I climax too fast, even in case of a slow intercourse, what can I do to change this?
Q. Hi. Me and my husband have been married for four months. I've always/usually have came faster than him, but I was on Lexapro for a time, and it took me longer times to cum, compared to what it used to take me. Now when we have sex, I cum really f...
A. 26 November 2008: Hmm, I'm not sure I see the problem. Unlike men, we can keep on going even after we climax. It probably turns your man on even more, doesn't it? I think you're just hot for your hubby - congratulations!... (read in full...)
Why in the world won't he have sex with me? It's been a month!
Q. Warning, this is a sexual problem with a little bit of graphic detail, hope it does not offend! I've been seeing this guy for over a month just now, and since we live 30 miles apart, every time we've got together we have also spent the night ...
A. 29 September 2008: I just went through something similiar and maybe I can shed some light. I hope this is not the case with your guy, but I was dating someone for 3 months. We had oral sex but he wanted to wait for anythign more than that. He said he would know in his ... (read in full...)
My guy says he's not falling in love with me.
Q. Ok, I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for as far as "answers" but here goes. After dating a great guy for 3 months 3 days ago he told me he couldn't figure out why, but he wasn't falling in love with me. It's just so confusing because we would ...
A. 6 September 2008: I really appreciate what you have all said. I guess I understand that men like the chase, and you should be so available. The thing that is difficult for me, is that he called me all the time. He initiated plans all the time. I didn't feel like I ... (read in full...)
Shall I go round with some flowers and talk or what?
Q. Ok i'm gunna cut a long story short. Me and my gf have been together for over 3 years, i thought everything was going fine, i took her to orlando, florida in april and suprised her with swimming with dolphins which was her life dream, we have spoken ...
A. 6 September 2008: You said you now know what it is that is making her so tired, does she have an illness? Is she pregnant? That is a key to this. I am so sad that she is not being straight forward with you - as you surely deserve it. There is something going on and ... (read in full...)
My fears are that he is not wanting our relationship to reach that level of intimacy. Or, that there is an issue he has with sex. It's unclear to me why we are waiting. Thus?
Q. I've been dating someone for almost 3 months. We are both in our early thirties. Things are going very well. We have a lot of laughter together and can honestly say we have built a wonderful friendship. There is definitely mutual physical ...
A. 4 September 2008: Ok, a week ago I asked him to clarify why he wanted to wait and he told me essentially that it was important for him to wait until he knew in his gut he was in it for the long haul. Tonight he broke up with me, telling me he thinks the world of me ... (read in full...)
We have trouble communicating, help!
Q. In met this guy who I fell in love with or at least I think I did. There was a communication barrier there but I think it's because we were both so shy and nervous of each other because we liked each other so much.He is a devoted dad to his child ...
A. 27 August 2008: It sounds like he is maybe involved with someone else and picking up things with you when things don't work out. Then, bailing when something comes along. Or, has major intimacy/getting close issues. Either way, I would save yourself the agony. Let ... (read in full...)
How do women discover how to integrate a certain way of communicating into a man's thinking and behavior? How I can open up and express how I feel AND get positive results?
Q. I've been with this guy for almost 2 years. We never had "the talk" about where we stand in our relationship. I'm confuse and slightly unhappy. So, I'm trying to open up and express how I'm feeling about our relationship. I did some reading about ...
A. 27 August 2008: Sweetie, 2 years and you're not exclusive or having sex? Who the heck could blame you for being unhappy?! That is not a relationship. I know you don't want to hear this but you really need to think about walking away from this. Living at his mom's ... (read in full...)
How do women discover how to integrate a certain way of communicating into a man's thinking and behavior? How I can open up and express how I feel AND get positive results?
Q. I've been with this guy for almost 2 years. We never had "the talk" about where we stand in our relationship. I'm confuse and slightly unhappy. So, I'm trying to open up and express how I'm feeling about our relationship. I did some reading about ...
A. 27 August 2008: I agree that you shouldn't have to worry about freaking him out or scaring him away after 2 years! Maybe 2 months, but 2 years is a perfectly reasonable time to know where you two stand. Just in a relaxing way tell him how happy he makes you (or ... (read in full...)
My partner's way of kissing could suffer improvement, how to tell him without hurting him?
Q. Hi My problem is that my partner like licking my lips when he kisses me. I like the tongue action to be inside my mouth and I dont like this slobbering. I end up with a wet mouth and chapped lips! Everything else is great. He obviously thinks t...
A. 27 August 2008: I've had this! Ugh! Ok, every time he starts licking your lips pull back and kiss him the way you like to be kissed. Or, when he's kissing you for a moment in a non slobbery appropriate way, say something like "I love when you kiss me like that." He ... (read in full...)
I constantly chase her and am the only one with initiatives, which makes me feel unwanted, unprioritised. How should I handle this?
Q. I am in a relationship with a girl i care very much about. I believe she cares about me as she has told me but she is totally oblivious to making any effort in the relationship where it really counts and believes that just by turning up at the ...
A. 27 August 2008: How long have you been dating? That's important because if it's at the very beginning she may still be warming up, trying to figure things out and how she feels. If it's been a while, and her behavior has recently changed, I think you have a bigger ... (read in full...)
I was tired of waiting for commitment so we "took a break". Could there be a "happily ever after" in all this?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 8 months now and throughout, he says he wasn't ready for a relationship. I'm kind of tired of waiting so recently we decided to 'take a break' in order for him to figure what he wants. We established that we wont ...
A. 24 August 2008: So what is his meaning of a relationship? If you're spending time with someone monogomously for 8 months aren't you in a relationship? Sounds like he got freaked out by how serious things were getting. This is incredibly, ridiculously hard, but the ... (read in full...)
I can't have an orgasm after I found my husband looking at porn sites! I'm also pregnant...
Q. In the past my husband has had no problem making me achieve multiple orgasms. last month I found porn sites on his computer and I am four months pregnant. I cant seem to have an orgasm since, I even had to fake it for the first time in our ...
A. 24 August 2008: I do know that when you are pregnant your hormones will make everything seem colossal and you become extra sensitive. Did you look at porn before you were pregnant...are you sure? Most men due. Even men who are dating hot, supermodels look at porn ... (read in full...)
We were very serious, broke up, and now we're back together, can it work moving slowly?
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for 9 months, we split up at Christmas 2007. We had lived together for 6 of the 9 months we were together, and that was the first time either of us had lived away from home, or with anyone else other than family. W...
A. 22 August 2008: I think he loves you, otherwise he wouldn't of given it another go. But, I think he's extremely scared and nervous things are going to go south again so he's trying to protect himself. I know it's incredibly hard, but just give him some time and a ... (read in full...)
What should I do this year to get my ex back?
Q. BASICALLY; I want my ex back. It wasn't even serious when we went out because we were young and immature and relationships meant nothing. But yeah, now i have a boyfriend and it's all good I guess but this year I'm changing (for my self confidence) ...
A. 22 August 2008: You should break up with the current boy because it sounds as if you don't care for him very much at all. Even if he's the nicest guy in the world, you're clearly over it and need to end things with him. It's really unfair to drag someone along just ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether I had sex or not
Q. hey everyone i really need some help... im not sure whether i actually had sex or not... i know that this seems weird but im really not sure, ive been with my partner for a year and a half now yet i always vowed that i was gonna stay a virgin till ...
A. 22 August 2008: Okay, first of all relax. I admire your convictions but I imagine this is the man you are going to probably be spending the rest of your life with right? I have a few thoughts. If you want to get technical, I think you're a virgin if your hymen ... (read in full...)
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