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I think I could be pregnant

Q.   for all the mommies out there, if you can remember your very first signs of pregnancy please reply and tell me if this might just be my time :) *awful belly ache around my belly button (8days past ovulation 1 week into the 2 week wait) *head ach...

A.   13 October 2007: My question is to waterloo sunset, you said you went without realising that you were pregnant for 6 months, how is it possible? Did you not stop your periods? Did you not have any symptoms? I can't understand how people don't realise that they are ... (read in full...)

If you lose all respect for a human being which you are to share your life with, is it even conceivable that you can ever respect the person again?

Q.   Hope someone can give advice. Fairly recently my husband was caught redhanded cheating. I have been struggling understandibly with all the emotions involved when this happens. He has also done all the expected things - begging for forgiveness, ...

A.   25 September 2007: I totally agree with rcn, You need to forgive this guy, if you want the relationship to grow. First ask yourself do u really lobe this guy? You may not possibly forget the incident but forgive him and you will be out of pain, you will release ... (read in full...)

We've been dating for 5 years, has he avoided to tell his parents because he's ashamed of me? We're from different cultures.

Q.   I am a white female who has been dating an asian guy for 5 years since I was 16, we met in college and I love him very much. However he still has not told his parents about me I always ask and he says he will tell them but he still hasnt, and im ...

A.   25 September 2007:  It seems like he loves you but he is very afraid of annoying his family, being an asian, they might want him to date someone with the same culture. Coming from an asian family myself I can understand his pressure but he can not hide you for so ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want me anymore. How can I respond properly to his comments about me?

Q.   Sorry for this silly question, but trying to decide how to respond to my future x, he informs me after 5 years of being together, that he can't totally commit to me because he needs a different body type to keep him turned on, and I lack certain p...

A.   19 September 2007: He sounds awful, after 5 years of being together he tell you all this!!! He is the ugly one and he is the clingy one. Don't know how you put up with him. Just tell him that if he doesn't like you and your personality why did he waste 5 years of h... (read in full...)

I havnt been able to orgasm with my boyfriend through penetration and its become a problem in our relationship. What can I do to make our sex life better?

Q.   I'm a 24 years old. Me and my boyfriend are having sex for 5 months once a week at least. I never had vaginal orgasm before, I can have clitoral orgasm on my own or with partner. When my boyfriend learned I can not reach orgasm by only penetration ...

A.   18 September 2007: First thing first, you need to talk to him and see if he understands you or not.He may be willing to change. He seems lazy and selfish. He should be wanting to give you pleasure...Sexual frustrations leads to other problems so talk to him and tell ... (read in full...)

I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!

Q.   Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...

A.   16 September 2007: There is sex on 3 levels.. First(BODY) when people shag: which is just for the gratification of physical pleasure. People chat, meet and shag without much love involved. Second (MIND) when people make love with someone whom they love. Which is... (read in full...)

I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!

Q.   Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...

A.   15 September 2007: I think you're one hell of a jewel because you don't want to have sex for the sake of it. These days, people sleep around and 'making love' is very rare. I do understand your situation and the emotions you feel. Girls would love to be with a guy ... (read in full...)

He's gone. How can I recover from this?

Q.   A sad old story realy. I have been dating this guy for 2 years. He was just getting over another relationship at the time. We were incredibly attracted to each other and started up a very intense relationship. ,He has a lot of emotional proble...

A.   15 September 2007: Hey I have been in a similar situation and I totally understand how you must be feeling about being the second best. If he has left you for his ex and has gone on a holiday with her, no doubt they are being intimate. But most importantly, he doesn't ... (read in full...)

I aborted the child of a married man I had an affair with... What would you do?

Q.   i had an affair with a married man for one year. i fell pregnant and he said it wasn't the right time for us to be having children but we would when i no longer worked with him and i had my own flat. i had the abortion, reluctantly but then he ...

A.   15 September 2007: You never know how and when you fall in love. He is already committed to someone else, it seems like he hasn't tried to take actions to move on from his failing marriage. You should get rid off this guy as he is only using you as an entertainment at ... (read in full...)

My fantasy is about my partner thinking of another guy! Why? In all honesty, it seems rather twisted to me!

Q.   I am in a monogamous gay relationship with my partner of 10 years. He is 50, I am 44. He works in an environment where all of his co-workers are male and one of them is a 20 year-old straight guy I'll call Jack. Although my partner hasn't admitted ...

A.   14 September 2007: Hey, I dun have much experience on this but having done some psychology,this is how i see your behaviour. In some ways you are slightly jealous of this young skinny 20- year old jack with whom you assume ur partner could be attracted to. On the ... (read in full...)

He didn't add me on facebook b/c it would annoy his ex, and more! Is he over her or what?

Q.   Is my guy over his ex? I have found rude pictures of him n his ex(with whom he broke up 2 yrs back),everytime i ask him about her, he is overprotective n blames me of not trusting him. He avoids my questions and blames me instead.He visit...

A.   14 September 2007: Am ever so strong after reading all the suggestions/ advices. He hasn't called me since and he wont answer my call. I only want to ask about some of my stuff which is with him & tell him its over,but it seems like he's chickening out. May be he's ... (read in full...)

I feel used and hurt - how do I get through this break-up and get proper closure?

Q.   How do i get closure? Im writing because im quite hurt. Ive broken up with my boyfriend of nearly a year. He was very loving, did sooo many lovely things for me, but he could switch and in an argument say some really really hurtful things. ...

A.   14 September 2007: I don't understand why some guys behave in such way. They don't even think their partners are worthy of an explanation or closure. Most men don't like confrontations and they chicken out. I have just had similar situation so i joint this web site to ... (read in full...)

Does everybody find a love as good/better after splitting with "the one?"

Q.   Sorry if it sounds as thought I'm whining here but, I really feel like I'm never going to have the same feelings for anybody ever again. I'm 19, so you might find that ridiculous. I've come out of a relationship.. about 4 months ago, that lasted...

A.   14 September 2007: Hey I totally empathise with you, I have just come out of a relationship from 'the one ' and i am very hurt too. If she loved you as equally as you did, she would wait for you or at least don't let such situations ruin the precious relationship you ... (read in full...)

He didn't add me on facebook b/c it would annoy his ex, and more! Is he over her or what?

Q.   Is my guy over his ex? I have found rude pictures of him n his ex(with whom he broke up 2 yrs back),everytime i ask him about her, he is overprotective n blames me of not trusting him. He avoids my questions and blames me instead.He visit...

A.   14 September 2007: Thank you for giving me ur suggestions and answers. Also to add, day before yesterday i msged his ex on facebook( coz he had told me that she knows about me) wishing her goodluck and best wishes for the re-location and now he is mad with me for ... (read in full...)

I'm bored of having a normal life. I want to move to an impoverished country and no longer be a slave to money!

Q.   hi, dont know if this is the usual thing? im running away from my life, theres nothing wrong with it, i have a job, home, friends and family. but i'm bored of having a normal life. i already know everything thats going to happen, work, morgage, m...

A.   14 September 2007: I totally agree with you, lately i have been feeling exactly similar. But people will only view our opinions as us being lazy.The govt., policies etc and what we have made life to be, makes me angry. Sadly it is very difficult to live as we want in ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?

Q.   It's very hard to see my girlfriend in college while I'm still in high school and I'm feeling extremely lonely. If you love someone, is it ok to mess with other girls when she's in college?...

A.   14 September 2007: Hey you, why don't you put yourself in her place? Would you be liked being messed around?Sure the answer is no! Please don't mess around with people's emotions. Because of you, she will loose her trust in men.... (read in full...)

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