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I tried to move on and then it all got messy. Was it all some kind of game for him?

Q.   I’m in a horrible dilemma, the last 12 months I’ve been trying to move on from this guy who I used to date. I’ve been feeling down and my feelings have became intense. I was contemplating weather to contact him. I did the stupidest thing to get in ...

A.   4 May 2008: some blokes crave attention from a lot of girls and love seeing girls fight over him. usually, this type of guys have no money, not a very good job, semi-good looking, but have no real talents and/or skills. your bloke sounds like a real loser! s... (read in full...)

Is what he's saying normal or not?

Q.   I have met a guy through some friends and we were just friendly to begin with. I was interested but I thought he wasn't. Then as I had planned a trip to Greece, I went out the night before my flight and he happened to be there. We just acted ...

A.   4 May 2008: I agree with PeterPan. How can he miss you when you're always in his face, texting, phoning, etc? It's natural for him to run if he's being chased. I'm sure you want him to know that you're a sweet and lovely girl who'll be there for him when he ... (read in full...)

If you had a bf/gf who was shy around your friends (but not you) would you be annoyed/upset?

Q.   My question is if you had a bf/gf who was shy around your friends (but not you) would you be annoyed/upset? And would you go as far as dumping them because your friends didnt approve of your gf/bf due to their shyness? Ive only had two bfs and ...

A.   26 April 2008: different people are attracted to different things... some people are open-minded and will love you for your personal uniqueness. however, there some people fancy their ideal mate to be an out-going party animal, or be book-smart, or be stick ... (read in full...)

I still have feelings for her but she has shown no romantic interest--is she wanting to get back,playing games, or just confused and lonely?

Q.   My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me for being dishonest. On the night before we broke up, we had sex with the understanding that she was still on the pill, several days later she informed me she wasn't and she was pregnant only to miscarry. ...

A.   22 April 2008: She broke up with you for Your dishonesty? if so, she probably needs some time to get over the dishonesty. but it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you. men often think that "romantic interest" is only about sex. but women crave intimacy - hold... (read in full...)

Husband threatens to cheat and divorce me! What is the matter with him?

Q.   Whenever My husband and I have a spat, in the end he threatens with divorce. I have told him that it is hurtful that he brings divorce up especially since I dont say things like that since I know that it would hurt him. Also, since I love him very ...

A.   21 March 2008: i agree! he is probably using divorce to get his way. he knows if he says that, you will be scared and back down. listen, he's not going to stop on his own. you have to shock him. next time you have a row... before he repeats the divorce spee... (read in full...)

He keeps going on dating sites, why is does he keep telling lies to me?

Q.   i have been involved with a guy for 7 months and we live 2hrs apart.i met him on a dating site,and we agreed to remove ourself from all dating sites.he keeps telling me he isnt on no dating sites nor sex sites but i have been in his email and caught ...

A.   21 March 2008: in other words, he's going around -acting and telling people (on these dating sites) that he is single and ready to date. he tells you that he doesn't want to date anyone else, but he's paying $$$ and actively on these sites chatting with potentia... (read in full...)

I think she is worth driving 12 hours to see, but she doesn't believe me.

Q.   I'm 17 and my girlfriend (16) has moved interstate. I've just gotten my provisional license. The only time I can see her at the moment is during her school holidays when she returns to my town. That means that there is about a 3 month gap between ...

A.   18 March 2008: does she live with her mom? are you planning to just visit her and then drive back home? or were you planning on spending the night? since her mom hates you, where are you going to sleep? maybe that's her way of telling you not to come down cau... (read in full...)

His online profile was enhanced...and I like him as a person but am not attracted to him. What should I do??

Q.   I met this guy online. We emailed and eventually had a date. Things went well. I liked him. But these are my issues: 1) picture in his profile must have been at least five years ago, he also seemed shorter than his profile stated and possibly...

A.   17 March 2008: hey- i'll be the first to admit it, the weight on my driver's license is "not the most accurate." don't be so hard on him! everyone "embellishes." the fact is, the picture WAS him, right? on these online dating sites, many people photoshop their ... (read in full...)

How long is TOO LONG to be lonely?

Q.   Yeah like the Question says, how long is too long. Ive been alone for like 4 years now. Ive dated off and on since then and meet a few diffrent women, but nothing seems to stick for me. My first major relationship left me all fouled up and alone, ...

A.   17 March 2008: Happiness is choice-dependent. meaning that you have to Decide to be happy. if you're unhappy and not actively trying to change your mood, it doesn't matter if you have a million girls or friends or people around you- you're going to be lonely. ... (read in full...)

I need some advice about my ex boyfriend.

Q.   My ex boyfriend who I still love and well am still in love with, I can't stop thinking bout him. He recently was with this girl who he claimed HE was in love with but yet he was still sleeping with me at this time. I think we slept together almost ...

A.   16 March 2008: Let's forget the fact that he's a slut for cheating on some girl with you. The most ruthless thing he did was blaming you and shutting you out when he got caught. We all know how it feels to be betrayed and broken-hearted. And you have ever ri... (read in full...)

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