I'm ashamed of my sexual past and worried about STD's....
Q. When i was 11 years old i lost both my parents and i had to live with my granny. She waz very stingy and 2 much strict and she abused me and my little sister because she doesn't love our father's family. At the age of 15 i startf drinking alchohol ...
A. 28 December 2012: YES absolutely you should tell him and I'm sorry for your childhood but that's no excuse ! if this man is going to share HIS LIFE with you HE deserves the truth the whole truth ! yes its your life before BUT what so many fail to realize is its his l... (read in full...)
Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?
Q. I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...
A. 28 December 2012: I can not believe anyone would give you sympathy for your actions!!! when you say I could not help myself or I just gave in to temptation ?like it was a ice cream or a cigarette lol your a selfish women to have done this its not forgivable you shou... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he is 50% happy with me but I don't satisfy him sexually like his ex did. Should I have a threesome with them to make him happy?
Q. I purposed an idea to my boyfriend a couple of days ago. The idea having a threesome with him and his ex. Sounds bizarre, good thing I slept on it and really thought about how it will impact the relationship and everyone involved lives. Question ...
A. 19 December 2012: this guy is an absolutel scum bag you need to leave him ASAP !!!! stop thinking of doing things to please him. He does not love you. he's not in love with you I'm telling you I'm an attractive guy and I've dated lots of women ..and been around ... (read in full...)
Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing
Q. Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and ...
A. 15 December 2012: People are socks these days no morals and defend the sluts ... (read in full...)
What will I do if he ends up in Jail? What I should do right now given the situation?
Q. To start off with, I'm a nineteen year old girl dating a nineteen year old male. We've been dating a little more than ten months now. There has never really been a fight between the two of us either, we get along quite well. Anyways, like all rela...
A. 13 December 2012: Ok you want the real straight forward answer !!!I'm going to say this because I know this I work in a jail .#1 if your attracted to bad boys STOP ,!!cause they will ruin your life and kids if u have them or plan on it ....these types of men are the ... (read in full...)
My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?
Q. Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...
A. 28 April 2012: @yos thank you for your posts and trust me I've read hundreds of posts on retroactive jealously BUT......unlike many of those men I did not know prior to dating and it's not 5 guys I'm jealous of or really jealous actually I'm a very confident man ... (read in full...)
My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?
Q. Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...
A. 26 April 2012: @tisha thanks for your kind post .and @yos look I'm not saying I did not ask for advice .i understand that many people have different views on this .what I'm am saying is somehow I'm feeling that yes your right if I shut up never bring it up ,don't ... (read in full...)
My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?
Q. Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...
A. 25 April 2012: Yes I do !!!and I've been an amazing man and husband to her !!i This issue is about lieing and trust .w... (read in full...)
Can't deal with your lover's sexual past? Why not leave her / him if they have different morals to you?
Q. Hi guys AND girls, I've read a lot on DC about retroactive jealousy, or "his / her sexual past", and people having problems with it. Some very smart people here have made some very good suggestions on how to deal with it. The thing is, that i...
A. 25 April 2012: Please all that commented on this please give me some advise .....I'm hurting very badly inside and it's not easy ..please read my posts ... (read in full...)
My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?
Q. Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...
A. 20 April 2012: @aresu you are 100 %right ...I should be the one allowing her to apologize to me not me walking on egg shells to not upset her if I "judge her"... (read in full...)
My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?
Q. Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...
A. 19 April 2012: Let me guess retroactive jealousy????? Nope sorry I'm not going to allow someone to flip this into what II NEED TO DO ???why should I have to be all sweet and nice to someone that's completely lied and betrayed me and as the last poster said ..it's ... (read in full...)
My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?
Q. Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...
A. 19 April 2012: I believe I'm allowed to be angry ....I'm so sad so deppresed ,I'm the victim!!!!!im not the dickhead? I have tried to be loving but She caused this She made those choices and has treated me horrible for years ... (read in full...)
My wife has changed, she's become so cold hearted and to make it worse I find out she's lied about her sexual past! Am I crazy or should I feel hurt?
Q. Please anyone give me advise ...I'm hurting more than I ever have in my life, so here's my story I'm 30 years old married 5 years and together 6 years. we have 3 kids two she had from a former marriage but the dad was a deadbeat, thug, gangster in ...
A. 19 April 2012: Thanks for the support I feel I am just acting like any good guy would?she gets mad if I seem upset or ask questions?... (read in full...)
He got another girl pregnant when he and I first started seeing each other
Q. Basically its a long story but I met this guy about 6 months ago now and at first i didnt think anything would happen. But as time passed I gradually fell for him. You could say we've got a "thing" going on. I probably like him much more than he ...
A. 18 April 2012: He sounds like a complete loser and the sad part is girls at your age are often attracted to bad guys ....and in my opinion STOP !!!wasting your time and energy on some dude that is out sleeping around and knocking chucks up???reality check guys got ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of feeling guilty for wanting sex all the time!
Q. Wife and I are in a nearly sexless relationship. We have two sets of twins that drive her near insanity, both work full time, and, obviously I want sex way more than she does. I masturbate a lot, but it's not the same as the real thing. She has ...
A. 17 April 2012: I would have to agree I think that it should always be equal and sex is very important in a healthy relationship ... (read in full...)
Why does a man go off of sex?
Q. why does a man suddenly go off sex, the first year was the best, now nothing for 4 months, is it possible to have a relationship without, i am getting through a lot of batteries lol...
A. 16 April 2012: I can tell you the only reason I would not want sex would be if she was not freaky or good in bed ..or if I was not feeling well ?but 4 months lol never... (read in full...)
I can't find a guy to love me the way that I love him
Q. Why do I feel this way? Is there something wrong with me? I'm a good girl with a big heart. All my friends say I'm gorgeous, friendly and really sweet. But I can't seem to find a guy to love me the way I love them. I get dumped each time I ...
A. 12 April 2012: Hey I think women like you are amazing and don't listen to anyone that says your too nice or bla bla bla you sound perfect if I was single I would love to spend time with a girl that gives love affection and just overall a goodgirl! Its hard to find ... (read in full...)
Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing
Q. Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and ...
A. 9 April 2012: @miame ok first I have to say my wife was distant sexually WAY WAY before I found out about her wild/disturbing past ,again when we met she was amazing to me and a loving women then after marriage she changed and honesty I known I'm not a perfect ... (read in full...)
My wife never initiates sex!
Q. My wife and I have a decent marriage, and a one year old daughter. The trouble is, even before she conceived, we rarely had sex (about once a month). Now, it'e even less. When we do, it's good, but every time I initiate she's too tired. Even ...
A. 7 April 2012: Well I have to say I'm in the same boat ...not as bad meaning I get it 2 a week maybe and went threw times it was as bad as 1 a month ....the hardest part is feeling inside like your not desired by here its misrible to look at her nude or in a... (read in full...)
Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing
Q. Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and ...
A. 7 April 2012: The hardest part is I love her so much but I know she has treated me with little respect at times even my family has said comments her brother father ..so its obvious she's treated me poory at times ,the thing thts most hard is she now will just get ... (read in full...)
Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing
Q. Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and ...
A. 4 April 2012: Well I must say I do appreciate your honest answers but I must clarify a couple things I did tell the truth in all I said but I want to be clear my wife is beautiful ,funny,a good mom,and can be very loving and she has ,NEVER cheated on me ....but ... (read in full...)
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