Am I being stupid?
Q. Am I being stupid? I have a great wife, who is a great mother with our children and in 12 years we have never had bad problems. My problem is that she had a couple of relationships in high school and as she says she was "forced to have sex". ...
A. 16 September 2007: im very very sorry to tell you so bluntly but....YES!!! i am 14 years old and ive been through hell, there is a guy in my life, he has raped me twice, ive never told anyone not even my boyfriend... when you get raped, there isnt anything in th... (read in full...)
I emailed him a song to tell him I fancied him. Now he's put it up publicly! What does this mean?
Q. I sent this guy im intrested in a song online and made it very clear that I'm crushing on him. I was unaware the song would go public (on his page where all his friends can view it)......hes been online and has seen the song and i sent a message ...
A. 31 July 2007: hun im sooo sorry to disappoint but it sounds like this guy is doing it just for a good laugh with his mates...
this doesnt mean he doesnt like you, it just means hes definatly going to act differntly around his friends...do you want that?
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I feel like masturbating is putting emotional distance between my girlfriend and I
Q. When i am not near to my girl, i sometime masturbate fantacizing about her. The more i do it, the more it seems to create emotional distance with her. However, i cannot do away without doing it. What should i do? ...
A. 24 June 2007: Well if she is the type of girl who is willing to try things try rebuilding the emotional bridge between you, try phone sex or somthing...
If she isnt you could just try waiting for her and enjoying your time together
hope it helped
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I feel like masturbating is putting emotional distance between my girlfriend and I
Q. When i am not near to my girl, i sometime masturbate fantacizing about her. The more i do it, the more it seems to create emotional distance with her. However, i cannot do away without doing it. What should i do? ...
A. 24 June 2007: Well if she is the type of girl who is willing to try things try rebuilding the emotional bridge between you, try phone sex or somthing...
If she isnt you could just try waiting for her and enjoying your time together
hope it helped
xxx... (read in full...)
I try to make him so happy but one minute we get on so well then other days it feels like he don't want to be in the same room with me. What's happening?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend 4 month and it just seems i can't do anything right. I'm 21 been in a 5 yr relationship a while ago and have a 2yr old. My partner is hard work, one minute we get on so well then other days it feels like he don't wa...
A. 7 June 2007: he is looking for your attention, and from what i see he is getting it. His goal is to get you to think abotu him constantly and as much as possible.
I suggest you confront him about this, tell him it pisses you off and if he cares for you in t... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want to be with my husband any more, we're both moving in different directions.
Q. im a lil frustraded and i need help.ok me and my husband have been together since i was 16{now im 20} and hes the only man that ive ever trusted, hes my high school sweet heart my first and only love. We split up for about a year cause he joined ...
A. 29 May 2007: Well i may just sound like a stupid little girl but i think you sound like the type of person to wants to make everyone else happy but have you ever sat down and thought about what you acctually want? on the other hand because you have been put in... (read in full...)
What is she really saying? Do I just walk way and let it go?
Q. Hi, Okay, help please. I just broke up w/ my gf of 5 years. She and I had a talk the other night, and she told me she still loves me, but because of earlier times, she doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated, but when we met, i was with someone els...
A. 29 May 2007: if you love her nearly as much as you say you do you will do anything to make her happy!
You obviously hurt her by being with this other woman so its clear she cares for you and if she is the one who is at risk of being hurt. You need to trust sh... (read in full...)
Am I being emotionally abused?
Q. Is this emotional abuse?? hey, im 16 and in a relaionship with a 25 year old guy. but thats not the problem. We've had our fair share of problems, especially with other people trying to get in the way. A lot of his friends don't think I'm ...
A. 8 May 2007: if he cared about you at all he would do anything to make you happy, thats what love is. He obviously isnt making you happy at all so it makes me come to the conclution that he doesnt acctually love you but is more in love with the relationship, ... (read in full...)
We kissed, and now she feels we cannot be friends anymore. Do I ask her out or let her go?
Q. i used to go out with girl about 6 years ago and were pretty close, then we spilt up and went our different ways i got married and had a child, then about 2 months ago my wife and me spilt up i was devasted at first. then about 4 weeks ago i bumped...
A. 8 May 2007: what you need to ask yourself is, is this girl, your ex, saying she doesnt want to be friends with you because she really doesnt want to see you anymore or because she wants you to fight for her....maybe this is fate, or maybe you posted this ... (read in full...)
Do I miss her because I'm alone, or do I miss her because I love her?
Q. 2 years ago I moved overseas with my girlfriend of 3 years. Everything went wrong almost straight away - mainly because she couldn't find work and I went away all the time with my job. She became depressed and took all her anxieties out on me which ...
A. 8 May 2007: wow this is a tricky one, first you need to find out what you want from the relationship, a dedicated long relationship or just a bit of fun. Once you know that you just need to think who would be best for you.
You need to take a while away fro... (read in full...)
My GF was hurt in a past relationship so won't have sex with me! How do I convince her I'm not 'that guy' ?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been going out for over 7 months now. We have done a lot of things but never actually had sex. I am still a virgin, but she had sex once a couple years ago. She says the guy used her and really hurt her and she doesn't ...
A. 8 May 2007: i agree with everyone else, i think a way to proove to her that you really do love her and ou dont want sex is to sleep with her, but dont have sex....make her feel comfortable, let her come around on her own time and dont push her.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years and smart, does nobody like me?
Q. I am 13 years old and am one of the smartest girls in my classes. To most guys I'm just a nerd but random people come up to me sometimes to tell me I'm pretty, but this doesn't happen at school. Am I a threat to them, Are the guys that like me ...
A. 8 May 2007: the thing about guys is they often go for the "easy" girls because they know they are less likly to be told no. One day you will find a guy who acctually has the guts to take a chance and ask you out, i can 100% garentee that there is a wonderful ... (read in full...)
How do I break the ice with my girlfriend's father?
Q. Hey everyone! Has anyone got any good advice for getting around the quiet dad of my girlfriend?? When I first met him it was a very formal handshake, acknowledgment etc. He was very quiet, didn't make eye contact once as far as I noticed. I'm ...
A. 8 May 2007: meeting the perents isnt only very stressful for the person meeting them but for the perents too, i think he he is just having a hard time accepting his baby girl is growing up, try to find some common ground like music or sports.
but then aga... (read in full...)
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