I don't want to suggest dating her, even although she's told me she's not happy with her current boyfriend.
Q. Hello, I started university two weeks ago. There is a girl on my course who I quite like. We hang around together a fair bit, and I think our friendship is growing. However, I find myself feeling quite attracted to her. She's pretty cute, she...
A. 16 October 2008: my suggestion is to just be there for her...like you said, you wouldn't want to put her in an awkward position. (just the fact that you're not trying to take advantage of her in her vulnerable state shows that you care about her.) in the meantime ... (read in full...)
Without any warning she broked my heart...
Q. My girlfriend was a classmate of mine since 7th std. Before 1 month I proposed to her she said yes to that proposal but since yesterday she's been behaving strangely to me and today she sent me a message saying don't call me, neither message and I ...
A. 16 October 2008: all you can do unfortunately is to somehow try to get ahold of her to see what happened. do you have any mutual friends that can maybe shed some light on what has happened? it's not fair that she just cuts you off without any ... (read in full...)
We broke up but he said we can still be sex buddies!!!
Q. Hi guys on Sunday I split with my boyfriend of 8 months, the reason was he wasnt over his ex of four years and the mother of his child, he says he likes me but doesn't love me like he still loves her, anyway he said I can still ring him and go out ...
A. 16 October 2008: I dont know about being sex buddies.
The first question you should ask yourself is, "What do I want to get out of this?" In other words, do you have feelings for him, as in, do you want to be with him? because if that's what you want, and obvi... (read in full...)
Is a blow job for a groom a tradition?
Q. Hey sisters and brothers Just a funny one Just spoke to some friends ... bullshitting .. question was DO you think its a tradition for a GROOM to get blown at a bachelore party??? 95%guys said YES! So, how do you guys feel over here? J...
A. 30 May 2008: it's only tradition if women get to do the same at THEIR bachelorette parties.... (read in full...)
My best friend stopped making time for me, should I give up and ditch her for good?
Q. My problem in a nutshell is a girl who used to be my best friend has changed and I dont know whether to cut all ties. We met seven years ago and hit it off straight away, we were the best of friends and could tell eachother everything. Five...
A. 28 May 2008: you have the right to be angry! people have to invest in relationships in order for it to last...whether it's a romantic relationship or a friendship! i understand if you feel abandoned...but at the same time if she's not making time for you you ... (read in full...)
A one night stand - should I give him a call?
Q. I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me ...
A. 16 April 2008: hate to say it...but:
1) the guy probably just said "call me sometime" kind of as a polite uncontrollable reply out of his mouth.
2) if the guy wanted to keep in touch, he wouldve gotten your info. after all, if you can track him down...c... (read in full...)
Before we got serious he was also sleeping with someone else from work and I have only recently found this out. What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing someone for over a year now and for the last 4-5 months we have become serious. I work with him and our relationship has devolped into a very loving serious one. The best I have ever had and he says it is for him too. The problem ...
A. 4 April 2008: kity cat said it best. you need to release the stress out of your life. you need to find someone deserving of your love, someone you can trust. you guys have just recently started getting serious and you already have trust issues?
perha... (read in full...)
I said I could forgive the cheating but he replied he can't trust himself any longer and feels confused. Will he want me back in the future?
Q. Hi, I really don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and we were completely in love. I know it sounds daft but we were happy together and he wanted to marry me, have kids with him etc. We've lived apart for the last...
A. 4 April 2008: i dont understand what his problem is.
HE's the one who cheated, who broke your trust and possibly wrecked the relationship. yet he thinks he still has the right to call the shots? "i cant be with you anymore?" sorry i guess im just a bitch wh... (read in full...)
Sex with ex and now I'm starting to have feelings for him again!
Q. hi iam 22 i live in ohio well my ex boyfriend and i have been broke up for 3 months now and we had sex last night for the first time since we broke up iam was doing great and now iam starting 2 have feelings all over again for him i think what ...
A. 4 April 2008: i guess you just gotta weigh the stuff out...do you really miss HIM or you just miss the sex? sometimes being with someone familiar brings about feelings of safety and security...esp. while going through a rough time such as a breakfast.... (read in full...)
My uncle is sex-pesting me, I don't want to say anything to my family, but what can I do?
Q. Hi, While I was camping a couple of years ago I slept in another camper tent. There are three double beds. My Cousin in one my other cousin in another and next to one of the beds is another one that my aunty and uncle sleep. I slept next to my...
A. 4 April 2008: sweetie, this is just flat out wrong! that makes me so angry how adults can take advantage of children like this...don't be scared, tell someone about it! otherwise he might not stop...not only with you but with other kids as well...... (read in full...)
I wanted sex, he didn't at first but in the end gave in! Now he claims it was rape?!
Q. The other night I came home drunk and very horny but my boyfriend was asleep in bed. I woke him up by kissing him and touching him down there. At first he told me leave him alone as he was tired but in the end he turned round and we had full sex, as ...
A. 24 March 2008: rape is defined as sex without consent. he consented, therefore it was not rape.
some people in relationships have sex even though they dont fully want to...maybe they just do it to please their partner even though they're halfheartedly into it.... (read in full...)
Why do I care, and can't seem to get past all the hurt that he has caused me? I did not even love him (either)?
Q. I have broken up with my ex about 2 and a half months ago. I have had many one-day dates in the past but he was my first relationship that lasted for a year. I broke it off, because i couldn't take being hurt any longer by him and basically being ...
A. 17 March 2008: you sound like an honest to god, great person. dont put up with people who dont see you for what you are, and what youre worth. it sounds like you might be suffering from self-esteem issues (it sounds like it cause that's part of my problem). the ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but the love of my life is another man who doesn't even know I have a fiance.
Q. I'm in love with 2 men i feel terrible. I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years and im ruining it due to long distance problems; he is 24 and i am 20. I've meet this wonderful man i cant be away from him i think about him all the time but...
A. 17 March 2008: this actually happened to me when i was 20 years old.
at the time i was in a 1.5 year relationship, long distance because he was still back at school 6 years away while i decided to go to school at home. the first 8 months were spent together... (read in full...)
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