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I want to try cunnilingus but my wife isn't interested. Any ideas on how I can bring her around?
Q. Hi, I want to try cunnilingus but my wife thinks its 'dirty'. The problem is it really turns me on. What do I do?...
A. 25 January 2010: Hi Your wife probably feels insecure, I must admit the thought of it doesn't exactly get me excited but if it's something you truly want to try then speak to her. Wait until you are both in an intimate moment, remind her how beautiful she is... (read in full...)
Should I do this to save my marriage? Or is it blackmail and should I call a lawyer?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 16 years this March. During the second year of our marriage, his business tanked and he needed money fast. A friend of ours, Jeff, generously offered a full no-interest loan that allowed my husband to save ...
A. 25 January 2010: Totally agree with Gina, do not allow this woman to blackmail you! Firstly I would advise you to tell your husband yourself. Explain why you did it and you can work through it together, this woman will then never have any hold over you. Obviously if ... (read in full...)
It was different for me than the horror stories...Is that ok, or is there something wrong?
Q. I just had sex for the first time last night with my boyfriend. It was great everything was perfect, I must admit I was really nervous and scared but once it happened I calmed down.from what I've heard I always believed that when you have sex for ...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
You have nothing to worry about, the experience is different for everyone, just enjoy it!... (read in full...)
Is there a problem with the age difference?
Q. hey people. ah i'm really young like 13 turning 14 and i'm dating a 18 year old. is there a problem?...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
This all depends on how advanced the relationship is, obviously you are too young to be having sex but if the relationship is purely non physical (at least until you are old enough) then I don't see a problem, after all just think when you are ... (read in full...)
When is a marriage just not worth trying for anymore?
Q. Do you think ,is it foolish to stay in a marriage ,which does not make you happy sexually and emotionally,or it is not ,because marriage is more important than some happy sex and feelings? I mean ive been in therapy to try to and save my marriage, ...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
What you have to remember is a marriage needs two people invested to make it work. It seems you have done all you can to try to make your marriage work and now it's his turn to prove he deserves a loving wife like you. His actions are making y... (read in full...)
My friends say he's not for me....any advise, please?
Q. I really like this guy i don't know what to do he is a bit on the large size and all my friends say he is not my type, any advise would be great, please?...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
Firstly if you like the guy go for it, if your friends are truly your friends they will accept and support the choices you make. Don't let someone slip through your fingers because of a few opinions from narrow minded people. I for one have nev... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I wont do it right..
Q. im 15 and im going out with this girl one year older than me we like each other a lot but im afraid, because weve been to the point of almost have sex twice, this would be my first time and im so happy that it would be with her coz i feel a lot for ...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
If both of you are emotionally ready to go to the next level then talk about your fears. If you care about her and she cares about you (which it sounds like you do!) then doing this together will be easy, being together and enjoying the expe... (read in full...)
Is he interested or naive?
Q. In a few weeks im supposed to interview one of my old middle school teachers about an event that is going on in spring. Just to let you know, I’ve liked this guy for like 6 years and we have a really good relationship as teacher and student. ...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
After reading this it seems to me that it's a case of an older man flattered by a younger persons interest. Lets face it if a married man stuck in a rut with 2 kids (who already knows you like him) gets flirty with a younger girl hes bound to... (read in full...)
He's not mine so how do I stop loving him?
Q. I know Im young but hear me out.... Im 18 ....I found this guy whom Im sure I love, Every time I see him I get butterflies in my stomach, sometimes I get palpitations in my chest.I always think about him.....I see him in my dreams... somet...
A. 24 January 2010: This is simple, you will never stop loving someone if it is true love, this statement is harsh but true! I had a similar experience at your age, one of my best friends was my "crush" for over 3 years. I had to see him every day, go to school with ... (read in full...)
Would he be happier on his own, without me?
Q. I'm in a weird situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years 4 months. We've had our ups and downs, like any couple, and he's a really sweet guy in most circumstances. We have lived together since February. We moved into a small apartment ...
A. 24 January 2010: This is definitely a sensitive issue, but unfortunately the reality is that without asking him how he feels you will never know. I know that it's scary when you care for someone so much but you need to think positively and tell him that your ... (read in full...)
I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging, is this normal for a guy?
Q. I'm a 21 year old guy and realized that lately I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging a girl. I was wondering if this is normal, because I thought guys usually fantasize about intercourse and girls are more into hugging and touching. ...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
Kissing and hugging is something that a male or female can enjoy. Contrary to popular belief this does not make you strange or any less of a man, the fact that you show such sensitivity will actually improve a relationship with a woman and make... (read in full...)
Is it normal to stay in a relationship if the constant arguing makes you feel awful?
Q. I recently got out of a long term relationship because I was so fed up with how are arguments were destroying me on the inside. The resson I felt like I wanted to get out of this relationship, was because sometimes he would make me feel like shi...
A. 24 January 2010: Hi
It seems as if he knows exactly how to play you. One minute treating you like rubbish and the minute you threaten to leave changing his attitude. You need to take a step back and think about yourself. There are lots of things that may make you... (read in full...)
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