I can't forget a guy I met online 4 years ago...........
Q. So I met a man online who lives maybe 20-30 minutes from me in 2010. The first time we chatted we chatted for 6 hours. We chatted everyday for 4 months but it was in the 5th month things went sour. I wanted to meet him badly but I had lied to him ...
A. 3 November 2014: Find him again on FB and strike up a convo. If he's dating someone or just not interested, then let it go. You will meet someone else, even if does take years. ... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance? In love with my friend
Q. so my problem is this i have met a guy on a dating site we had one date he said he liked me but hes not ready for a relationship yet so we agreed to be friends (we both came off the dating site) we have met up as friends and its like we have known ...
A. 3 November 2014: I'd start dating again, honestly. If comes Christmas and he's ready for a relationship with you and you're still single, then go from there. No need to put your life on hold for 2 months for a "maybe." Or you could ask him if he meant ready to date ... (read in full...)
Do guys go to bars and clubs only to get laid?
Q. Is it true that guys go to bars and clubs only to get laid? I just talked to a guy, a friend, and he said that the only reason he goes out is to get laid that night. He said, it's the cheapest way to have sex when he wants it and the fastest,...
A. 3 November 2014: This is normal, many guys do this, many easily admit to it. Have you ever been to a club? Clubs are worse than bars, you can easily tell just by how the men treat you that all they care about it sex. I will not go to clubs, they are disgusting ... (read in full...)
I cheated my girlfriend and she found out?
Q. Ok so I've been dating my girlfriend Karen for two years, I'm 24 and she is 23. But about a month ago, I did the worst possible thing I could've done, I cheated on her with her best-friend Eva (not they real names). I knew that Eva had a thing for ...
A. 3 November 2014: You made a terrible mistake, I'd forget both of them and move on. It sucks, yeah, but you made your bed, and neither of them should forgive you. It's not the end of the world, just learn from the mistake and try not to do it again. There are a lot ... (read in full...)
Is my husband bi-polar?
Q. Does my husband have a form of bi-polar? I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have 2 children. We've been through some rough times as my husband is very moody and has a negative and anxious outlook on life. He utters threats to...
A. 3 November 2014: It sounds like he a borderline personality disorder of some sort, not bi-polar(The highs and lows in bi-polar last months). Not being able to handle having a boss isn't normal, as is not being able to control his temper, he should talk to someone ... (read in full...)
Still mourning my ex who passed away due to suicide. How can I move on? And what to do about the crush I have on my tenant?
Q. Lost my boyfriend a year ago through suicide. People are telling i should move on cause we were not married. In my heart i still miss him a lot. Recently ive discovered that im having a crush on my tenant, which is when my late boyfriend died i...
A. 28 October 2014: There is no time limit or time table on how you experience grief. If you are feeling things for someone else, that is great, it means you're healing. Healed? No, probably not, maybe not ever, but to push yourself down and make yourself miss is ... (read in full...)
He's controlling and abusive. What's the best way to handle this situation?
Q. Been with my partner almost five years, we have a four year old son together. For the last two years our relationship has been very rocky. It has been an unhappy relationship for me, since being with him he has stopped me seeing family and frien...
A. 28 October 2014: Oh my goodness, please get out of that relationship.
It's only going to get worse and he has the classic signs of an abuser. No one should EVER tell you what you can and can't do. You can't have a job as a waitress? You can't? Yes, you can. You... (read in full...)
Should I go along to the Doctor with my fiance when she visits the Doctor to talk about contraception?
Q. Hi everyone. I am engaged to get married next year in june. It is about my fiance going to be using birth control. She plans to go see the doctor and get all that figured out. But when would be a good time to go to the doctor and should i go alon...
A. 28 October 2014: They don't even let you back in the room at the one I go to. You'd be waiting in the waiting room, seems pointless. If she's getting married, I certainly think she can handle a doctor appt and getting contraception on her own.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a boyfriend to mock his girlfriend for being pretty?
Q. Is it normal for my own boyfriend to mock me for being pretty? I've always been insecure about my looks, especially when it comes to him. Although it's gotten much better now (been together for about 3 yrs), I always have doubts about how I look ...
A. 28 October 2014: Sounds to me like you could be spot on. Especially if the balance has shifted to you being the one to comfort him about looks and confidence. It's very, incredibly immature on his part, and really makes no sense to me. A relationships should be a ... (read in full...)
My Dad has told me he's disowning me for spending the night with my Bf. Feel incredibly hurt. What can I do?
Q. I'm sorry if this post is lengthy and/or complicated. I'm 19 years old, and ever since I turned 18, I've been having more and more issues with my dad. My parents are divorced, and are very different from each other. My dad is very overprotecti...
A. 28 October 2014: He sounds like he needs to go back on his meds, but there is only so much you can help someone who refuses to help themselves. He cut his 13 year old daughter out of his life? That is even crazier than cutting your 19-year-old off for drinking and ... (read in full...)
I resent her, and feel bad about not forgiving her, this time. Is it time to break up with her?
Q. On Wednesday night I found out my girlfriend had been actively looking for someone on a dating site, after logging into the account I seen she was flirting/dirty talking with this other person, I confronted her the second I found it. We've been...
A. 28 October 2014: You said it already, you are sick of her crap. You should in no way feel guilty, she abused you one too many times. You said you have forgiven her before. that's is already very good on you. But it seems she really can't be trusted, and you don't ... (read in full...)
Slept with my ex whilst drunk, but he's dating my friend.
Q. Hello, Around 9 months ago, I got drunk and slept with an ex boyfriend. It was a complete mistake - the relationship ended badly and it was one of the first times we'd hung out alone since we broke up. Ended up having way too much to drink, gettin...
A. 28 October 2014: I don't think you can have a relationship with her after this. I would never forgive you, but she may be kinder than I am. The waiting so long just makes it worse. Either get out their lives, or tell her everything, like right now because it's not ... (read in full...)
He was just being friendly, right?
Q. A young guy has recently started at out workplace and was being introduced to everyone and he came into the room I was in, smiled and said hello but as he left and while I was talking to his manager he winked at me. I know I should probably ...
A. 28 October 2014: I wouldn't think anything of it. Not everyone sees a wink as flirty. My boyfriend's dad winks at everyone all the time, including me. It doesn't mean anything.... (read in full...)
After her meeting with her ex I don't trust her
Q. Hey guys, My relationship it was going great, we understood each other very well. She loves me but her x-bf is irritating her. He still thinks that they're together but they're not. We study in the same college and I went home for a week. She had ...
A. 28 October 2014: So, why is it done now? What did he have on her that all the sudden doesn't matter? Why would you take a picture cheating your boyfriend? I don't understand any of it, and I wouldn't forgive her.
She sounds like she needs to get control of her l... (read in full...)
He's like drug, I can't help myself, so does this mean he is the one using me?
Q. What's wrong with me? Iv been seeing this guy for 2 years now. Hes 21 and I'm 25. Everything has been great moved in.together its good. Recently a old friend with benefits got in contact, saying he really wanted/needed to see me. I have known him ...
A. 22 October 2014: I'd honestly go and see what he wants. It's something different you said, you two have never met for dinner before. If you can, don't have more than 2 drinks so you can keep a clear head. Don't let him persuade you back to his room..
I'd be too c... (read in full...)
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