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How do I deal with retroactive jealousy?
Q. Hi there, this will be long but I'm in need of help and would appreciate the time and any advice you can offer. I'm 27 living in Los Angeles Cali, working at a video game company. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy since my ve...
A. 11 November 2013: Hi there and thanks for the answers! I sincerely appreciate it! First things: Clark got his first gf, Nic (4 years, the one who cheated on him) hired at our current company. They met before working where we do... so he didn't meet her in the w... (read in full...)
I pushed her to open up to me, so she dumped me; her friend says she likes me but finds it hard to be close to someone because of her past. Any ideas?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship for 6 months,i admit i went much to fast i really fell for her,we are both middle aged and early on Ann told me she issues with feelings and expressing herself,her mother gave her away when she was 12 and her ...
A. 4 January 2008: I'm so sorry. You must have felt so confused! The best thing to do in a situation like this is to be honest with yourself and her. If you want to be with her, then you must respect her boundaries, and have faith that she will tell you about her ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to say we are in love?
Q. Hi There, My girlfrind and I are going out now for 5months and we are really inlove with each other and we are sleeping together, tell me did we move too fast and is it too soon for us to be inlove... coz i know deeply in my heart that I am inlove ...
A. 4 January 2008: Wow, sounds like you've got an intense relationship! There is a lot of passion and commitment, so early. That said, of course it isn't too early to say you two are in love, or even that you argue too much or that it isn't normal that you have ... (read in full...)
I am ready to commit to someone. How will I find the right girl?
Q. Dear Cupid My situation is probably fairly commonplace. I was with a girl from Spain for nearly 4 years. We met in boston, at the New England conservatory of Music (we're both musicians). About a year and a half ago we broke up. The c...
A. 4 January 2008: One of the hardest parts about seeking love is you have words like "soul mate" and "destiny" floating around. What do these words truly mean? You find someone you are compatible with within a 5 mile radius and she is your soul mate? Yeah...thanks ... (read in full...)
Should I fight for her or let her go?
Q. I was with my girlfriend for almost two years and it was a long distants relationship. She was always kind of insecure and I never knew why...I never really gave her a reason to be. We had always planned to get married and settle down eventually...a ...
A. 4 January 2008: So it sounds more like your leaning toward letting her go. Maybe thats for the best, but you still need closure. Perhaps talking to her on the phone and again, explain everything. At least then, there won't really be any loose ends...... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be afraid of smelling 'down there'?
Q. this is a really embarassing question...but i am a virgin and have not gone that far with a guy. i'm starting to talk to a guy that i really like and lately we have gotten closer. i know eventually we will fool around or have sex, but i'm nervous. i ...
A. 3 January 2008: Yes, its perfectly normal for you to worry, but is it worthwhile? I don't think so. No matter what your body naturally emits an odor from your genital region and during intercourse, these smells only increase with the release and exchange of certain ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lives at campus and has nine males as roommates, I don't know what to think and do?
Q. I have been dating this girl for about two and a half years now. It has been a great relationship for the most part. We have helped each other through hard times in both our lives. However, there is five and a half year age difference between us. ...
A. 3 January 2008: To answer your questions:
No you are not being insecure in the first place for asking
her to have female roommates. You are asking for respect, for you as her boyfriend and for your relationship. You are right, although you have trust and lo... (read in full...)
He's torn between us - what if he's really changed?
Q. Dear Cupid...I don't know what to do. I've been seeing this man for about 6 months. He pursued me for almost 2 1/2 years and I finally gave in. I have fallen in love with him and he tells me he loves me. He was divorced about 3 years ago. He ...
A. 3 January 2008: Wow, I completely sympathize with you. What a horrible situation it is and I can't imagine the pain you must feel. It seems to me that the ball is in his court, so to speak. Its his decision. He loves you and he loves her and someone is going to get ... (read in full...)
Should I fight for her or let her go?
Q. I was with my girlfriend for almost two years and it was a long distants relationship. She was always kind of insecure and I never knew why...I never really gave her a reason to be. We had always planned to get married and settle down eventually...a ...
