The myth of "best friends" of the opposite sex
Q. OK, I know I am going to get a lot of flack for this (assuming anyone read this) but from my experience and observation I believe that a heterosexual man and woman who claim to be "best friends" without any romantic feelings...is a myth. Almost al...
A. 20 February 2011: You are so right. Even those that have been raised together can still have sexual relations. Ones partner is your friend and your loves. Finding friends of the opposite mean she's not good enough for you. It would be better if the friend became both ... (read in full...)
I'm so lost and confused without her, will she ever come back?
Q. I had a fight with my girlfriend because I suspected she was cheating on me with several men and I put her out of the house. Then she called me saying that she loves me very much, wants me back and wishes to marry me. But I traced this phone call a...
A. 19 February 2011: If you really love her go to her let her know how you feel. It sounds like she still loves you. Just be brave and fight for your relationship with her. Just be very careful if she had relations with other men you don't want to end up sick and lose ... (read in full...)
Is my husband just using me to make his life complete?
Q. hi,help me,tell me if am wrong but i think my husband is controlling or he is just using me to make sure his life is complete....recently i attended my best friends wedding and he refused to go with me even for the evening party only to go home ...
A. 17 February 2011: It seems like you know what to do. Marriage is meant to be a life long commitment but if it threatens your well being in any way then it's best you reconsider. When you got married you accepted him for who he is and his family it's only fair he do ... (read in full...)
Is being a 24 virgin male that bad?
Q. I am a 24 yr old virgin male i try to live by the bible standards am nt perfect thats why i say try, some girls find it strange that a handsome guy at my age is still a virgin. Am waiting for marriage my girlfriend is a virgin and we both want to ...
A. 17 February 2011: I respect the fact that you're a virgin at your age. Keep the faith. You've come this far why should you alter your views. If you and your girlfriend are happy then keep up the virginity. There's nothing wrong with it at all.... (read in full...)
195 pictures of porn stars in his phone!
Q. i am very saden with my baby's dad recently i wanted to surprise him to make a picture collage with the pictures that he had in his phone with my little girl and for my surprise he had 195 pictures of naked women specially with porn stars and i ...
A. 17 February 2011: I'm having the same issues with my husband. He has a lower sex drive so always we fight over sex. I've settled for watching porn and masturbate. I think it's better to go the porn route. You need to understand that people have sexual needs and need ... (read in full...)
My husband always has the air conditioning on even though it bothers me and the baby
Q. i know some of guys may think it baby like but i dont have friends and this site helps me. my husband has a very high body temp. if it cold amd you touch him he will be hot. in the car he turns on the air con in the house he turns the fan. the ...
A. 31 January 2011: Thanks guys for your advice. I've been too sick to talk to him waiting till I'm better. He doesn't seem to feel bad that we've been sick, so I don't know if I'm in the right place. ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to hit me.. Is this normal?
Q. For some reason, I have a strong desire to be in an abusive relationship with a guy. I want to be hit, thrown to the ground, or pushed into a wall. I'm not sure if this is normal or not though. My boyfriend seems like the kind of guy who may do ...
A. 29 January 2011: You're gonna die how can you think things like that. I don't think you've ever been hit because you wouldn't want it. How many people do you know who've ended up dead because of such? You being shy to say it means it's wrong. ... (read in full...)
I have no female friends and am lonely. I have turned to masturbation to cope!
Q. Dear cupid, i am a 19yr old guy, pursuing engineering.i have this strange dis-order of social illness.I have very few friends and i want to remain in their zone only, people don't like me because of my this introvert nature. I cannot mark my prese...
A. 28 January 2011: I'm married to a guy like you and i'm not enjoying the marriage at all. If you were to get a female friend your friendship wouldn't last because of the person you're holding on to. There's nothing hard about sparking conversation. The lives we live ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to expect that my husband spend time with me on the few Sunday's that I'm free?
Q. Hi, Im. 25 yrs old and married for 2 yrs and been together for 8 yrs . Im a doctor and have a a very hectic life . My husband has always been the guy who likes his alone time , and " space " . I get about a sunday or two free in a month rest of ...
A. 27 January 2011: Men who believe in space and alone time are difficult to deal with. My husband is like that i feel like i don't know him anymore. We don't laugh or have sex as often as we used to. It hurts to be neglected if talking to him hasn't worked find things ... (read in full...)
I feel like my life is cursed!
Q. Hi!! I am a Pakistani muslim girl. My problem is that my life is in turmoils right now. Nothing seems to go right even with my family members. Everyone has their own problems. It started when i got divorced a year back. It was the first marriage...
A. 8 October 2010: hie there be happy that is the most important thing. what you're going thru i went thru worse. i was made pregnant and the guy married me and went to england then after 6 months he left me. i lived for 2 years in my mothers house with my son you can ... (read in full...)
He hasn't been the same since he was released from prison
Q. hi everyone! I'm not sure if there is anyone out there who can help me. My husband was released from prison almost a year ago. He was in prison for four and a half years. when he went in, we had been married for 8 months, and I was 3 months ...
A. 4 October 2010: the reasons he went to jail are very important because they affect your life.a violent man is something a woman doesn't need you need to go a hospital and get the proper treatment for what you're suffering from and if you want to deny your illness ... (read in full...)
She wants to try again, but I'm not sure
Q. I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. And from that day on we have talked. So about 4 or 5 months that we have been talking I went in saw her. I live in oregon and she lives in boston. So I went in saw her for the frist time and it was great we ...
A. 4 October 2010: it sounds like you love her very much and since she's changed you have to tread cautiously because you don't want to get hurt a second time. You said it was hard for you to find work in her town so this time maybe she can move to your town. Being in ... (read in full...)
Weird behaviour -- is she breaking up with me, or pregnant?
Q. I have been dating this girl for almost a year now. The situation is complicated. She is married, her husband knows it is over. They sleep in seperate rooms just in the same house until her house sells. Neither one of them can afford to the morgage ...
A. 4 October 2010: women are very tricky people. I think she's patching things up with her husband because if she really liked you she'd have moved out of her husbands house to be with you.I'm sure she the weired behaviour didn't start now there has been signs and ... (read in full...)
I broke up with first love but don't know how to move on
Q. I broke up with my long term boyfriend about 6 months ago because i had completely lost myself in the relationship due to his manipulative ways. I knew he wasn't happy in himself and with these insecurities came bad behaviour which i learnt to ...
A. 2 October 2010: it's always hard to walk away from a long term relationship but if you could walk away at first then keep walking. my husband is like that too and i wish i'd been able to walk away. if you aren't brave enough to walk away forever you will spend the ... (read in full...)
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