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writes:This isn't funny. It's true.I'm experienced, she's a virgin.We have 5 years between us and in our twenties.2 years together.I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off.I want to have sex with her. She wants to have sex with me but it became a bit of a 'comedy clip' from a movie.What do I do?Every time I try It hurts her so I stop.She's practiced with fingers and I can make her wet.I don't want to hurt her Reply to this Question
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reader, mizzbrannon +, writes (12 January 2008):
It only hurts because its her first time but i know this might sound nasty but all women have a vaginal wall but if it breaks i dont think she will bleed but im not completely sure. The wall does eventually grow back but after like mabey 10 15 minutes it will stop hurting. I give you props for being so considerate and just so you know it probably hurt the first girl you had sex with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): Was she a virgin? I forget what it was called, but a lot of women have a lining inside the vagina that hurts during sex, but once broken, is fine. This is fine im sure. It hurts when it breaks though, and you find some blood. You may need to see a doctor to speed the process along.
Having said that, it may just be a case of lubrication as Minelisse suggested.
Good Luck
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 Ok... so there might be a couple of things to consider:
1. Go to a special adult store, if possible, with her. You can find: lubricants, small vibrators, small plastic penis and creams that will somewhat numb the area (usually used for anal sex).
2. Talk about what she likes and how she likes it and try to please her. Never attempt to penetrate her without her being wet. Also, use a small penis or your fingers (really clean) with lubricant to open her vagina. Short frequent penetrations should help her to open up and excite her.
3. If none of this work, she might need to see a gynecologist to see if there is something physiological to consider.
Good luck!
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