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I feel like masturbating is putting emotional distance between my girlfriend and I

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Question - (24 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

When i am not near to my girl, i sometime masturbate fantacizing about her. The more i do it, the more it seems to create emotional distance with her. However, i cannot do away without doing it. What should i do?

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A female reader, mona-lisa-cries United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2007):

mona-lisa-cries agony auntWell if she is the type of girl who is willing to try things try rebuilding the emotional bridge between you, try phone sex or somthing...

If she isnt you could just try waiting for her and enjoying your time together

hope it helped

xxx

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A female reader, mona-lisa-cries United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2007):

mona-lisa-cries agony auntWell if she is the type of girl who is willing to try things try rebuilding the emotional bridge between you, try phone sex or somthing...

If she isnt you could just try waiting for her and enjoying your time together

hope it helped

xxx

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A male reader, leonard j.Douglas Philippines +, writes (24 June 2007):

Gee! Wish, That you would of gone a little more into the details, about why you feel that the big "M" is putting emotional distance between you and your gf. Masturbation is normal, good for both gender and health. the only time that it is a problem is when it becomes the sole sorce of our sexuality, to the exclusion of our partner If she is a normal, healthy woman, She is also into Masturbation. And if you are taking care of her Physical and emotional needs don't worry about the big "M". It would be nice for the two of you to teach each other how each of you would like to be genital pleasured, and even engage in mutural masturbation at the sametime. But if she isn't complaining, don't worry. Ok.

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