Went To Uni, Didn't Enjoy The Following Job, Now Where Do I Go? I'm Lost...
Q. I did my A Levels and went to University after school, thinking I really wanted to go into one industry. I did for a few years, but really didn't enjoy it, Uni did NOT prepare me for the real world. So I left, and felt totally lost for quite s...
A. 13 December 2008: Come on buddy don't be so sad.Every body goes through that phase "A" level doesn't make you ready for the industry ..you can choose commerce or science that's it. You first got to know where your interest is.In case you like computer than go... (read in full...)
I'm worried because I'm dating a playboy
Q. Hi im 19 yrs of age. I've been liking this guy since 2 n a half years..he was then going out with another girl with whom he was pretty serious due to some reasons they broke off later.. During their relation itself he used to flirt n show interest ...
A. 13 December 2008: Believe me sister if you are with this guy leave him right now.In case he would had been serious to you at all then he would have never thought of going around and fooling around with someone else.
Even if you fall for him and if he manages ... (read in full...)
Short of surgery any suggestions about firming up my tummy?
Q. Hi all I am a mother of 2 wonderful and as result of my pregnancies I now have a wrinkled lose belly with stretch marks. Besides surgery, which is totally out of the question for me, is there anything I can do or use to help me with my problem....
A. 13 December 2008: Sure there is ...What you need to do is go for a balanced diet and along with you need to have some aerobic classes and I can tell along with your aerobices you diet is the same thing,I guranted that within months you would be able to see the ... (read in full...)
Faking it...
Q. When my bf starts to massage me with his fingers to try and get me to have an orgasm, I become embarrassed an I cannot get an orgasm so I fake it. Help me so I can stop faking and start feeling an orgasm?...
A. 10 December 2008: Look dear if you are not getting an orgasm,don't fake it..because you are being untrue to yourself and to your boyfriend.He is trying his best to please you it is not like that he is doing just for the heck of it.
Let him know it's not working ... (read in full...)
Dreaming...
Q. hi lately I've been dreaming about a guy who fixes my computer and teaches me computers like 5 days a week but I don't fancy him. He's into computers but his social skills aren't great then again he could be a party animal for all I know, I hardly ...
A. 10 December 2008: your are thinking too much dear..because there is this curosity in your head that keep's re-bounding what if he would had been like this...or that ...
You are taking pity on this guy,and the end result is that your mind in still thinking about hi... (read in full...)
I would have gave up a long time ago but there is something about this guy that I can't let go of. Something is telling me to not let go...
Q. Hey Dear cupiders! I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I like/love (still deciding) this guy in college. We talked on aim. He told me he was having issues with a girl that he liked. But she didn't like him at the time. He...
A. 10 December 2008: If your hear and mind are playing games with you then listen to your mind don't get carried away.
Firstly analize the situation it would be very possibel that you like him but that may not be the case vice vera.
Let your male friend know that... (read in full...)
My best mate is in love with me!!!
Q. Me and my best mate Aaron were both fifteen, and he's in love with me but he doesn't know that I found out. I'm scared that if I tell him I know he won't speak to me again so what should I do?...
A. 10 December 2008: Friendship is one relation in life that you make yourself,it is not by blood.
You know your friend better than any one else on this blog will ever come to know and if you think that your friend would be happy to see you happy than there is no ha... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him stop this? It's freaking me out.
Q. Hi i was wondering if you can help me, I'm in a relationship have been for seven months, and I have this ex (it was a very young relationship) and he is still "in love with me" after 5 years (strange to me but anyway), is it normal for a person to ...
A. 9 December 2008: It's not normal for a person to be thinking of someone else the whole time be become carzy.They try to achieve the think that they want by hook or by the crook.
If you want your current relationship to work tell your boyfriend that has been goi... (read in full...)
Soul mates... or being played?
Q. hello I met my boyfriend online about a month ago. We are so into each other we are already talking about getting married! There is a problem though, my boyfriend is the ex roomate of my ex boyfriend he says it was just a coinsidence but I had my d...
A. 9 December 2008: Come on...Don't get cofused...clear your head.
if you think that the boys are fooling around and then have a face to face talk and the only other reason your boyfrind could know about you is if he's been talking to your ex-roomate just to know and ... (read in full...)
I have ulcers and sores in my mouth after cheating on my husband. Is this an STD?
Q. Can anyone help me I am worried sick, I have cheated on husband for a few months now, I have only given the other man oral, he is married too and says he has never had an affair before, but over the last number of weeks I have started getting ...
A. 9 December 2008: Listen sister if you want everybody to be happy be a clown and stop thinking. ..OR..walk up to a doctor and let him cleary knwo what the problem is so he can prove you the correct solution. .... Prevention is always better than cure.
Make sure you... (read in full...)
Why do guys boast to me?
Q. hi i was just woundering could male reader tell me why guys boost about there so called girlfreinds to me all the time.i don,t know why ,its like i want to know because i don,t so why do they do it to me its so annoying,and talking to me as if i ...
A. 9 December 2008: It's really hurting but the truth is the male species wanta to be the ALFA MALE.
They wil boost about anything if you give them a chance.So if you don't like what they talk about you should straight away say it to there face that they should n... (read in full...)
Does anyone else get this emotional over animals?
Q. Evening, i want know if any one else gets this emotional. I am an animal lover and have pets and love them to pieces and they are look after and loved. What upsets me is when i see things on tv where animals have been treated badly and aban...
A. 9 December 2008: There is no shame in being a sesitive person.People have differnet kind of love and emotions that they attach themselves to.Animals are no different.
