My ex is insulting me! What should I do?
Q. Hello Dear-Cupid-Team, I'm having trouble with my ex. When i met him he was a real Mr Right but then he dumped me because of his ex. After that incident he totally cut me of. I found out he cheated on me - what he is doing at the moment with his...
A. 29 February 2012: This ex of urs sounds like a real piece of work. Never mind him. He is saying all those mean things because he cant stand to see you happy...especially with someone else.
Just tell your current boyfriend that these things are untrue. And conc... (read in full...)
What should I do if he doesn't respond to my messages?
Q. My boyfriend sent me a text message this morning saying that he loves me, and a couple of hours later, he called me, but i missed the call. He didnt leave a voicemail message. I couldn't get back to him until a few hours later. I tried to call him ...
A. 29 February 2012: I agree wit Ciar. Unless there's another side to the story dont worry too much about it.
Was this the first time he had ever said he loves you? If it is, its possible he got spooked by your silence. But even if this is the case, he will come arou... (read in full...)
Should a married woman accept a drink from a man at a bar?
Q. Do y'all think it's OK for a married woman to accept a purchased drink from a man at a bar? My wife often goes out with her girlfriends. Sometimes they sit around a table like a bunch of hens cackling for hours - men run for the hills. But other ...
A. 29 February 2012: let me ayou are not over controlling at all. I totally understand how u feel because thats how my boyfriend feels. He used to be uneasy everytime i go out with my girls and wen we talked about it, i used to give pretty much the same excuses your ... (read in full...)
Have you ever had an awkward encounter with an ex?
Q. My ex and i broke up two months ago-ish and i see him every day in school, and run into him and his new girlfriend alot.. talk about awkward! If you have any similar experiences, i'd love to hear them....
A. 1 March 2011: yes yes and yes!!! i broke up with my ex september 2009. we are in the same college and even in the same class. and its a pretty small college so everyone is pretty much in everyones face.
he started dating someone and so did i. (in fact i starte... (read in full...)
Should I ever forgive my insulting, cheating bf?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me for 3 months with a girl who is: ugly a bully selfish completely self-centered and then said he didn't so I just let it be because she could have been lying... Today i find out he is cheating on me with 4 of his exes...
A. 1 March 2011: the answer to this question is both yes and no. this guy has treated you in a way that no one deserves to be treated. you deserve better than this.
i know break ups are hard but i would think that is whats best for you at this point. if you stay... (read in full...)
I love him, but I'm still insecure.
Q. I met a guy online over 2 years ago...I fell in love with him and he me. I met him for the first time in real for 2 weeks in January and well im even more in love now than I ever was, we get along soo much better in real than what we do online a...
A. 1 March 2011: i totally know where you are coming from. Sometimes its hard to love you for you. I was where u are most of my post puberty life. I am african. You may not know this, but in this part of the world, almost always- bigger is better. And there i was 5 ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend never concerned when I am out late at night!
Q. Hi guys I have been together with my boyfriend for one year plus for now. Whenever I hang out late at night with my friends, he never messages or call me to ask me if I have reach home. I told him before that making a call issn't going to hurt and ...
A. 26 February 2011: I am so sorry for ur pain. You are right to feel the way u do. He is acting like he doesnt care much. At the very least he should have apologised for the incident. You seriously could have been hurt.
He ought to put more effort into showing ... (read in full...)
Husband blocked me on facebook because he was talking to another woman about having sex!
Q. I have been married for 10 years. I thought all was great, until I got a facebook acct. I wanted to put all my info in there, but to my surprise, I couldnt list my husband, because he has me blocked. When I confronted him he said he did it a ...
A. 23 February 2011: i am sorry for the pain your are going thru. But i totally know where u r coming from. 2 years ago i had a boyfriend with questionable fidelity. The time he was going on a 2 month attachment program he blocked me on facebook! When i asked him, he ... (read in full...)
Why would you put a picture and you and your ex on facebook?
Q. Hi all, Me and ex g\f broke up about 3 months ago. We keep in touch every few weeks, just to say 'hi' and catch up. She does not want reconciliation Anyway, i have just logged onto Facebook and she has just posted a picture of me and her o...
A. 3 June 2008: I can think of a few reasons. It might not seem like it to u, or she may say she doesnt want reconciliation but putting the photo up sorta implies that she does. She still wants to be associated with you. Are you getting involved with anyone else. ... (read in full...)
His ex-wife keeps contacting him, am I out of line to be upset by this? And what should I do?
Q. Hello. I have been in a relationship with a man for a little over a year now. His ex-wife (they were married three years) is still contacting him constantly. They do not have children together and she has no reason to be contacting him. ...
A. 15 April 2008: You are absolutely not out of line. U hav every right to be mad. Talk to him about it. Tell him how u feel. Take note of how he acts towards these constant phonecalls. It could be that he's being too friendly. Wat he needs to do is tell her where ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and self conscious about my 32AA boobs. I envy other girls with bigger boobs. What can I do?
Q. I'm 15, and have very small boobs, only a 32AA. I get so depressed when I see my friends and they've got lovely, B, C and bigger cups. I envy them so much I get obsessed and stare at them because I dont know how it feels to have big boobs. It's ...
A. 13 February 2007: hey i know how you feel. i am 18 and got small boobs too. i completely understand. and i am thin... no skinny. and this side of the world, big curvy women are thought of to be beautiful. it hurts sometimes, but God created me the way i am and i ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be single forever...so I need tips on how to speak to girls.
Q. Well i got a problem i think im a ugly person and i dont know how to talk to girls and i dont wanna be a single guy forever...I need tips on how to talk to girls...
A. 2 January 2007: let me start by saying YOU ARE NOT UGLY!! you are a beautiful and unique person. God created you in his own image and believe me God is not ugly!
the secret to talking to girls is confidence. if you ooze confidence you've got it made! always mant... (read in full...)
Is it really impossible for men and women to be "just friends"?
Q. i have a question. is it impossible for men and women to be "just friends"? it seems like all the guys i get close to, end up having some sort of feeling for me. then they say that i should have known, because guys and girls cant stay just friends. ...
A. 2 January 2007: your question has two answers to it. yes and no.
let me say this- it is impossible for a men and women to be close friends over a long period of time without one of them or both of them developing feelings for the other.
it's what the people i... (read in full...)
I have a bf but lately, I've been crushing after other guys. Why am I doing this?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years, friends for two years beforehand. Lately I've found myself having stupid little schoolgirl crushes on other guys, and it's scaring me. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I would NEVER give him u...
A. 2 January 2007: you know something? this is something that i went through just a couple of months ago.
you have been with your bf for 1.5 years right? what has happened is that you have gotten so comfortable in your relationship. it's like eating your favo... (read in full...)
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