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Is it okay to confess to this girl that I like her? We're a little close but not that much.

Q.   Hello. I need help. Anyway, I'm a tomboyish girl but many doubt my preferences. Some of them thinks I'm a normal girl while others think I'm a lesbian or bi. In truth, I'm into both but 70% of my attraction are into girls. Anyway, I still don't know ...

A.   18 October 2008: i think you should get to kno her a little more. like find out ifs shes bi or not. because if you tell her you like her and she doesnt like girls you might scare her away from being friends with you.... (read in full...)

Is "Dry Sex" okay? I don't want to get pregnant!

Q.   Im 12 years Old and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and we want sex i dont want to get pregnant so if we did have sex we would have dry sex would that be ok ??...

A.   19 March 2008: no it doesnt matter wht kinda sex it is you can still get pregnant. the only way to be sure youre not going to get pregnant is to use a CONDOM.you really shouldnt be having sex n e ways because you are only 12... (read in full...)

Are you born with STD's? My boyfriend and I just started having unprotected sex...

Q.   Are you born with STDs, or do you have to catch them to have one? It's just, me and my boyfriend are each other's firsts, and we've only been with each other. So I'm just checking, you can't be born with them can you? By the way, we don't have un...

A.   19 March 2008: yes you can be born with an std if one of your parents has one.do you pay attention in school very much.sorry to be so harsh.... (read in full...)

I feel neglected, unwanted, heartboken and emotionally abused

Q.   Hi, I am currently in a relation for 4 years living with my bf. I truely love him and he says he does to but lately he hasn't been showing that love, we argue and fight all the time, he treats me like sh-- and after a few days acts like everyt...

A.   1 February 2008: maybe you could spend a few days away from him or tell him that you need a break an move out an try to date other people to see if you really do truely love him. if he treats you like he really doesnt deserve you at all you can do better.because ... (read in full...)

Never knew there was a problem

Q.   Im so Confused! Nearly 2 years ago my ex of 8 years walked out on me and our son of then aged 5 with no warning. (My world just feel apart) We never argued and I thought we was really happy-even trying for our 2nd child. I just dont know what went...

A.   28 January 2008: i think you need to talk to him about it because if you do it will be easier to move on because then you will have closure.just be nice to him but dont talk to him as a friend anymore because as long as you talk to him as a friend you will still be ... (read in full...)

My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcohole and sex. How can I help him?

Q.   My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcahole, and sex. I;m verry worried about him. I love him like a brother and he used to be a good kid. I want to interfere but I don't know how to without ruining our freindship. Please someone help ...

A.   28 January 2008: i agree with laura but if he doesnt agree with you then dont try to push it on him because then he might not want to talk to you anymore.you can all talk to a counslor about it but ask to remain anonymous.the couselor could try an get him some ... (read in full...)

Boy troubled, sex involved...:(

Q.   I was going out with this boy for about a year... it was great but ended we never did get that close, sexually wise, only a bit of foreplay.. Since weve broken up ( about a year later ) we cant keep our hands of eachother.. We know theres somethin...

A.   28 January 2008: i think you should leave him alone because he has a girlfriend an how do you think you would feel if you were in her position. if he loved you he would break up with his girlfriend so you could be together but he is just using you for sex beca... (read in full...)

I am falling out of love with my bf and want to break-up but he says if we do he will hurt himself. Please help, I feel trapped.

Q.   I'm 14 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months 2 day. I really do love him but i'm not sure if we should stay together. he's really great but i feel like i'm falling out of love with him. He says he loves me but h...

A.   28 January 2008: Thank you misskin for your help i found it really helpful.me and him are still together. our reaationship has grown even more. an yea i think i was really confused but we had a talk an i told him that he cant keep saying that he will cut hisself. ... (read in full...)

We want sex but can't. What should we do?

Q.   This isn't funny. It's true. I'm experienced, she's a virgin. We have 5 years between us and in our twenties.2 years together. I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off. I want to have sex with her...

A.   12 January 2008: It only hurts because its her first time but i know this might sound nasty but all women have a vaginal wall but if it breaks i dont think she will bleed but im not completely sure. The wall does eventually grow back but after like mabey 10 15 ... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity?

Q.   i am 14 along with my boyfriend of 4 weeks. My boyfriend is not a virgin and lost it with a girlfriend of 5 months. i know that he had it very young and i have told him that i dont really mind. (he was worried that i would) i am still a virgin and i ...

A.   12 January 2008: i think your boyfriend sounds very nice because he isn't pressuring you into anything. but i don't think you should lose your virginity with him. you guys have only been together for a month so i think it would be better to wait.... (read in full...)

Why do girls mess with me?

Q.   Alright, so I'm wondering what to do about this. I have been sort of going with a girl lately, we arn't dating, but we like each other alot, we talk all the time, we hook up on weekends, we act like we're dating. I was going to ask her out, bu...

A.   12 January 2008: You need to forget about her and move one. Her flirting with other guys infront of you is just childish an she is probably just trying to get you jealous. You should do the samething but dont be mean. You should flirt with other girls and stuff or... (read in full...)

Should I be offended???

Q.   i was talking to my friend about this boy who i meet who she knows and she said that he will say i am ugly should i be offended by what she said too me?...

A.   11 January 2008: shes not your real friend if she would say that to you. it sounds like she likes him too. so no you should not be offended. if i were you i wouldnt be friends with her anymore. she sounds like a total bitch to me... (read in full...)

Will any boy ever like me, as I am overweight? Also, can you suggest ways to lose weight?

Q.   im 15 and im heavely overweight and i no i am the docters have told me as well im trying 2 lose weight atm but i still im very annoyed cos ive never had a bf and never evern kissed some1 im 16 in aug and it feels really stupid that at nearly 16...

A.   11 January 2008: being overweight is not the reason why you havent kissed a guy. and sorry if this makes you feel bad by me telling you how much i weigh. but i weigh 106 and i have never kissed a guy and i have only had one boyfriend.and if a boy doesnt want to take ... (read in full...)

Seriously depressed, should I run away, what do I do?

Q.   I seriously am depressed and I hate my life. This has gone on too long. I have no friends and I think everyone hates me in my grade. I'm only 13 years old and I think I should run away. Should I runaway?...

A.   11 January 2008: dont run away because running from your problems wont get you anywhere. everyone in your grade probable doesnt hate you. you should jus try to talk to people.i kno it will be hard but if you never try then things will never change... (read in full...)

I like my boyfriend, but my ex is on the scene again, confusing me

Q.   I am going out with someone who seems really into me, he calls me all the time and always wants to be with me. But recently my ex-boyfriend has started calling me and texting me, also i like another lad but i like him more than i like my boyfriend i ...

A.   11 January 2008: i dont think you should go back out woth him because you guys already broke up because it wasnt workin out and if you're happy with your current boyfriend you should stay with him.but if you are going to keep talking to your ex then it seems like... (read in full...)

I always "freeze" when having to take the conclusive steps to end my marriage, because of the abuses. What to do about the indecisiveness?

Q.   I really need help to make a very big decision - that is to leave my husband. I am 35 - no children. What I guess I am asking is why I have deliberated over it for so long when the evidence that we are not right for each other is so obvious. I ha...

A.   11 January 2008: if you are being emotionally abused and you know you guys shouldnt be together then break it off.i know it will be hard but you need to do it. i know you both love each other very much but this is something you need to do... (read in full...)

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