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No sex with my 'friend with benefits'...what does this mean??

Q.   Me and this guy have been together in a manner of speaking for a year. We slept with each other to start with and then became friends with benefits. Now Im confused and I think he is too because in the last 2 weeks. I have seen him a fair few time...

A.   19 February 2007: If you're confused about exactly waht is goin on, the simplest thing to do is ask him. If you don't wanna do it right out head to head type thing you can make it a jokey question but still talk about it with him. All of us here at dear cupid ca... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and self conscious about my 32AA boobs. I envy other girls with bigger boobs. What can I do?

Q.   I'm 15, and have very small boobs, only a 32AA. I get so depressed when I see my friends and they've got lovely, B, C and bigger cups. I envy them so much I get obsessed and stare at them because I dont know how it feels to have big boobs. It's ...

A.   31 January 2007: It is nice to know ther r a lot of us slim small boobed, oft accused of anorexia people!!! Don't worry bout it...am not gonna promise that they'll get bigger (coz mine haven't) but on the bright side i can promise: they won't get saggy quickl... (read in full...)

I was a virgin when he married me but when he gets angry he calls me a 'SLUT!' Why?!

Q.   I have a lovely husband of 13 years. I was a virgin when I married him. When he gets angry he often calls me a slut. Can you tell me why he does this? Is he just using the worst word to annoy me as this term is the complete opposite of what I am? Or ...

A.   31 January 2007: If he'a angry he might simply be trying to demean you and erode at your sense of self-worth. Try to discuss the issue with him, informing him that it hursts your feelings and try to find out why he does it and how he can stop. It's the small th... (read in full...)

During sex he got too rough and wouldn't stop! I love him but this has me hurt and confused..what should I do?

Q.   well last night i went to the pub, with my boyfriend and our 2 mates. we were all having a good laugh and drinking. and me and paul* were pretty horny, so when we got home we had sex. bout an hour after we did it again. and for some reason it kinda ...

A.   31 January 2007: The guy is an asshole, no matter how much FUN he was havin, if u were sayin no he shud hav listened. Best thing to do is dump him, get rid of him coz no matter wat he says it'll happen again and this time he might not be able to stop!!... (read in full...)

After we had sex--I found out he injects heroin! Can I get HIV from him?

Q.   hi ppl.this is a really serious question. I have just split with my boyfriend and yesterday i found out that while i was with him he was on heroine, and in fact has been injecting for 12 months. I had no idea about this!!anyway i had sex with him, ...

A.   29 January 2007: Heylo, The first thing u shud do, as freaky and as hard as it will be, is to go face him. He has the answers that you need, although an HIV test is a good thing, HIV has a window of three months before it becomes detectable within your blood st... (read in full...)

It's just sex and he hides his feelings! How can I tell if this relationship is right for me?

Q.   how can tell if this relationship is right for u right now its just sex here and there thats how we were when we were kids 5 years ago i feel like ive gone back 4 steps. he hides his feelings and i dont know where i stand anymore what to do. i t...

A.   29 January 2007: Look around da neighbourhood if this has been going on 4 5 years mayb new blood has cropped up and u just bn too busy to notice. So start going out with oher guys, dnt make it one...coz then it becomes a rebound issue, but explore the ... (read in full...)

Is this guy just playing games??

Q.   I am talking to this guy that i think is perfect but my family and friends think otherwise.Yesterday i was invited to the movies by my best friend so i decided to invite the guy that am talking to so that way we could finally meet. He said that he ...

A.   29 January 2007: I agree with stina, give him a chance, it's ur mom's job to be highly critical and cynical. It's better to risk somethin good happenin than to spend the rest of your life wonderin whether sumthn good cud have happened:) So take a dp breath, bre... (read in full...)

My bfs obsession with fat porn is killing our relationship!!

Q.   My boyfriend has an obsession with fat porn! We have been dating for 18 months and it makes me feel worthless. I am a curvy woman and i now question his original motives. I have talked to him about it openly and it hasn't done any good. I love him...

A.   29 January 2007: Well, clearly your boyfriend has issues, but that's not a big deal as quite a lot of people i know have issues, however when HIS issues are beginning to affect your view of yourself then they need to e dealt with. Clearly you have tried and he is ... (read in full...)

Ive got a crush on my cousin(s) I dont know who to talk to or what to do ?

Q.   my cousin is 16,i am 18, n i got a crush on her,.what do i do? i have some outher cousins i have crushs on too.the outhers are,17yr old.and 19yrs old. i just dont know who to talk to about this...

A.   29 January 2007: It's normal to experience feelings towards girls at your age, especially if you come into frequent contact with your cousins. The best thing for you to do would be to start meeting other girls, who you can get along with. Although it is not nece... (read in full...)

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