There is so many hatred in the workld peopel kiling each other and trying to destory each oth... (read in full...)
Can Men really change their faults?
Q. I have a question for the Men. If you found the right girl for you, could her love and support make you change to live up to your potential? Or should you accept them exactly the way you found them even though you know... and they know they cou...
A. 9 December 2008: The answer is simple yet hard to explain.
"If love is strong you can even move moutians"
What are humans made of it all emotions tied together.
If you love someone you overlook all the negative point and coming to your question I have see... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair but I don't want to hurt anybody or ruin anything. Help!
Q. I have been having an affair with one of my collegues for over a year now. He has since proceeded with his divorce and it will be final at the end of the month. I have not even filed. My husband and i were only married 4 mos before i began this ...
A. 9 December 2008: I am relly sorry to tell but someone will be hurt and his whole life will change for Good or Bad.
It is really SAD to know that you have been married for only a few months just to be with someone else.
If you wanted to be happy Why did you get ... (read in full...)
Is my lust for a teacher unhealthy and should I talk to someone about it?
Q. So I’m kind of anxious because I truly feel that I’m beginning to have an emotional attachment to my English teacher. He was my teacher last year, and he's my AP teacher this year. When I speak to him, I accidentally stare into his eyes, appearing ...
A. 9 December 2008: It's Ok to think about your teachers that way atleast I thought about it for some of my teacher's.I hope tht I could be with them and just like you the same idea used to go through my head as well.
But Dear wake up there is a whole lot that you... (read in full...)
Unwanted cold war with a friend... what should I do?
Q. I am currently in the midst of a cold war between an apartment mate/friend and I don’t even know why. Some history: She (S) was my first real friend in college and the person to introduce to me to the group. We decide to become apartment mate...
A. 8 December 2008: It sure is a long story....What I gathered from all this is that there is a misunderstanding somehere.
What I can recommend is as both of you are good friends with "B" why not ask "B" to help both of you out.Sit down together on a special occasion... (read in full...)
Do I tell her now (1 1/2 months later) I accept the breakup or just move on and accept on my own?
Q. Hi all. I have a question for everyone. I'm a 36 year old male who is trying to accept the end of a 2 year relationship. At first I tried to hold on to this relationship and did a bit of begging and pleading for her not to go. Then we tried ...
A. 8 December 2008: Time is a great healer, you will get over her in time but still you have to make a consious effort from your end to let her go.
If you think of contacting her in any manner then it would be next to impossible to forget her because you would be stil... (read in full...)
Is it more important to live up to the commitment I have made to my family or to live my life to the fullest and find true love elsewhere?
Q. I have been with my partner for 20 years. We dated 4 years and have been married 15. We have children... I have a nice life. I love my children, and my husband. But I am not in love with my husband. And honestly, do not know that I ever have been in ...
A. 8 December 2008: what is true love?
That is the first thing you should be asking yourself.If you fell like you want to be with someone and you wanna spend the rest of your life with him and die along side with him...think again.
What if you leave your lovin... (read in full...)
He lied about being a virgin when he met me!
Q. i have a huge problem, i found out my boyfriend of 3months who i love so much lied about being a virgin when he met me. he said he had slept with 3 people before me one of them being a girl who he lives with in his student accommodation which i was ...
A. 8 December 2008: Anybody would be lost at this point in life..anyone.What you did on your part is truly acceptable ... but the point to note here is that atleast your boyfrined todl you some don't have the balls and would be messing around with people on your back. ... (read in full...)
I see her everyday at work and it hurts so much, what do I do?
Q. i started to hangout with my co worker, and eventually started to like her... she had a boyfriend at the time but broke up with him, so we started to go out more.... i was well aware of possibly being the rebound guy, but it seemed so different with ...
A. 8 December 2008: "Don't tell me sky is the limit when there is footmarks on the moon"
What I mean is don't loose hope, I know it is hard to digest some realities in life but that's what makes it so more interesting...don't gulp down those feelings for her.
... (read in full...)
Goodness he is my soul mate!!!!
Q. Okay i know for a fact that i am completely in love with my best friend. He is so perfect for me its not even funny. but a few months ago he was dating my ex-best friend. i am not friends with her at all anymore, but i still would feel bad. plus my ...
A. 8 December 2008:
what are you waiting for Girl go cath your guy before he fools around with some one else and strts liking them.
Hey ! hold on dont't rush so fast ......that beacuse you have a crush on him....think again ...you ..NOT HIM.
So before break t... (read in full...)
I don't believe in getting intimate with any boy just to satisfy sexual needs, I want to wait for the "one". What do you think?
Q. Hello friends. I am a 29 year old unmarried, virgin girl from India. I would like to discuss one of my beliefs with all of you. Hope you don't call me a psycho as all others call me. I have been a very outstanding student, always a topper. I am wor...
A. 8 December 2008: Salute to you for coming out so openly.As you know times are changing and even if you are waiting for the right Guy there is a slim change the Prince that comes by would be the one you are looking for.May be you fall in love with him and move on in ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with her just once!
Q. Myself a physiotherapist, married with achild. I got in contact with an unmarried girl 10 years younger to me.She is very innocent and a beautifull girl. I was attracted towards her breasts. She also liked me but not sexually.She said that she wants ...
A. 8 December 2008: It's natural dude for a girl to get attracted to great men,but it doesn't give you the right to go ahead and do what you like ....hurting other's feeling. Get a grip on your life what would you think if your wife had a relationship just for FUN with... (read in full...)
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