't have many answers so I thought I'd give it a shot :) I've been getting to know this guy for some time, through msn. He ...
A. 29 March 2009: humm....I dont think you can. Have you heard the saying: "You cant have your cake and eat it too?"
Thats pretty much what you want. If I were you I'd end this, it's just going to hurt him, and you could end up getting something you dont like. I'd ... (read in full...)
I know deep down he has returned to her. What do I do?
Q. I know deep down he has returned to her - but what do I do? I have been seeing a guy who I am deeply in love with. He knows I would do anything for him - but I also know that he still sees his ex and would probably like to get back with her ultimate...
A. 29 March 2009: Take a deep breath! What I am about to tell you may not be exactly what you would like to hear....but please just think about what I'm telling you.
Perhaps if he decided to go back to his ex then this was not a healthy relationship for you. Take... (read in full...)
I see him sometimes and I get butterflies.
Q. I broke up with this guy about a year ago and i'm still not over him. He's two years older than me. He hasn't talked to me for about 4 months. I try to talk to him but he doesn't talk to me. All I do is text him. I see him sometimes and I get butt...
A. 29 March 2009: You should delet his number, email address, and get rid of any pictures on your phone or in your bedroom of him. Go on with your life, go out with other guys and date other people. Soon you'll ask yourself why you liked him at all.
Good luck and... (read in full...)
I am just not attracted to men my age
Q. Basically I think I have a problem. I am and have always been very attracted to significantly older men - I lost my virginity to a man in his mid thirties when I was 14, and have continued to find myself getting into various situations with men of ...
A. 29 March 2009: Hey no problem! After reading your comment I went out looking for any information on this (as I myself am intrigued by this) and here's what I found. Perhaps you might read a bit and could relate to something? or agree with something? I'm not sure ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my feelings on this, or just be pragmatic?
Q. I have know this girl for three months now. I had a feeling that she liked me as more than a friend. Although we had known each other two months, we had only met twice since the first time we had met at the time I asked her to join me for a walk and ...
A. 29 March 2009: humm...this is alittle tough... Okay if I were you this is what I would do: Just meet up with her as friends, nothing more, for awhile (a month perhaps?) but keep in constant contact (text, email, call, show up with a coffee etc.). Do things ... (read in full...)
Is being in your 30s young or old in society
Q. is 30 ,31,32,33 yaer old is old or young. to some one in there 26+ old to some one who is there early 30s...
A. 29 March 2009: Actually I think 30 is young! I'm 16 and I think that old is 70.
0-6 Small Child
7-10 Child
11-14 Adolecent
15-19 Young Adult
20-40 Adult
41-65 Middle Aged
65-70 Not young but yet not old
70+ Old.... (read in full...)
I am just not attracted to men my age
Q. Basically I think I have a problem. I am and have always been very attracted to significantly older men - I lost my virginity to a man in his mid thirties when I was 14, and have continued to find myself getting into various situations with men of ...
A. 29 March 2009: Okay take a deep breath! It's okay, you cannot help who you're attracted to. I dont think you have any problem, well besides the fact that it is alittle gross that you lost your virginity to a 30 year old at 14. But now it's fine, your an adult and ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my boy friend wants to go to second base
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and my boy friend wants to go to second base. I want to go to second base too however since I'm just starting to develop most of my chest is just bra. If my boy friend did any touching I'm sure he would be able to tell. I'm ...
A. 29 March 2009: Honey I'm just going to tell you this, and I dont mean to make you mad or anything.
You're now 13, just starting to develop, your boyfriend just wants to feel you up to go and brag to his little friends. If I were you I would say no. Wait a whil... (read in full...)
Stuck in the friend zone. How do I get out?
Q. Hi everyone. I have a pretty serious love problem. I am and have been in love with this girl almost my entire life. We have always been very close friends, but lately it has become too much to bare. She makes an effort to see me (like visits at ...
A. 29 March 2009: Wow, I wish some guy would come after me like this. *sigh*
anyways...on to helping you...
Since she jokingly talks about you two getting married she must have some sort of romatic feelings for you on some level, now its your job to bring those fe... (read in full...)
17 and no girlfriend!
Q. I am just 17 years old and i have not gotten a girlfriend before, i am not desperate. I do have female friends and i have fallen in love with one of them but the problem is that she is older than me(20 years). I dont know if she loves me, she tells ...
A. 29 March 2009: I'm alittle confused, is she 20 years old, or 20 years older?
But thats beside the point...
If you really love her then tell her, but dont make this big theatrical show about it because she'll feel pressured into saying that she likes you if she d... (read in full...)
I really really want to get over my teacher... why can't I?
Q. Hey, Might remember me from two posts about me liking (well loving) a teacher? Well you may also remember I sent the first post in december of last year. 5 months on and nothing has changed. Well not nothing... the feelings have progressed ...
A. 29 March 2009: It's okay, take a deep breath. Dont worry falling for a teacher is a very normal thing, and it happens to alot of teenage girls. As to the arm touching thing I would say this: It's a very normal thing for a person who is generally concerned with ... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't have a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. is there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have ...
A. 29 March 2009: wow, this does seem like a bit of a problem. And first things first:Self image. Women always seem to degrade themselves "I'm to fat, I'm to tall etc." But yet look at how many fat, ugly, tall men are married. What you need to do is start off by c... (read in full...)
Is this what orgasm feels like?
Q. i was wondering if i had an orgasm. last night my boyfriend was giving me oral and half way during it felt like the room was spinning and my cheeks got hot and i felt like i had to pee and then i got this amazing sensation in my stomach and vagina ...
A. 29 March 2009: I think you did. Click on the link below and scroll down to section 4. It might be helpful. But from what you have described I do believe you did have an orgasm.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vulva
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