A. 3 January 2008: Wow, what a mess! First things first. We know how you feel but how does she feel? Does she want nothing to do with you? Because if she does then I don't think there is much you can do but seek closure and move on. If she is willing to talk, I say go ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being jealous of his sexual past?
Q. Ok, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. He wasn't a virgin and I knew it. It was a nice first time, way better than I expected. However, I always grew up with this fantasy of losing it with anoter virgin. I thought it'd make things more spec...
A. 3 January 2008: I completely understand and these thoughts are not irrational by any means. In fact, I used (and somtimes still do) have the same thoughts about my current boyfriend and his past. Although I was not a virgin, and neither was he, when we first had ... (read in full...)
Has anybody fallen out of love with someone, only to fall back in love and stay happy?
Q. Has anyone gotten back together with the one they fell out of love with, and fallen back in love and been happy ever since ?...
A. 20 September 2007: Hello! I have heard of many people getting back together with someone they fell out of love with and been happy. But I believe they were only happy because they never actually fell out of love in the first place. There was still a spark there. ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome jealousy? And why am I such a jealous girlfriend?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. He is great, he has never cheated on me and I'm positive he never will because he has such good morals and high standards with how to treat women. Knowing this I do not understand why I am such a ...
A. 30 August 2007: The fact that you want to overcome it rather than lose him shows that you are already on the right track. You've got a good head on your shoulders and honey, we are all jealous at some point in our lives...I'm dealing with some jealously issues ... (read in full...)
He says I am a nut case...
Q. My partner of 6 years had 2 flings, the second resulting in him wanting me to move out of our home and move her in. He has bought me out of the property but my stuff is still there waiting to be put into storage. I went round our old home tonight...
A. 13 August 2007: You know what? That guy deserves a slap in the face and then some...and if hes not man enough to take it then hes not even a man is he? Your not crazy...I personally would be upset too but I don't know if I would have enough courage to actually give ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to my ex and it's made getting over her that much harder!
Q. Hello everyone, I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for nearly 2 months now, after she ended our relationship. Prior to being with her, I had dated seriously twice, and fooled around with both girls and occasionally other girls whi...
A. 13 August 2007: Hello! I would like to add to the comment made by Flower Girl...shes right. I personally don't know anyone who is still with the person they lost their virginity to. Honestly...alot of people don't even consider their 'first time' special...my first ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel he's boring and that his gaming is making me feel I'm not that important to him anymore.
Q. I am starting to wonder if I am in love with my boyfriend or I am in love with all the sweet things he has done for me when we first started dating. We have been going out for 2 years and we are very serious about each other. For the 2 year ...
A. 10 August 2007: Hello!
You know...its sad to say but in the very beginning of every relationship, it seems like everything you two do together is fireworks. Being with him is like a romanctic movie and you are the stars. But the truth is, things can't always be t... (read in full...)
I think I love my friend; am I taking advantage of our closeness?
Q. Hey okay well iv always been really really close to this guy, he's my best friend ever and i love him to peices. We always mess about together and he is always there for me and will hold my hand and hug me etc. but now i feel i love him more hel...
A. 9 August 2007: Hello again That's great to know you aren't messing around the way I thought...so many girls are taken advantage of that way. But he sounds like a good friend and perhaps your friendship is leading up to a relationship. When it comes down to it... (read in full...)
I think I love my friend; am I taking advantage of our closeness?
Q. Hey okay well iv always been really really close to this guy, he's my best friend ever and i love him to peices. We always mess about together and he is always there for me and will hold my hand and hug me etc. but now i feel i love him more hel...
A. 8 August 2007: Hello
First and formost is your feelings. You feel you are in love with him? Ask yourself why and make sure it's not just because you are lonely and looking for a boyfriend. If you think you love the person he is, then gather lots of courage ... (read in full...)
He says I'm "the one"... How can I believe him when he might have said all this before to another girl?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost six months now. As with every relationship, there comes a time when the exs become a necessary discussion. Its been almost over a year since his previous relationship. Heres what he told me at first: He ...
A. 8 August 2007:
Wow, thank you very much, LauraE. You are absolutely right. I do have many insecurities because I have been wronged in previous relationships...in fact, my first love cheated on me with my best friend, and I went to her crying when he broke up with... (read in full...)
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