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14 March 2009: All right, damn it. I've dealt with this stuff in the past and finally got over it. Took me a long, long, long time, but in the end, I did it. However, in my quest for answers, examining my inner thoughts and societal views, talking to both male ...
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She shot me down yet went out with some other guy 4 days later! Why would she destroy 13 years of friendship in this way?
Q. Well a few days ago i asked a girl that i had liked since before i really had interest in girls out to go see a movie. She shot me down but at the time she almost seemingly sayed yes and basically said that she wasn't over her ex yet and i thought ...
A. 27 September 2009: You can't trust a dog to be good, but you can trust it to be a dog. Same with people. ... (read in full...)
I've found out my wife is a slut
Q. Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and my wife is 33 as of August 2, 2009. I just found out Saturday night August 8, 2009, that, well what I believe is a slut. She told over her 32 years of living she has had, 14 sexual partners. Some were one night ...
A. 12 August 2009: 14 men by age 33? She's practically a virgin. Get over it dude, some of us are dealing with 22 year olds with 30+ partners. Try living with that...... (read in full...)
Why are guys so stupid, why do they want to be players?
Q. I'm a 21 year old girl in college, and I love being single and independent. I was in love with a guy who dumped me after a couple months for not putting out (I'm a virgin) and I don't want to have a boyfriend for a while. I've made out with this hot ...
A. 29 July 2009: Most guys are not worth a damn until they turn 30.
Cant answer your question, but rest assured there are/will be men who will be worth your while and appreciate a real lady who is strong enough to say "no" when the time is wrong and strong e... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend worth it?
Q. I at the crossroads where I try to decide whether my girlfriend is marriage material. I have issues with her past and I don't know whether I get over it. She used to go to orgies and swingers parties with her ex-boyfriend and have threesomes with ...
A. 27 July 2009: Your girlfriend is absolutely right. There is nothing wrong with her behavior. And its true that because it didn’t hurt anyone, you have no right to judge her. And kudos to her for not being ashamed of it. She sounds very grounded and knows what ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex-girlfriend, or stay with my fiancee who lied to me, and has a shady past, I do love her?
Q. This is a mess of a problem... and after reading this, you won't like me. Partially because I'm discussing cheating on my fiancee, and further because I end up passing sweeping judgment on people who've slept around. Ironic, right? That said, if you ...
A. 27 July 2009: Dude, you should know better than to bring Church in to this mess. Look at the posts below. You wouldn’t be getting put on blast so bad had you left God out of it. Every idiot on the planet will google Bible verses about forgiveness and throw it ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a past which I find hard to deal with, any help will be great.
Q. hello im 15 in a great relationship with a girl my age , shes a lovely person and beautifully looking but it hurts me sometimes when i think of her past because she has slept around and sent dirty pictures to alot of my friends, i wan to get over ...
A. 27 July 2009: And she's your age? You need to let her go. I'm betting there are about 50 frat boys who will thank you for it in a few years.
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She's had sex with possibly 30 plus guys and I have issues with it!
Q. Hi everybody Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. Im 20 and she's 23. I seem too keep on having an issue with her past. She's had sex with around 30 guys. Could be more. I myself have been with 17 girls, and as such I a...
A. 30 June 2009: QUOTE "So that's 30 other guys who look at you and go DAMN that guy is one lucky sonofa. THEY are jealous of YOU."
Yeah... That's what they are saying. Sheesh. Do actually know any men? Those 30 guys are just glad they got a piece of tail whi... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever left their girl because of her past?
Q. Has anyone ever actually had enough courage to leave their girlfriend or fiance because they couldn't cope with her past? I'm stuck between walking away from someone I love for my own sanity, or having a loving loyal wife but having to deal w...
A. 25 June 2009: I did. It hurts every day (though less and less) but I can tell you that the pain of not having her is MUCH less than the pain of thinking of her getting pounded by every college dude in the state of Indiana.
Good luck, my friend. Where the hell... (read in full...)
I believe I have retroactive jealousy. I cannot get over her past.
Q. I am 27 and my fiance is 25. We have only been engaged for about a month (been together for 2 years) We are also getting ready to go to Pre-Marital counseling with the pastor at our church. I have no children, she has 3 children, that I love dearly. ...
A. 10 June 2009: As someone who has posted on this topic before (I still cant believe how upset I obviously was when I wrote my post), I just have one thing to say. Get used to it. Most women (certainly not all) go out and have their fun jumping from prick to ... (read in full...)
She's had sex with possibly 30 plus guys and I have issues with it!
Q. Hi everybody Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. Im 20 and she's 23. I seem too keep on having an issue with her past. She's had sex with around 30 guys. Could be more. I myself have been with 17 girls, and as such I a...
A. 4 May 2009: Hey man, I feel your pain. I too am dating a "reformed slut". Good luck with that...... (read in full...)
Getting Over Your Girlfriend's Sexual History: How I Did It
Q. All right, damn it. I've dealt with this stuff in the past and finally got over it. Took me a long, long, long time, but in the end, I did it. However, in my quest for answers, examining my inner thoughts and societal views, talking to both male ...
A. 2 April 2009: Yeah...ok... I feel like a fool. A few stiff drinks, and she started talking. Turns out, she was just an easy lay in college.
Nasty. I'm just going to hit it for a while and send her on her way. Funny how some women think that they can be a... (read in full...)
Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?
Q. hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for ...
A. 14 March 2009: All guys want sex. That does not mean that ALL we want is sex though. He's probably just thinking that you do that with every guy you meet. You need to tell him that's not the case and you just really liked him and felt you could trust him. But ... (read in full...)
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