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writes: i have been with my boyfriend 4 month and it just seems i can't do anything right.I'm 21 been in a 5 yr relationship a while ago and have a 2yr old. My partner is hard work, one minute we get on so well then other days it feels like he don't want to be in the same room.when he is getting what he wants he is ok but then when i say no to something he goes cold and off with me and is so snappy it just wears me down.Where am i going wrong and why is he like this with me i try so hard to make him happy and love him too much to say but i'm tierd of trying when i take it easy and let it just happen it doesn't make a difference Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 June 2007):
He sounds like s spoiled brat, I'll bet your 2 yr old behaves better. Sit down with him and calmly discuss why his selfishness is harming your relationship. If he doesn't see it then you will have to decide whether putting up with his demands will be worth it because he won't be changing. It sounds exhausting to me.
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reader, mona-lisa-cries +, writes (7 June 2007):
he is looking for your attention, and from what i see he is getting it. His goal is to get you to think abotu him constantly and as much as possible.
I suggest you confront him about this, tell him it pisses you off and if he cares for you in the slightest he will say sorry and change if he doesnt, you ca do better...much better
hope i helped
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