How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 10 June 2010: q1605 said it best, "Many women are called to the FWB. Few are chosen. I've never seen one pass muster."
I know there's exception to every rule, but how as a woman can you have sex over & over & over again... without feelings? It's totally ... (read in full...)
Helpful ideas on how to get wife to give me oral?
Q. My wife refuses to give me a blowjob and will not even really open up healthy dialog about it. Now before anyone replies to this post here is some background. -I DO go down on her (cunnilingus) to completion and she has multiple organisms. It ...
A. 10 June 2010: I think your wife's logic that only dirty, whorish women perform oral sex is a weak argument at best. I have had very few sexual partners. I'm a married, monogamous, college educated, employed professional and I really enjoy giving my husband blow ... (read in full...)
Will I look jealous if I confront her?
Q. I was best friends with a girl from 7th grade until about 11th grade in high school where she got somewhat popular and completely ditched me. She has had a lot of best friends throughout the years, I know she is a flip-flopper when it comes to ...
A. 10 June 2010: Why can't you arrange a girls night out, or lunch or tea or whatever for all of you to get together? Approach it from the angle that if your BFF likes her, you'll like her, too. Maybe if everyone hangs out it'll take pressure off your friend to ... (read in full...)
My man wants me to be okay with him cheating on me.
Q. My boyfriend and i have been in a long distnce relationship for almost 2 years now. We hardly get to see each other. And we both get up set at each other for that. Recently he told me he has another girlfriend just to occupy until we move in ...
A. 8 June 2010: I'm not sure what kind of details you two hammered out about your long distance relationship, but it stands to reason that falling in love with someone else would be crossing the boundary. Cut all ties to this dude and for God's sake do not move in ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to cheat if he isn't satisfying me sexually.
Q. Is it ok to cheat if he isn't satisfying me sexually. I love him but we don't have sparks. but I am settling because we have a baby together and I'm 19 he is 25 and he knows I am settling but he is so in love with me he is ok with it. I want to have ...
A. 8 June 2010: Of course it's not OK - it's wrong. In fact, I can't imagine any possible situation that would ever make it OK. Especially since you have such a fixable problem as unsatisfactory sex. Take charge in the bedroom and tell him what you like, ... (read in full...)
what age is to old when it comes to the matters of the heart?
Q. hello everyone.. okay for the year i have been talking to this guy. I am really feeling him. I am 22 and he is 41. Now my question is what age is to old when it comes to the matters of the heart? Also i told my close family about the new man in m...
A. 8 June 2010: My husband is 13 years older than me. We both agree that had we met when I was in my early 20's and he was in his mid 30's that it would've been disastrous. We would've had little to nothing in common. But that's just us. Not saying it can't ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about meeting my long distance boyfriend for the first time
Q. I'm 18 and I met this 20 years old boy online a little bit more than one year ago. I have really strong feelings for him, in fact I think I'm in love with him and I know he loves me too. We are supposed to meet in one month in Paris ( how romantic...
A. 7 June 2010: I'm with marieclaire on this one...
IMHO, the geography of where you meet is moot. I would caution you to drive across town by yourself to meet someone you hardly know, much less jet off to a foreign country! Even if you met him face to face ... (read in full...)
He is unemployed and steals my money. Do I stay?
Q. should i still stay with him hi all heres the thing I've given my bf chances, well I think too many chances but i have given him chances to prove to me that he wants to be with me . see hes not working and hasnt been for the 2 and half years...
A. 7 June 2010: Wow. I know how much this sucks because I've been there. My EX-husband (please note the emphasis on the "EX") turned into a deadbeat that didn't work, didn't look for a job and was all too happy to let me support us. I've always tried to look for ... (read in full...)
I betrayed a confidence; how do I bring it up?
Q. I've got a very good friend that happens to be a lot younger than me. He's in his twentys and I am in my in my fortys. I don't consider him a kid but as as someone on my own level. I am acquainted with his mother who is actually closer to my ...
A. 5 June 2010: Invite him over for a beer and just come out with it. Apologize, explain you were only trying to be helpful; you wanted to reduce his anxiety by offering an additional perspective. He may respect you for having the integrity to accept your mistake ... (read in full...)
The real 25 year old virgin!
Q. Hello, So there it is. A year ago I thought I'd be alright by now, but nothing has actually changed so far. To sum it up: I'm a 25 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. Needless to say - I'm a virgin as well. I've read some ...
A. 5 June 2010: Dude, it's all about perspective. If you're shooting yourself down before you even give a girl a chance, how will you ever even get the opportunity? You shouldn't put so much pressure on yourself. Think baby steps... approach a girl as someone ... (read in full...)
My last attempt for this love.
Q. This is a long post but my question is how do you start trusting a compulsive liar? My ex and I were together for a year and a half and 9 months of that she was pregnant with my son. I was supporting all of us so we didn't have a lot of time and ...
A. 5 June 2010: To begin with, my heart goes out to you. You're in a tough spot and it's even more of a touchy situation because you have a child together. I'm no expert, and as much as it sucks, I think the best thing for you, her and your son is for you two to ... (read in full...)
Which of the two do men remember more - their first love or their first sexual encounter?
Q. Which one of the two do men remember more? Their first love or the person they had sex for the first time? ...
A. 5 June 2010: I just asked my husband this question not too long ago. I was surprised to learn that his first love was more memorable. He explained that with most guys he knew that losing their 'virgin' status was more a process of getting the monkey off their ... (read in full...)
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