What should I think or do about his Erectile dysfunction?
Q. I'm really at the end of my rope. My husband is just off sex. It is very painful. He once lost it in middle of intercourse,and than since he is limp.. And he WENT TO DOCTORS, but they can't find anything wrong with him... We are in this situati...
A. 12 May 2009: Imagine how difficult it is for him? Assure him that you love him "no matter what" this is important. His confidence must be really hurt which just adds to the problem or imagined problem. He could be suffering from depression...is you ... (read in full...)
Keep it casual or a long term thing
Q. I'm in a casual dating relationship with a guy. He recently asked me if I wanted to "keep it casual or make it a long term thing". If he asked that, does it mean he wants more or is he just curious to know what I think?...
A. 12 May 2009: Could be a sincere question. Would you be interested in marrying if things worked out between you? Assume the best. Well, ask him exactly what he means....
Just a suggestion.
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Can my marriage be saved or am I kidding myself?
Q. I have a few questions i would like your views on please,I have been searching for a year now and really need your advice to help me make up my mind once and for all. 1st can a man who has cheated more than once really change? 2nd He had a fl...
A. 12 May 2009: So sorry you're going thru this. I think you know the answer and want someone to confirm.
I don't think he wants to change. Obviously, he feels safe just "having his Kate and Edith too."
According to the Bible, you can divorce him and ... (read in full...)
Please help - am I losing my mind?
Q. Hi, I am a 37 year old married woman with a good job and an outgoing personality. I enjoy being with people but get so anxious and nervous about going out and meeting them, that I whip myself into a nervous frenzy and usually try to cancel things a...
A. 12 May 2009: The Therapist is a good idea. You are suffering from some pretty bad anxiety. It is common. The stresses of life are too much on you and your world is caving in on you. Don't have a child if you really aren't ready. Get the help. You'll feel ... (read in full...)
Broken-hearted 15 year old daughter who lost her virginity to a guy she "loved"
Q. I am the mother of a 15 year old daughter (soon to be 16). Her boyfriend broke up with her suddenly after going out for 6 months. He claimed he "loved her" even up until the night before her broke up with her. His reason for ending the ...
A. 12 May 2009: Take her to a professional counsellor. As adults you and your husband know about the hormones in teenagers. Girls feel loved by some slick talking guy, he gets his way and moves on only to use the same sly talk on another poor trusting girl.
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I feel down...
Q. Hi, I have been dating a girl for 3 months up to february and she asked to seperate for a while. We have met a few times as friends, but I have just found that she has found someone else and I feel really upset. I don't know what to do to make me...
A. 12 May 2009: Call her briefly and wish her the best with her dating. Tell her how much you have enjoyed her company and that if she ever needs to talk to anyone about any problems you will be there. Don't sound sad, don't beg. Just be strong and secure and ... (read in full...)
Question about race and dating.....
Q. Hello there. I am hoping my question does not come off as offensive or racist at all. It's just that I have been dating my boyfriend almost a year now; he is caucasian (blonde hair, blue eyes) while I am asian. This has always made me a bit self ...
A. 12 May 2009: It depends on how they were raised. No offense, but I think in the long run each race should stick to their own race when it come to relationship and marriage. I know Hollywood is pushing the other way very hard because they think this will end ... (read in full...)
Would this be considered rape?
Q. Hi everyone, ok I feel kind of stupid asking this. Ok last week I ended things with my BF of 2 1/2 years. He had become verbally abusive, but always saying the comments were "just joking and you know I don't really mean that". It took me about 6m...
A. 12 May 2009: Wow! Listen here, a guy has a responsibility to a lady to respect her wishes. You already said you broke it off with him. You said you didn't want to be like some lady of the night. You said no over and over, just because you ended up kind of ... (read in full...)
Best place to lose your virginity?
Q. I'm ready, and I'm gonna lose it. The question is where? Ideas anyone? The beach? The woods? Not some sleazy hotel room or my bed. This is the first time you'll always remember. I want to make it memorable in so many different ways, and...
A. 12 May 2009: Hey, I know you don't want to hear this, but get a grip...don't do this just for the sake of saying you have done it.
Listen carefully, when a guy sleeps with you he will go brag to his friends and lose respect for you. You become an object t... (read in full...)
What can my married lover do for me?
Q. Dear cupid i am in love with a married man not because I wanted that but we were met each other with his reason, he is married and have 3 children but not happy in his marriage they were divorced many times but children was the reason to be together ...
A. 12 May 2009: Run! Run fast! There are plenty of available good men out there. Think with your mind not your emotions. You know it sounds like you are thinking since you did ask the question: what can he do for you?
You answer that. I think you know.
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Can a man just forget the person he dated for 3 years after a bad breakup?
Q. My days are less painful after my devestating breakup with my boyfriend a month ago. Although we had difficult times and great ones. After 3 years with him, I think about him everyday, do men think of the person they brok e up? We knew what we ...
A. 12 May 2009: Did you guys ever plan to marry? If you love him just let him know how to get in touch with you and that you love him but are not begging him for a relationship. Just let him know you are there and you are now going to leave him alone.
You d... (read in full...)
I havent seen him in 12 years but I still have feelings for him
Q. Hi. I got together with a wonderful man 12 years ago. It didnt last long,maybe 2 months but it was blissfull. Sadly though I listened to my well meaning friends and left him. He had a bad track record with women and had been to prison for driving ...
A. 12 May 2009: Go get some counselling. You deserve better than that man. Listen to your friends. It took me years, about 15 years to really get over my ex-wife--15 years. She didn't care an ounce about me. What a waste of time thinking about her! There are ... (read in full...)
He's in jail and wants phone sex
Q. my boyfriend is in jail and is asking me to have phone sex with him. i never had sex with him as i was only with him for 2 weeks before he went to jail and wanted to take things slow. he has a moblie phone (cell phone) in jail which he bought ...
A. 12 May 2009: Tell him you do not want to have a future with a "jailbird." Dump him and get rid of his phone numbers, addresses, and have the police keep him away from you if necessary. Go to church and find a decent guy. These animals still exist out there I ... (read in full...)
He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.
Q. My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...
A. 12 May 2009: Wow, that's a big difference in age. But love knows no age differences, I suppose. I do think maturity is an issue here. I lost my wife not long ago. It is the most devastating experience I've ever had, especially the first month. In the long ... (read in full...)
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