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My partner's way of kissing could suffer improvement, how to tell him without hurting him?

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Question - (27 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2008)
A female South Africa age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi

My problem is that my partner like licking my lips when he kisses me.

I like the tongue action to be inside my mouth and I dont like this slobbering.

I end up with a wet mouth and chapped lips!

Everything else is great.

He obviously thinks that what he is doing is what i like, but i dont!

How do I tell him?

I really dont want to hurt him, he is a sweetie! But this can do with improving.

Please help...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008):

I would start by complimenting the good aspects of his kissing, tell him the things he does best.. then when he starts the licking say you don't like that part so much.

Personally I am terribly blunt with my boyfriend and he doesn't mind but I guess it depends how your guy will take it.

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A female reader, miso31 United States +, writes (27 August 2008):

I've had this! Ugh! Ok, every time he starts licking your lips pull back and kiss him the way you like to be kissed. Or, when he's kissing you for a moment in a non slobbery appropriate way, say something like "I love when you kiss me like that." He will get it. Obviously he wants to please you so he'll get with the program!

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